Posted: 29 June 2013 at 2:34am | IP Logged
Originally posted by T1ddlyW1nks
@Azmatazz- I did read your essay
I have seen 2/3 sensible DD fans in this forum...and I mentioned this elsewhere too.
But most of the DD fans that I came across, i have seen them make personal attacks whenever someone said anything negative about DD. I have read terms like "dogs, rapists..and what not" used against some members...
I have been following JDJ only for dancing, the choreographies coz am a dancer myself.
So anyway, I have read ur POV and completely understand it. And I am glad you understood my post too.
I totally agree with this line of yours " I can only hope that things change for the better and we all learn to co-exist with each other. Though at present that seems like impossible"
Edit- I re read about the preaching and writing the essays part. I dont have a problem when people write something about a celeb's performance or if they are trying to explain their POV.
But I do have a problem, when someone starts telling me what to do and what not to do when they themselves are bashing fellow members.
I believe this is an open forum and moral policing is something I dont appreciate except when it is coming from a MOD
Thanks for reading my essay and undestanding my POV.. I appreciate that
Well you may have seen some 2/3 sensible DD fans and i have seen loads... Again this is my opinion but yes DD fans have been instigated since the day the forum has opened up. For whatever reasons its beyond ones comprehension. (But as i said i don't want to act judgmental on that.. My only problem was with the generalization)
While some choose to react a lot of us choose to refrain.. because ultimately whatever you say
its not gonna make a difference. People (and by that i mean everyone) need to act responsible and introspect self. Reflect on your own actions before pointing fingers. Alas on two humans act the same.
And lastly about Moral policing i have a different view. If everyone would have been responsible and acted so Mods would have never been required in the first place. But crossing of lines always happens. The I CARE A DAMN FOR OTHERS SENTIMENTS ATTITUDE leads to it... So you cannot blame the mods. We just need to understand ONE MANS MEAT COULD EASILY MEAN OTHER MANS POISON