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Posted: 27 June 2013 at 10:36am | IP Logged
Its totally fine for DD fans to support. Obviously they would want her to win...i mean seeing the craze which i just cant seem to comprehend Ermm and it is also obvious that they will watch her performance with bias.

The only issue I have here is its ok for them to love her and wanting her to win but why force the others to like her as well?Confused
Why force their love for DD down our throats?
If I dont like her dance/act or whatever that is she does, then am gonna say it...like it or notBig smile
But unfortunately, whenever i do that, i see phrases like " you are jealous of her, bashers stay away, Shweta is the worst...yada yada yada"LOL
I fail to understand as to why they take DD criticism so seriously negative that they feel it necessary to bash a member...Confused Why is it so difficult to understand that not everyone would love DD the way they do.
And i just want to say this once for all, not everyone who criticizes DD is a Shweta fan or a Lauren fan. So please get that out of your minds.

To be honest, I dont care if this woman wins or not, but i would love to see the state of this forum if she doesnt winDay DreamingLOL


Edited by T1ddlyW1nks - 27 June 2013 at 10:46am

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Agree to you whole heartily. Even i would not like it if someone tries to push down their fav down my throat. And agree you have all the rights to criticize her for her dance. Having said that there are certain things that i fail to comprehend being a fan of Drashti

1) If someone tries to make peace he / she is mocked
2) Generalization of all Drashti fans. We need to understand that every fandom has an impulsive lot. But how correct is it to generalize everyone and judge and scrutinize all of them and call them names because of a few certain impulsive ones?
3) Statements like "I hate Drashti because all the her fans make her out to be a goddess or an angel and blindly just follow her". Why should following her be a problem to anyone as long as you are not abused or harmed. I mean is that not what a fan does?

Since the day the forum is open i have been around. More of a Silent spectator but i can assure you that way Drashti was bashed and abused for anything and everything under the sun, just shocked me and saddened me. Not because I like her but because i think NO WOMAN who ever she is ever deserves that. Again there must be a reason why people did that so i would not want to judge anyone based on it, but what ever the reason my question is, WiLL this TIT FOR TAT attitude work? It definitely did not. it only invoked more people to do the worst and made situations worst... And now all that we see are all actions and reactions.

I'm not blaming anyone in particular here because we all are collectively responsible for this mess. In my opinion ,the problem is everyone did their share of mistakes, saw the problems and added to the problems and then cried foul. Never did one look beyond the problems or tried finding a solution to the problem and the ones that tried were mocked and made preachers or essay writers...

Oh good lord! I did write an essay. So now I wouldn't be surprised if i too would gain that name. Big smileAnyways thanks for reading my essay (if you did) I can only hope that things change for the better and we all learn to co-exist with each other. Though at present that seems like impossible


Edited by Azmatazz - 27 June 2013 at 11:42am

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Posted: 27 June 2013 at 11:45am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Azmatazz

@T1ddlyW1nks

Agree to you whole heartily. Even i would not like it if someone tries to push down their fav down my throat. And agree you have all the rights to criticize her for her dance. Having said that there are certain things that i fail to comprehend being a fan of Drashti

1) If someone tries to make peace he / she is mocked
2) Generalization of all Drashti fans. We need to understand that every fandom has an impulsive lot. But how correct is it to generalize everyone and judge and scrutinize all of them and call them names because of a few certain impulsive ones?
3) Statements like "I hate Drashti because all the her fans make her out to be a goddess or an angel and blindly just follow her". Why should following her be a problem to anyone as long as you are not abused or harmed. I mean is that not what a fan does?

Since the day the forum is open i have been around. More of a Silent spectator but i can assure you that way Drashti was bashed and abused for anything and everything under the sun, just shocked me and saddened me. Not because I like her but because i think NO WOMAN who ever she is ever deserves that. Again there must be a reason why people did that so i would not want to judge anyone based on it, but what ever the reason my question is, WiLL this TIT FOR TAT attitude work? It definitely did not. it only invoked more people to do the worst and made situations worst... And now all that we see are all actions and reactions.

I'm not blaming anyone in particular here because we all are collectively responsible for this mess. In my opinion ,the problem is everyone did their share of mistakes, saw the problems and added to the problems and then cried foul. Never did one look beyond the problems or tried finding a solution to the problem and the ones that tried were mocked and made preachers or essay writers...

Oh good lord! I did write an essay. So now I wouldn't be surprised if i too would gain that name. Big smileAnyways thanks for reading my essay (if you did) I can only hope that things change for the better and we all learn to co-exist with each other. Though at present that seems like impossible

i wonder if this one will even be read !!

BTW I dont think you will get  a reply   WinkWink

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Posted: 27 June 2013 at 12:00pm | IP Logged
@Azmatazz- I did read your essayLOL
I have seen 2/3 sensible DD fans in this forum...and I mentioned this elsewhere too.
But most of the DD fans that I came across, i have seen them make personal attacks whenever someone said anything negative about DD. I have read terms like "dogs, rapists..and what not" used against some members...

I have been following JDJ only for dancing, the choreographies coz am a dancer myself.

So anyway, I have read ur POV and completely understand it. And I am glad you understood my post too.
I totally agree with this line of yours " I can only hope that things change for the better and we all learn to co-exist with each other. Though at present that seems like impossible"Big smile


Edit- I re read about the preaching and writing the essays part. I dont have a problem when people write something about a celeb's performance or if they are trying to explain their POV.
But I do have a problem, when someone starts telling me what to do and what not to do when they themselves are bashing fellow members.
I believe this is an open forum and moral policing is something I dont appreciate except when it is coming from a MOD




Edited by T1ddlyW1nks - 27 June 2013 at 12:22pm

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Posted: 27 June 2013 at 12:03pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by -niti-


i wonder if this one will even be read !!

BTW I dont think you will get  a reply   WinkWink

Awww...you know me better than myselfEmbarrassed

@Azmatazz- you see this!...I am not doing anything wrong so why should I run away from replying to any post? 
When I read stuff like this, is when i get annoyed the mostOuch

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Posted: 27 June 2013 at 12:32pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by T1ddlyW1nks

Originally posted by -niti-


i wonder if this one will even be read !!

BTW I dont think you will get  a reply   WinkWink

Awww...you know me better than myselfEmbarrassed

@Azmatazz- you see this!...I am not doing anything wrong so why should I run away from replying to any post? 
When I read stuff like this, is when i get annoyed the mostOuch

Okay , I think you got it wrong !

I never told that it was you , forget about  targetting you   , i am seeing you in the forum only today , in this post !

If you felt that it was targetted towards u , I cannot help it !!

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