One Year Later: Too little too late? - Page 4

Archana could not have done this a year ago, such was her position in the family. Her relationship with her daughters, especially with Ovi was on a thin thread, very tenuous. As parents, they should have. Archana, DK and Manav should have annuled it as soon as it was announced. They just stood dumb back then succumbing to the blunder these three idiots made out of emotion. They did not exercise their rights as parents to correct the kids mistake. But once that drasted reception took place, that was it. It was a public acceptance of the marriage. There was no easy way out. For Manav by then was happy for Ovi, dk was welcoming the new babu and despite archana's unhappinss, she could not rock the boat as she was powerless back then within the family and with ovi. Do you think Ovi would have listened to her or even Manav? She got what she wanted. All that would have happend was ovi would alienate archana for life. Even Purvi, would she have listened to Archana. She was on her tyaag high !
So i guess all this had to happen, especially for ovi to realize how futile it was to crave for a person who does not love you. I wish Arjun and purvi also learn from this, especially Purvi. How futile it is to play with other's lives, even with a good intent and for their bhalaayi. I am happy that Arjun for once did not listen to Purvi and signed the papers finally. I think that he had made up his mind to do so a couple of days ago, but Archana's prodding was the final nail in the coffin as they say..
So, yes, Freedom at last, for my boy !!
Now, whether Purvi comes back to him or picks the halo'ed doc is left to see. Frankly, I dont give a damn :) but, am sure that is what Arjun wants 😉
I only wish there were no babies, death and swapping involved, that is where the writers messed up and grossed it out. I wish they had put their grey cells to better use then.Edited by jdronamraju - 10 years ago

Ash my darling a superb and well balanced post not that i am surprised🤗 Edited by ameilia - 10 years ago

Fabulous post Ashlaika. 👏👏 I caught up with last two days of the show and you have echoed all my thoughts.

Ash, yes, a little too late but better late than never. 

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Ash, yes, a little too late but better late than never. 

Vasu, you remembered that saying? Lol.  Yes, Ovi will be Ovi.  I had posted this rhyme about her once before but it came to mind again :)

There was a little girl, who had a little curl
Right in the middle of her forehead,
And when she was good, she was very, very good,
But when she was bad she was horrid.
She stood on her head, on her little trundle bed,
With nobody by for to hinder;
She screamed and she squalled, she yelled and she bawled, 
And drummed her little heels against the winder.

Her mother heard the noise, and thought it was the boys
Playing in the empty attic,
She rushed upstairs, and caught her unawares,
And spanked her, most emphatic.

There is a follow up to the rhyme which I think is what has happened where Ovi is concerned:

Then one day that little girl

Brushed away that little curl

Away from the middle of her forehead

Now she is good

She is very, very good

And nobody thinks she is horrid!

The curl, of course, being Arjun :) 

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

Ash I would say ,its hard to brain-storm a reel life situation coz the if's n but's are made mockery in reel life i.e they have zero meaning except to either break head of one set of fan base n appease other set.

Logic has never existed ,after all this is a business for money based on TRP language.

The writers dont care what who thinks,if somehow TRP comes in ,the show /script is a hit for them.Unfortunately/fortunately we fans get connected to the characters deeply with their emotions which is taken advantage of by these folks.

So we can make a analysis today of who did what ,the very next day it might be polar opposite with the situations presented.

So I would say why break your head on something which does not exit.

All I can hope is instead of doing all the leap crap or continuing further,end the show in a dignified manner soon by re-uniting all and let actors n fans move on.

it is a nice write up. Edited by newt2007 - 10 years ago

Originally posted by: newt2007

it is a nice write up.

 

when Archu told Ovi to understand the situation and come up in life with Arjun, it is for Ovi. she never said it won't work out when Ovi trickly took over Arjun from Purvi.

 

Arjun never thought this much when Purvi forced him to marry Ovi.

 

Archu now asked Arjun to sign the papers, it is only for Ovi again.

 

Manav is jumping up and down for Arjun spoiling Ovi's life. he was slient when Ovi cornered Purvi with a deal.

 

a year back Manav said Purvi gave life for Ovi. Today Manav is saying Purvi destyoed Ovi's life.

 

When Ovi said let Kidnappers kill Purvi, Manav didn't slap Ovi. Today he is blaming Purvi continuously for destroying Ovi life.

 

Whole family was begging Onir to treat Ovi. to save Ovi and her baby, Purvi came here. forgetting that in a fraction of second all are telling Purvi is the one who destroyed Ovi's life.

 

year back or now everything remains same. all the time it was Ovi whose happiness and decision is center of everything. all the others are just use and throw members.

 

If Ovi wants they all say 'yes we want'. If Ovi doesn't want then all say 'they don't want'.

 

we can scream and shout valid points. all those are to be only for fun and timepass. its a reel life and we can't expect any logic in it. when it is BT show, expecting even a touch of reality is beyond imagination.

Ash, all the other people who have written replies👏⭐️

Ash, this is such a nice write-up. I cannot believe people found things to 'bash' here. I thought you were more than kind to all of them.

I've said that all of them have been at fault - the family as well as trio-turned-quad.

Time may heal the wounds,but the scars will remain...I'll never forgive the writers for making a mess of it all and making ArVi everyone's punching bags for the longest.

Loved this -- "I truly wish that all the characters mentioned were like this -  positive attitude and willing to take on the world in the right, decent, positive and resilient way."

@Jhanvi Thanks for sharing That Little Girl
Seem quite suitable for Ovi here.