Posted: 16 March 2014 at 7:24pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by *Woh Ajnabee*
Originally posted by PyarayAfzal
You do not need to worry about what I say to others and not. Keep your nose to where it belongs. When HeavenlyBliss has not said something then who are you to comment like that. When I criticized Shukk and Sanam Saeed I also had to listen to comments like ohhh how can you criticize Sanam Saeed or you like sanam jung because she is cute or how can you say Shukk is a drag you are being stupid. So do not act like a retard.. this is a forum where people come and criticize and mock each others opinion. Do not get personal and do not get so hyper that you forget the tameez to talk to others.
You also do not need to worry about what I worry about or not. Because you are also not me or close to me that you poke your nose in to my matters.
Yes, I think it's quite clear which one of us here needs a lesson on "tameez".
1- I don't even know how Heavenly Bliss comes into this conversation. I know that you wrote this post in response to her, but she did not comment on Mikaal's weight. I did. I quoted you because you were referencing different members' opinions (including mine). That is all. I didn't do this to stand up for anyone or to interrupt a conversation between you and any other member. Just a side thought, however, this is a public forum, and when you post something on a public forum, it becomes just that - public. If you don't want other people to "poke their nose where it doesn't belong", you might want to consider private messaging.
2-Shukk and Sanam Saeed have nothing to do with this conversation. I did not have anything to do with that conversation, so that is irrelevant. Having said that, you resort to the same thing. I criticized Sanam Jung's acting on this show, and you launched into a long rant of disagreement. Disagreement is bound to happen in discussions. As long as it happens respectfully and politely, I don't have a problem with it. And no, this forum is not a place where people come to criticize and mock each other, they come here to discuss. And if they are mocking someone or being rude and personal with someone, it is wrong, and should be stopped. Having said that, someone else's behavior does not give you a free pass to roam around doing the same thing.
3-You are being rude and personal in your post above, but in all honesty, I am not bothered by it, except for one thing. Mental retardation is a disability, it is a medical condition that people do not choose for themselves but it is something that they have to live with. It is not the same as being stupid or being ignorant. I am sure the amount of suffering that mentally-challenged individuals and their families face in coping with such a disability is not something you or I can imagine, and we should be grateful for that. It enrages me when people use "retard" as an insult, because you are not insulting me, but rather making individuals being born with such disabilities appear inferior to us, which they are not. I suggest you reconsider your language next time you choose to personally attack someone.
Lastly, it was just a suggestion. Take it or leave it - there is no need for you to make the environment hostile for every member that chooses to disagree with you. Back to the show now.
Xcuseme I was not referencing your opinion, I was only replying to heavenly bliss and her opinions. And you need to stop thinking that you are so important that people will reference you while talking to others and heavenly bliss has mentioned Meekal's weight a lot of times I was only referencing her. You need to first read through the thread and then reply if you are so keen on taking offense. Your first point actually shows how very (not) capable enough are you to understand others' comments.
In reply to your second point, I think you do not know the meaning of discussion. Discussion includes criticism.
In reply to your third point, my rudeness was only in reply to yours. Do not be rude to others, people will not get rude to you. Also about your lecture on retardness, actually you need to learn language skills first and then comment and try to be so high and mighty. Every insult in this world is based on any lesser mental or physical attribute or physical action. So yeah go and try to insult somebody without using any of such attributes. So language and your emotions are two different things, keep them away. In short, if you do not want to be called a retard then do not act like one. This was my suggestion to you, take it or leave it.
And it was you who made this thread hostile at the first place miss who ever you are.
Edited by PyarayAfzal - 16 March 2014 at 7:24pm