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Love Or Marriage?Which is Fair..Or Right?

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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 11:57pm | IP Logged
Hai All..This is my first time i am coming to this forum...used to watch PV when it was GC time..but then was not so frequent.then the show changed into this present one...where its between love and shaadi...is it lover or wife to be chosen for the hero..Confused

Hmmm...u knw am like in torn btwn...i know its not so big or its all fictional..but then sometimes its so hooking to the reality in life..well i have not gone thru it or will never want it...LOL

Anyways..about Raj being with the right person...a man who never fell in love with his wife..and only had feelings for his love of past...ok i say past..its the naked truth guys..a poor innocent gal got married to a man, whom she gave her entire care..concern.. and feelings..her love..her complete life to him..Cry.awaiting nothing in return but with a umeed that one day he will change and take her into his life...she is a person who we come across daily or never...rarely...but here i was touched by her character..in reality i had never seen shristy's previous shows ever or liked her,,Sleepyinstead i had watched choti bahu for rubina and liked her with avinash..but now here its soo diffcult to choose...Ouchdivya is going through a sacrificial phase for her love, not able to forget him..same he also asks to swear on him will she fall again in love, how cud she even for another gal, take false promise..thats not right...then yes for saritha she did it...i was like that was not right in favor of all of three...so wat you all guys feel...i know there is many in favour of two couples here..either it will be Raj Divya...the true epical lovers...ya Raj Saritha...A divine lawful wedded couple...So wat u choose...Shocked

For me..let me pour out just my thoughts..my feelings or opinions..please read before going further..this is not any topic to criticize or bash any of the characters or actors..please u know wat i have already stated in the beginning..so carrying on...the episodes are truly interesting for me...i was not so attached before to this new Punarvivah...but i always had a liking towards Karan Grover...so wanted to see him..then i got sooo string attached and emotionally bonded to Saritha Ji...yes..u heard me right...am a wife too..and will never even or cant imagine..a husband not being close to his wife for so long..if it was just two to three years also i cud understand and again consider Raj to go back to his love..but this is tooo much...10 years almost..a wife so loving and caring..so pretty...he does not want to even for word sake move on in his life and seeking hope in his past..its true it can happen in fictions..and this story is based upon Raj Divya..but then wat about Sarita ji..how can she move on in her life..how can as the story is pointing or SBS was saying..get married to Gautam ...that is typically absurd i will tell or mention. Many serials have already shown ..love vs marriage...and marriage has always won,,which is the right and fair decision or right track i wud state...please dont get angry at my thoughts.just putting in my words...u can be against me or with me ..but i will write what is in my mind...if u ask..i will share my secret or experience in life..yes my personal one..please dont disclose to anyone...this to u only members...please keep it safe..am married for 6 years now ..a beautiful daughter of 5..whom i love...(see saritha ji does not even have a child)...but as one can never think..it was not a love marriage..was arranged..and am happy..yes...it sounds true..but the fact is..sometimes i am held up in my emotions...sometimes yes..my hubby does not give me time or the love which i had always dreamt of..or wanted in my married life...also before marriage there was love for me..but then i got over it..and got married...but again i look back..i think wud i have been happier with love marriage...and i think maybe..but wud it work out or be the same like now...but then friends some ways..we have to work it out ourselves and mould ourselves into the situation and live for our family...my hubby is a gem of a person..but is career oriented and rarely gets time to have pleasure time for us...but does that mean he does not love me or i dont love him..Noo..Marriage is a bond which grows with time...it can break with emotions or circumstances..or Tie u in a bond never ending..a true bond of love and understanding...yes we have to work it out and give a try..So,,Here Raj didnt even give a try..was not Yash and Aarti both married twice..Did they not have true love for their first partners..but wat happened...they got pushed to each other and finally fell in love..was that not love again..as Raj said that love can only happen once.who said????!!! Noo..Yes.First love is always unforgettable..but that does not mean we cant move on and fall in love again...We can..if we want to...and give a second chance to life. Come on guys..i know practicality cant be compared to emotions or true feelings...but here we not talking about a broken marriage or a partner who is evil or bad..its a woman who gave her full to make the marriage work and wat has Raj did..aur ab aachanak se yeh chinta ya concern kaha se..just coz Divya said some dumb thing...that Sarita ji can die within a month..wat foolishness is this.but it did show that Raj can feel for Saritha if he wanted to..He does have concern...feelings...not love if so..then for care...then if he cud move on or give a chance to his marriage..he cud actually made her happy...I know i sound sarcastic or stupid not giving chance to his love...but come on guys...even if are in the 21st century..we cant forget our rituals and committment to life and god..Embarrassed

Raj and Saritha got married in front of god..its not mutual contract or understanding here.its true marriage..Ok thats it..i have about almost said wat i wanted to..Confused

Its upto u guys to go with the truth...love or marriage...purity or sacrifice...i dont know wat to compare..Punarvivah for whom ??Raj Divya?Raj Sarita? or Gautam Divya/Saritha???Also i want to mention how Saritha fall for Gautam after she has loved Raj so many years and get married to him, as SBS had said..it sounds mad i say..if Raj has loved Divya truly then so has Sarita..then its difficult..Ouch

So please ponder for few minutes and then give a reply...i welcome both postive and negative comments...ur biased thoughts..but no bashing or rudeness..pleaseEmbarrassed

I am watching the show for Saritha and Raj now.Thumbs Up.and yes cant see Divya in pain but am with the truth..the purity of marriage...Sorry if am wrong..Smile

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Posted: 26 June 2013 at 12:14am | IP Logged
Nobody has anything to share???? Please just for the sake of it..want to know the suggestions or thoughts..come on !

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Posted: 26 June 2013 at 12:29am | IP Logged
For a marriage to b called a real marriage it needs love, so for me these two things come as a whole, as one.
Raj here doesnt have feelings for sarita, and for them to have a real marriage, both gotta come out of their own worlds..Raj must move on from divya and repent for harming sarita with his ignorance towards her for so many years...and i dnt see that happening soon...
Raj and Divya have feelings but his marriage separates them..and their past..now has become more complex with divya trying to ger Sarita and Raj together...I am not saying sarita is wrong hoping for another chance.. but she should realise that what hasnt happened in 10 years cant happen in just one month...

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Posted: 26 June 2013 at 1:07am | IP Logged
hey myra..thanks for ur frankness..yes i do get wat u say...but then for love to happen it just needs fraction of seconds..then its more of understanding the person better as time gradually goes..so u cant say it cant ever happen...yes i respect wat u say...me staying with sarita to get her rights and love...even if its painful to others...sorrry for not agreeing and thanks for ur reply!

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Posted: 26 June 2013 at 1:22am | IP Logged
Originally posted by rosette80

hey myra..thanks for ur frankness..yes i do get wat u say...but then for love to happen it just needs fraction of seconds..then its more of understanding the person better as time gradually goes..so u cant say it cant ever happen...yes i respect wat u say...me staying with sarita to get her rights and love...even if its painful to others...sorrry for not agreeing and thanks for ur reply!
Dnt say sorry, we all have different views..
Just that i am not seeing the logic in that fraction of a second if he hasnt moved on from divya...after he gradually forgets her and sarita changes the desperate gestures she made these days yeah they can fall in love...
Same with divya and Raj, to b together they need to solve out both past and present...so they can b together..

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Posted: 26 June 2013 at 4:10am | IP Logged
i prefer ravya
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Posted: 26 June 2013 at 8:06am | IP Logged
i really want to see ravya together
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Posted: 26 June 2013 at 9:27am | IP Logged
you are right sarita has been with raj for 10 years, marriage is a big deal divya and raj both should move on with their lives Clap

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