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I think Nanhi is justified ! (Page 3)

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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 10:11pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Leesan

Thanks TM, interesting and thought provoking posts! I always love the posts that elicit a variety of opinions, and in this case diametrically opposed ones...like mine! Wink

It's true that I do not understand Hindi,so my info relies heavily on Neelu's LU/WU, bless her heart! Thumbs Up   So I tend to pay closer attention to the facial expressions and actions of the characters, but I know that still a lot is lost in translation! Wink  Nevertheless, I really didn't think that what Nanhi did today was so objectionable as most seem to believe. I saw the justifications in all the characters today: Mohan ,Megha ,Nanhi ...even Beera! Please remember,we the viewers see and know everything,but the characters do not! And so can only act from their own perspective. 


Mohan was absolutely justified in trying to put a halt to the wedding proceedings, bearing in mind the info Addu just disclosed, coupled with his own doubts and   suspicions. He acted as any loving responsible father would, brave and fearless, throwing societal norms and expectations into the wind. He put his daughters interest first,before the reputation of his family! Clap Well done! 

Megha, the same.she pointed out the empty sindoor to Mohan, confirming his worst fears and triggering his decision to stop the wedding at all costs! 
Megha also cautioned  Nanhi that Mohan's decisions were always based on love and care for her welfare,and to listen and take heed of his very valid concerns re Beera. Again the right decision here! Clap

Now to Nanhi!  She has had a very tumultuous relationship with Beera prior to falling in love with him. She has doubted him on many occasions before but he has always pulled through. In protecting her, in revealing all the lies told in Jhansi, playing an integral role in returning "Addu" to her family, helping "Addu" adjust to his new home etc.  She made a promise to Beera to trust him no matter what, and deep down she knows that he loves her very much! Yet she may know that Beera is conflicted between his loyalties: blood vs love! But she too is conflicted: between Mohan's sudden revelation re Beera's evil intentions all along and the intense love for her that she knows exists deep within Beera's troubled heart!  She looks deep within the eyes of both these men ,Mohan and Beera, and what she sees is clear as day: love!  She asks Mohan to trust her instincts,reminding him of his own previous battles with proving his love. 
Remember when Megha chose to defy Papaji 's insistence that she desert Mohan? And she had good reason to at that time, all things considered.Wink Any parent would have asked the same. Yet Megha believed in Mohan's love and trusted that he would make things right . And he did! Clap

Nanhi is not the first girl who tries to convince her concerned parents that her choice is the right one, to smooth over their objections, to allay their fears . And she wont be the last!!Wink I'm sure we all know of such instances, sons and daughters, who insist on making their own choices despite the most vigorous of parental objections!  Sometimes the parents are proven right, but sometimes so are the young lovers! Wink  The test of time alone will tell.

Nanhi did the same today! She demonstrated her love for her parents, but also her love for Beera! And love my dear friends is a very powerful emotion between a man and a woman! Yes,love can be blind!! LOL
She looked straight into Beera's eyes and heart and threw down the gauntlet! IMO,she was tempting him! She was testing his resolve! 

"No matter what your intentions may have been up to this point, I am overriding my parents wishes, because I love you with all my heart mind and strength! Because I trust and believe that you love me just as much ,if not more!  Now,it's all up to you! what will you do?"

Nanhi just followed her heart, and so did Beera, at that moment! Clap  Her love for him,so palpable and so vulnerable , yet so brave in front of all these people overwhelmed him. And he seemed to be almost in a trance,he couldn't resist this love of Nanhi's! So true and so pure! She was laying her life and her future out for him, and he couldn't say no. 

Now, was she justified? I would say yes. But was she right or wrong? That remains to be seen! Wink Only time will tell.  The thing is even if Beera still decides to exact revenge, and a separation ensues, then once the truth re Dadaji is revealed, he'll be devastated and try his utmost to reconcile. Either way ,we all know they'll live happily ever after in the end! Right??!! Wink




Wowww Day Dreaming Nice post Lee Embarrassed Quite enlightening as well Embarrassed and @ red not time but cvs will tell. LOL And ofcouse we could very well see S,R scenes coming.. I mean separation and reunion. Embarrassed

Edited by geethu07 - 25 June 2013 at 10:12pm

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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 10:45pm | IP Logged
By Geethu: "Wowww Day Dreaming Nice post Lee Embarrassed Quite enlightening as well Embarrassed and @ red not time but cvs will tell. LOL And ofcouse we could very well see S,R scenes coming.. I mean separation and reunion. Embarrassed "



Leesan: thanks Geethu!  You're so right! Time translates into CVs here ! Wink   Lol! Yep,seems very likely we're  in for some S&R scenes at last!  They're sure to follow the wedding scenes,right? LOL


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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 11:24pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Leesan

Thanks TM, interesting and thought provoking posts! I always love the posts that elicit a variety of opinions, and in this case diametrically opposed ones...like mine! Wink



Hello Lee,

i will make sure ven I respond to you nothing is in Hindi.

But I am still disappointed -

the Nanhi from ss1 was understanding, smart, intelligent, mature, cld read eyes, sensible. feel something is wrong in the miniscule of things . Here i am unable to grasp what she is seeing in his hollow eyes. They are hollow -there is no love in his eyes.

Yes, children do go against their parents. She says she trusts Mohan, then atleast she cld have demanded an explanation from Beera instead of telling her side of the story. Mohan is not a fool to stop the proceeding mid-way. She didnt even seek permission to continue. Seemed ot me that it didnt matter toh her whether her parents were there or not - cause she desperately wanted to marry Beera.

What Megha said was right - but again she was not that fiesty Megha - she sided with Mohan  -good - thank you - but as a mother she should have taken a more active step in trying to tell her daughter - to not go ahead with the wedding & also demand from Beera what is going on . If not her , then she cld have told Navika to demand. alternatively they cld have postponed the wedding. Isnt that possible? But all she did was cry.

I feel they killed Navika's character




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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 11:28pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by rakhi_u

I thought the way Navika went about doing what she did was not right and infact quite outrageous. She after explaining her logic to Mohan shld have sought his and Megha's approval or at least waited for their response. She just didn't bother. She gave her monologue, didn't try to elicit a response from Mohan or wait for his answer and just went abt the pheras unilaterally. In doing so she showed disrespect to both Mohan and Megha. As a well brought up, much loved kid, I personally think she shld not have behaved in the manner in which she did. It looked as if she didn't care what Mohan thought or believed. In the face of what she did and how she did, her using various platitudes for mohan rang hollow and seemed to hv been said just for the sake of it. If she believed in what she said abt Mohan she wld have respected and trusted his opinion and not trashed it. Yes kids defy parents and marry for love but the way she publically disregarded what Mohan said, what Megha cautioned and didn't wait for their responses to her views and went ahead with the marriage was just indigestible for me and acc to me not in sync with Nanhi's original characterization 


yes rakhi u r right - children defy their parents - but not digestible ven it comes to nanhi who was never like this.

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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 11:31pm | IP Logged
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Sorry, but there were sooo many posts about how nanhi went

Dear somehow i am not  able to agree with you today. I am not supporting Chwanni. Not all examples are taken for every situation and compare it. What Chawanni did today is incorrect. She has contradicted her own statement today. She says she would have not married if Mohan said not to marry Beera without any clause. But when Mohan her own spiderman has given enough explanation for why he is not letting the marriage happen, she questions him and asks him to ulta trust her decision. Who is she to ask that in first place when she knows Spiderman cannot do anything wrong for her. 



If Mohan had not given an explanation then she would have argued, the family would have  - so i dont buy that statement.

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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 11:37pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by rajbijz

Originally posted by rakhi_u

I thought the way Navika went about doing what she did was not right and infact quite outrageous. She after explaining her logic to Mohan shld have sought his and Megha's approval or at least waited for their response. She just didn't bother. She gave her monologue, didn't try to elicit a response from Mohan or wait for his answer and just went abt the pheras unilaterally. In doing so she showed disrespect to both Mohan and Megha. As a well brought up, much loved kid, I personally think she shld not have behaved in the manner in which she did. It looked as if she didn't care what Mohan thought or believed. In the face of what she did and how she did, her using various platitudes for mohan rang hollow and seemed to hv been said just for the sake of it. If she believed in what she said abt Mohan she wld have respected and trusted his opinion and not trashed it. Yes kids defy parents and marry for love but the way she publically disregarded what Mohan said, what Megha cautioned and didn't wait for their responses to her views and went ahead with the marriage was just indigestible for me and acc to me not in sync with Nanhi's original characterization 


yes rakhi u r right - children defy their parents - but not digestible ven it comes to nanhi who was never like this.
nanhi anyway is not like the originall nahi not in anything least of all in soojh boojhnessLOL

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Posted: 26 June 2013 at 12:06am | IP Logged
Raji:Hello Lee,
i will make sure ven I respond to you nothing is in Hindi. 


Leesan: thanks ever so much,it would certainly help a lot! Wink



Raji: But I am still disappointed - 

the Nanhi from ss1 was understanding, smart, intelligent, mature, cld read eyes, sensible. feel something is wrong in the miniscule of things . Here i am unable to grasp what she is seeing in his hollow eyes. They are hollow -there is no love in his eyes. 

Leesan:  everyone keeps harping on little Nanhi! It's as if all the traumatic life events she had to endure as a child,should have no effect on who she is as an adult. People change ,we all do! Not completely perhaps but change must occur nevertheless, that's the reality of life! And I disagree re Beera's eyes! To me,he had this intense shocked look! As if in a trance! He couldn't believe the intensity of Nanhi's love for him, he was transfixed IMO! And his eyes reflected that! 

Raji: Yes, children do go against their parents. She says she trusts Mohan, then atleast she cld have demanded an explanation from Beera instead of telling her side of the story. Mohan is not a fool to stop the proceeding mid-way. She didnt even seek permission to continue. Seemed ot me that it didnt matter toh her whether her parents were there or not - cause she desperately wanted to marry Beera.

Leesan:  at that crucial point when Nanhi is in the middle of taking her wedding vows, all excited and love filled, you expect her to just stop and demand an explanation from the man she so loves and about to marry? Especially when he's accused her of not trusting him enough before? Remember she didn't know what Mohan knew,Mohan was going out on a limb to believe Addu here,even though he had doubts and suspicions. Nanhi was caught up in the moment, and decided to trust her love for Beera and  put Beera's love to the test instead! When she had out the sindoor for him, she was putting herself on the line for him. People in love o that all the time. Megha did the same thing too, when she decided to defy Papaji 's request that she desert Mohan to protect her reputation. Do you feel the same way about that? Didn't Papaji have every right to ask her to do that? 


Raji: What Megha said was right - but again she was not that fiesty Megha - she sided with Mohan  -good - thank you - but as a mother she should have taken a more active step in trying to tell her daughter - to not go ahead with the wedding & also demand from Beera what is going on . If not her , then she cld have told Navika to demand. alternatively they cld have postponed the wedding. Isnt that possible? But all she did was cry.

Leesan: Megha cautioned Nanhi , and reminded her of Mohan's love and concern for her. There comes a time when parents have to let their adult children decide for themselves. They explain all the pros  and cons, they advise and guide, but it's up to the adult child to make their choice...and live with the consequences. And that is what growing up and maturity is all about. Making informed choices and living with the consequences! And Nanhi   will have to do just that!  As we all have to do too! 

Raji: I feel they killed Naviks's character.


Leean: I disagree. Nanhi loves her parents very much! But she's all grown up and needs to make her own decisions re her future. She's always been  shown as very determined and independent ,resourceful and brave! I think these traits were evident in this epi. She's going to need them again in the near future. It is her character that will get her through it all! 


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Posted: 26 June 2013 at 12:38am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Leesan

Raji:Hello Lee,
i will make sure ven I respond to you nothing is in Hindi. 


Leesan: thanks ever so much,it would certainly help a lot! Wink



Raji: But I am still disappointed - 

the Nanhi from ss1 was understanding, smart, intelligent, mature, cld read eyes, sensible. feel something is wrong in the miniscule of things . Here i am unable to grasp what she is seeing in his hollow eyes. They are hollow -there is no love in his eyes. 

Leesan:  everyone keeps harping on little Nanhi! It's as if all the traumatic life events she had to endure as a child,should have no effect on who she is as an adult. People change ,we all do! Not completely perhaps but change must occur nevertheless, that's the reality of life! And I disagree re Beera's eyes! To me,he had this intense shocked look! As if in a trance! He couldn't believe the intensity of Nanhi's love for him, he was transfixed IMO! And his eyes reflected that! 

Raji: Yes, children do go against their parents. She says she trusts Mohan, then atleast she cld have demanded an explanation from Beera instead of telling her side of the story. Mohan is not a fool to stop the proceeding mid-way. She didnt even seek permission to continue. Seemed ot me that it didnt matter toh her whether her parents were there or not - cause she desperately wanted to marry Beera.

Leesan:  at that crucial point when Nanhi is in the middle of taking her wedding vows, all excited and love filled, you expect her to just stop and demand an explanation from the man she so loves and about to marry? Especially when he's accused her of not trusting him enough before? Remember she didn't know what Mohan knew,Mohan was going out on a limb to believe Addu here,even though he had doubts and suspicions. Nanhi was caught up in the moment, and decided to trust her love for Beera and  put Beera's love to the test instead! When she had out the sindoor for him, she was putting herself on the line for him. People in love o that all the time. Megha did the same thing too, when she decided to defy Papaji 's request that she desert Mohan to protect her reputation. Do you feel the same way about that? Didn't Papaji have every right to ask her to do that? 


Raji: What Megha said was right - but again she was not that fiesty Megha - she sided with Mohan  -good - thank you - but as a mother she should have taken a more active step in trying to tell her daughter - to not go ahead with the wedding & also demand from Beera what is going on . If not her , then she cld have told Navika to demand. alternatively they cld have postponed the wedding. Isnt that possible? But all she did was cry.

Leesan: Megha cautioned Nanhi , and reminded her of Mohan's love and concern for her. There comes a time when parents have to let their adult children decide for themselves. They explain all the pros  and cons, they advise and guide, but it's up to the adult child to make their choice...and live with the consequences. And that is what growing up and maturity is all about. Making informed choices and living with the consequences! And Nanhi   will have to do just that!  As we all have to do too! 

Raji: I feel they killed Naviks's character.


Leean: I disagree. Nanhi loves her parents very much! But she's all grown up and needs to make her own decisions re her future. She's always been  shown as very determined and independent ,resourceful and brave! I think these traits were evident in this epi. She's going to need them again in the near future. It is her character that will get her through it all! 




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