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#1PolemicJackanapes: Complete [Note + Blog Link Pg154] 3Jan 2016 (Page 109)

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Posted: 24 September 2013 at 5:45am | IP Logged
This is a chapter of dreams- the ones parents have for their children, even at the cost of theirs,  the ones a young person has for her future,

 And yet life is not just dreams, there is so much else that has to be dealt with in the process of achieving these dreams, mainly the price one has to pay for getting them.


Firstly there are the parents- amazingly enlightened and liberal minded parents- having suffered the pressures of life and repsonsibilities in their youth they have decided to give their children the freedom to live their relationships in the way they want them to, something they had to deny themsleves.

That is very brave when the society around has narrow minded views about relationships and they have to answer to all and sundry about their daughters' free relationships with the two brothers.

Yet it is these same pressures and responsibilities that make Shashi want to ensure that his children have the financial security that he thinks is essential, even at the cost of breaking one's dreams. I can understand where he is coming from, but it seems these fears did take over when he asked Khushi to take up the internship. I can absolutely understand Garima's determination never to allow this to happen again.

And then there is Anjali excited about her dreams coming true but also realising the cost of achieving these dreams. The mom in law sounds terrible, hope the jeeji gives her the support.

Akash despite his sober self is turning out to be a wonderful figure of fun! Love the way the other two make fun of him.

I have updated my previous Res for comments on the last few chapters-

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3641672&PID=92508704&#p92508704


Edited by Japonica - 24 September 2013 at 6:17am

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i miss this story!Unhappy

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Posted: 24 September 2013 at 11:00pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by -HEAVEN-

i miss this story!Unhappy

Me too, I miss the super cool modern day parents Sashi and Garima. Cry

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i miss this story!Unhappy

Me too, I miss the super cool modern day parents Sashi and Garima. Cry
me too. not to mention anji's grumpy hypocrate MIL. she should take some lessons frm garima!
twiggy...teach the MIL some modern parents lessons!Embarrassed

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Posted: 25 September 2013 at 7:17am | IP Logged
this is what i love the most about you and PJ! the realistic approach! its like i am reading a story which is drafted on real lives of normal people!
no back ground music and blowing winds but still it fels awesome to read it again and again! shashi garima is quite a couple ya? having livein at their time very much difficult and then there are insecurities! hope they will figure out everything soonish!

and siblings relationship you showw! just wow! how much they understand each other but then siblings are like this only! one signal and the other knows there is some problem! love anjali and arnav here and also akaash!

ten out of ten for this one beacuse i lau lau this update!Clap 

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Posted: 25 September 2013 at 11:49am | IP Logged
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Sorry for this very late unres, AD was crazy for the past few days..
 


Thing that stood out to me about this update..


Shashi and Garima's characters: They are extremely courageous to have stood up for their beliefs that were drastically different from those of the society they were and are a part of. It takes courage, gumption and strength of resolve to do that, given the repercussion of going against the tide and they proved they had it all. And the fact that they stood by their beliefs and weren't cowered by the inevitable backlash of the society further cements this fact. 

It was only to be expected that they would let their daughters live by the same principles of personal freedom that they had always held dear. 
 
Letting their daughter (Khushi)  carry out a relationship with a man, at her own pace and without any pressures for seeking social approval is only one aspect of that personal freedom. 

It requires trust in your child's choice of a potential life partner to be able to do that. 

Shashi quite admirably demonstrates that trust but then surprises us by his inability to trust her career choice. These two opposing attitudes probably seem contradictory to Khushi, and I feel sorry for her for the first time.

Of course if you see your child making a choice that could be potentially harmful, as a parent it's your duty to advise them and guide them. 

But the place where parental guidance ends and the child's personal freedom starts is a gray zone that is the bane of most parent-child relationships.

Brilliant update, Twiggy..:)) Stimulated those little gray cells in my brain Smile






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