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Posted: 24 June 2013 at 9:33pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by kshre25

Originally posted by Jyo_Ksg

What vulgar are you talking about?
They have just showed a few buttons out.

Let me tell you as far as I know the word RAPE is out of question here. Neither of the characters have used that word nor anything is proven yet.

Why is QH always wrong in whatever they show? Think from all sides, they have made a huge show, lot of efforts & money involved in it. Why would they ever risk to show anything critical in a wrong way? If they are showing something , they must have researched on it & then published it.

As far as I can see, people are getting too judgemental & take things on their heart soon. Let the story proceed & let things get clearer.

Regards,
Jyoti



Jyoti, you're right in the sense we need to see how this is played out. 

However, I do appreciate what Rapunzale brought forth, we do have many young members and are probably very unaware of men being raped. And if we do find out that infact Tannu slept with Asad, then it is rape cause he was drugged, right now its only implied. (i haven't had the heart to see the episode, but from the WU tell tanu imitates zoya and asad is drugged, from all we can tell is she opened up his shirt,  redid her lipstick, kissed him and fell asleep) 

I think its very important for young readers to understand what is being said in the article. So they can deal with these issues when they grow up, god forbid they have to and help victims and not laugh it off like that poor guy's story. That is only when we as a society will improve. Thank you Rapunzale for this post, it was heart wrenching and eye opening. 
thanks...awareness is extremely important and it's unfortunate and extremely sad to think that it's very true how little ppl are aware of men being raped too.

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Posted: 24 June 2013 at 9:38pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Rupunzale

so hitting a man unconscious...drugging him...having sex...what do you think it is...consensually making love? 

It doesn't matter whether it happened or not...what matters is the way they tried to imply it ? Drug is used in date rape. 

Anyways...I usually don't comment on posts I am not interested in...if you are not interested in a topic...why waste time commenting?

Thanks

Firstly, I get what your trying to say. I never said your wrong. I just cleared out what you were saying about rape.

Secondly, the show is made on a social message thus they'll have to show it to some extent, yes they do exaggerate at times , but we can't help it or do anything with it, can we? At the most we can refrain children from watching the show. Cvs are doing business, it wouldn't make much difference to them.

Lastly, I only comment on topics I'm interested in! Your topic seemed worth commenting thus, I commented.

Btw, your welcome! Wink


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Posted: 24 June 2013 at 9:41pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by kshre25


Jyoti, you're right in the sense we need to see how this is played out. 

However, I do appreciate what Rapunzale brought forth, we do have many young members and are probably very unaware of men being raped. And if we do find out that infact Tannu slept with Asad, then it is rape cause he was drugged, right now its only implied. (i haven't had the heart to see the episode, but from the WU tell tanu imitates zoya and asad is drugged, from all we can tell is she opened up his shirt,  redid her lipstick, kissed him and fell asleep) 

I think its very important for young readers to understand what is being said in the article. So they can deal with these issues when they grow up, god forbid they have to and help victims and not laugh it off like that poor guy's story. That is only when we as a society will improve. Thank you Rapunzale for this post, it was heart wrenching and eye opening. 

Totally agree with you dear. Smile

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Posted: 24 June 2013 at 9:51pm | IP Logged
well written

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Posted: 24 June 2013 at 9:54pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Jyo_Ksg

Originally posted by Rupunzale

so hitting a man unconscious...drugging him...having sex...what do you think it is...consensually making love? 

It doesn't matter whether it happened or not...what matters is the way they tried to imply it ? Drug is used in date rape. 

Anyways...I usually don't comment on posts I am not interested in...if you are not interested in a topic...why waste time commenting?

Thanks

Firstly, I get what your trying to say. I never said your wrong. I just cleared out what you were saying about rape.

Secondly, the show is made on a social message thus they'll have to show it to some extent, yes they do exaggerate at times , but we can't help it or do anything with it, can we? At the most we can refrain children from watching the show. Cvs are doing business, it wouldn't make much difference to them.

Lastly, I only comment on topics I'm interested in! Your topic seemed worth commenting thus, I commented.

Btw, your welcome! Wink

 
thanks for commenting and for finding the topic interesting...yes, you r right the show is made on social message but unfortunately the message are all negative...keep aside the rape issue...every message they have shown in this serial has been negative...physical and mental abuse ( domestic abuse)...dowry...dark complexion...regressive society for women...kidnapping...forcing a girl to marry the rapist( Mariam)...now date rape...etc...was there any positive results out of these messages...none.

It's not about showing messages ...it's about showing the right ones.

Yes, as parents we can control our child ...refrain them from not watching certain stuff but there are certain responsibility that the media has to take ...if media had the right to show anything and everything there would be a department like BCCC.

Thanks...no hard feelings.

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Posted: 24 June 2013 at 9:55pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by --Kriti--

well written
thanks.
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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 12:33am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Rupunzale


  thanks...exactly Ajmer track doesn't make sense to me...at-least not the romance part. Smile


Me neither. But am looking forward to it all the same.
Right now the focus is Zoya...so it'll be all about her.
But I hope with the flow of the story they don't forget that Asad was also victimized in all this.





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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 8:46pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Lhethal.Me

Originally posted by Rupunzale


  thanks...exactly Ajmer track doesn't make sense to me...at-least not the romance part. Smile


Me neither. But am looking forward to it all the same.
Right now the focus is Zoya...so it'll be all about her.
But I hope with the flow of the story they don't forget that Asad was also victimized in all this.



I hope so...but unfortunately after today's episode it looks like that the focus is on Billo ...and not on Zoya...but yes we will be persistent with our views.

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