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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 10:43pm | IP Logged
i did not find Shekhars irrational at all...any parent will think the same when they cannot approve of their children's choice...obviously they never thought that their daughter would be so dumb to make so much drama on one-sided love...no one thinks so low of their child...look at Singhs...just because Jagya is a changed man they are so ready to believe that now he can become a perfect husband and they are ready to forget everything...they still think Jagya was trapped by Gauri and the poor guy has suffered a lot...they make this all thing look like Gauri's fault and Jagya was just innocent who lost his way...except for Bhairon no one thought that though Gauri was wrong she is a woman...if Singhs can show their guilty son in brought light then Saanchi has done nothing to be wronged by Shekhars (nothing they witnessed)...no parents think that their child is undersirable for marriage...do you seriously think that Shekhars will think, after knowing Jagya's truth, that whether he deserves their daughter or not...obviously when people fix marriages they see whether the following proposal is good for their child or not not the other way round.
Are Shekhars wrong if they just spoke the truth about Jagya's past...will you ever give your daughter's hand in hand of a man who not only left his wife and failed in his second marriage but also was left by his own family for their bahu...one can imagine how unfaithful this man must be that his own family rejected him in past.
People who think Jagya was not at fault for his breaking his second marriage should know this that Gauri is not the worst woman on this land...yes it's true she broke a girl's house but Jagya would have anyway left Anandi since he lost interest in her...is it Gauri's fault that Jagya found her better than Anandi...and then Jagya behaved like a pendulum so any normal women would be insecured with his behaviour...just because Anandi tolerated Jagya we are pointing Gauri wrong...Anandi's behaviour is exceptions of such extra martial affairs cases...Jagya should have made Gauri apologized to Singhs but not left her like this...look at the way in minutes he fell out of love for Gauri and began to love Anandi again...his present behaviour makes it look like he was never in love with Gauri and all that he said was nothing but a lie...he remembers everything related to Anandi but nothing related to Gauri...was Gauri so bad?...she used to take care of him...every insecure wife manipulates with husband against his family so Gauri is not some devil...Anandi is too great and good even after so much...Jagya has completely forgotten Gauri and i think it's high time Singhs realize that it's Jagya's third marriage and not second

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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 10:50pm | IP Logged
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To all those who are saying jagya is hiding his past or his family is hiding his past, may I ask to whom did they hide his past? 

 And how many proposals did he get so far? one was urmi's daughter who was mesmerized by their wealth and wouldn't mind his two or four marriages... she broke the rishta bec she found dadisa a big fraud. Second rista, the girl herself was a fraud. 

did jagya ever go to anandi and cry before her 'pls find a bride for me?' or did he go to that match maker in search of a bride? 

Poor man, he doesn't even want to marry... but his selfish hypocrite ex-wife for her own selfish reasons trapped him...she was indebted to singhs for giving her free food and shelter and then dumping her into another wealthy house, that she made a scapegoat of jagya by making him agree to a remarriage.

Shekhars do not want him only bec he is anandi's ex-husband.

They know he is now a good gentleman. I think people did not understand why actually shekhars were upset.

No one here is blaming jagya as he did not hide his past. People are blaming only singhs here. It's DS who always crys about her ladesar to anandi. No family wants their bahu ex husband to become their SIL whether he is good or bad. It's very weird according to the society norms and that's what alok was talking about.

@bold - that was my point. They are objecting because he is anandi's ex.

TM misunderstood why shekhars were upset and started quite an illogical topic.


Sorry but i do not feel i misunderstood shekhars feelings...remember when urmi devi said that if he has studied in mumbai why did he came back what reply sumitra gave...that jagya loved helping people Shocked...shekhars are very much trying to not speak out the fact that jagya's their bahu's ex for anandi's sake but even if he was not their DIL's ex even they would have rejected him anyway for his history...just because you like a person for what he did for your daughter does not mean you will make your daughter marry him rejecting every past of his...try to see shekhars as a family, as parents of saanchi and not as some character...no matter how bad one child is no one wants bad for him/her


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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 10:55pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by leavesandwaves

Anandi did not say a single word to shiv about ganga's feelings for Jagya. Why this selective information? Then Shiv will have a fair idea of the situation.

Ira's family must have concluded in their hearts that though Jagya might have changed for the good, he is basically not trustworthy as a husband material. He had 2 marriages and the gauri chapter is still a mystery for them.


why unnecceasry open mouth for something she is not sure of and has got nothing to do with Saanchi's issue...even if she would have known nothing about Ganga's feelings she would not have approved of Jagya and Saanchi's relation...she is not sure whether Jagya and Ganga like each other enough to become life partners...she thinks Ganga likes Jagya and is good for him.

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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 11:01pm | IP Logged

SaJa should  not get married for various reasons in my POV;

 

For starters, as Meenu said, Sa will not be able to keep with village lifestyle for long. It's too much for her to take and to compromise with and it will affect her marital life with J eventually

 

They don't even have anything in common, neither values nor lifestyle, profession, expectations – nothing

 

J is turning into a good person, but he has not yet reached that level where he can prove to be an extremely comforting partner for someone who is first-time-in-love like Saanchi.  For Saanchi, it's first time love so her expectations from her marriage will be very dreamy while J has experienced 2 failed relationships and he is quite dis-interested in nurturing another relation. So he will not be able to do justice to Saanchi.

 

Both are also at a very different levels of maturity, which will drift them apart rather than coming close.

 

Besides which the obvious points from Shekhars view points are: J is their DIL's Ex and he is also a divorcee with 2 failed relations, while their daughter is a self-sustained eligible female with no baggage.

 

It would be not appropriate from any angle if SaJa  marries and Shekhars need to be strong with Saanchi.

 

About J, we don't know his decision yet.

 

 

 

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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 11:17pm | IP Logged
@Shinya

No one accused Jagya of hiding about his past. Only Sumitra and DS do so. He never does it.

Why call Anandi a hypocrite? What did she do? She couldn't speak up for him for obvious reasons since she's already suspected at her in-laws' house!
And she did not "trap" him into getting remarried! DS and Sumitra kept crying in front of her and DS kept calling her and Shiv even at odd hours to cry hoarse about laadesar remaining alone and requesting them to convince him for remarriage!
What's Anandi's fault if she responded to DS' cries and got Jagya to agree to consider remarriage? She's indebted to Singhs, so she still obeys them!

And don't you all keep saying that Jagya also deserves another chance in life and question why he should remain alone? So why bash Anandi now for convincing Jagya in first place to consider remarriage?

It is DS and rest of the Singhs who are to blame for meddling again in Jagya's life and pressurising him to do this or that. Even Anandi's remarriage was forced on her by them. Now they're after Jagya (funnily the Gauri fiasco was also a result of DS forcing little Jagya! LOL ).

Also, it was Jagya himself who agreed on condition that Anandi approve the girl for him if he is to remarry. So why's Anandi bashed? She's only doing what Singhs and Jagya asked her to do!

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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 11:30pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by libsrocks

Originally posted by leavesandwaves

Anandi did not say a single word to shiv about ganga's feelings for Jagya. Why this selective information? Then Shiv will have a fair idea of the situation.

Ira's family must have concluded in their hearts that though Jagya might have changed for the good, he is basically not trustworthy as a husband material. He had 2 marriages and the gauri chapter is still a mystery for them.


why unnecceasry open mouth for something she is not sure of and has got nothing to do with Saanchi's issue...even if she would have known nothing about Ganga's feelings she would not have approved of Jagya and Saanchi's relation...she is not sure whether Jagya and Ganga like each other enough to become life partners...she thinks Ganga likes Jagya and is good for him.


Anandi has said to shiv about sanchi's feelings. Then why not she say about ganga's feelings too to shiv so that shiv will understand that there are complications. By selectively leaking information, anandi is making shiv ignorant of the full picture. If he is forewarned,Shiv will keep this factor in his mind while deciding how to go about. Does this mean that anandi does not care for Ganga an orphan as much as she cares for sanchi who is her close relative?


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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 11:33pm | IP Logged

@Skepblun,

I agree with your posts on this topic but just in response to the above one, I share a different opinion on Anandi convincing J to re-marry.

The way A convinced J was more of a force. She was just not ready to understand his state of mind / emotions. She was all gaga about 'parivaar ki khushi' and how selfish J is if he cannot re-marry for family's sake.

She was forced into a marriage herself, and she did no justice to Shiv for a very long time. In fact at that time she had not even slept with Shiv, and there she goes giving lectures to J about re-marriages. She had literally bullied him to re-marry. Even though she did that for Ds, it is not acceptable, because after knowing the consequences of forced marriages twice, she still couldn't convince DS that J needs time.  Instead she bullied the guy who was already feeling weak mentally.

Coming to the current scenario, Anandi is at no fault. It's best she keeps away from SaJa as much as she can and only opens her mouth where extremely needed. She needs to be extra-cautious, and so far I have appreciated Anandi for the way she has handled Saanchi's matter. She has been perfect regarding Saanchi.



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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 11:42pm | IP Logged
i hope creatives show the real story and dont let saanchi to marry jagat..if jagat is not good for saanchi so how they will marry ganga to jagat...only difference is this ganga has no one in her life so its going to b his sole decision...

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