What does Manav think?he really expects that? - Page 2

You have all the reasons to be angry.. but think about the reality.

awww sunara i didn't understand what actually he said... after reading the WU i feel the same what you have written.

Originally posted by: golpokobita

You have all the reasons to be angry.. but think about the reality.

Manav is a son of that family..he was brought up that way. He is not a rebel by nature .. He has not so far got any compelling reason to rebel against his family traditions. 

He is a good human being, but may not be an ideal husband.. its time that will teach him..

Like others his character will also undergo transitions. That's also part of the challenge CC will have to face.

Chill, guys 😃 
No man is an ideal husband immediately after marriage ... in fact most men grow up after marriage 😛 Okay - 'most' might be an exaggeration ... but all guys, especially if they have lived  only at home, don't see anything wrong in many of their family's customs and traditions. Manav has never questioned the rules of his house earlier, especially not the one applied to his bhabhis. So he automatically assumes CC will follow them. And he hasn't realised till now how uncomfortable she is in sarees ...

Guys learn to be good husbands after marriage only ... their wives teach them 😆 Manav will also learn slowly ... it does happen in real life that way.
Edited by DiyaS - 10 years ago

dear sunara ,,,😳 sorry me i am  ☺️

In real life,guys do like their wives to wear western but when they both live with the boy's family(specially joint family),amidst the society the boy grew up in,the guy does have a tendency to encourage his wife to follow the norms! I don't approve of that though...

Thats the best part of this show that it shows the reality.. No matter you dated girl in frock or jeans, once you get married, initially you have follow all the traditions of husband's family and till initial phase gets over, you become so use to follow all these things that they didnt seem so awkward to you.. It is sad but true esp if you live with in-laws or joint family! Thats what I have seen around me... Even husband wont support you in wearing shorts/skirts if every lady in his family wears saree on daily basis, sad but true 😭 And trust me, its their favorite dialogue "I Have Full Faith on You, You will Learn Everything" 😉😆😉

Every man changes after marriage. It will happen in future too. He will force or i would say want cc to be a ideal bahu. I don't think he had guts to stand against his mom's wish. This is just a start may be this small things will create problems between cc and manav in future. Which UB also wants. But i am not surprised with this. This is main quality which any saas bahu saga hero should have. I want 2 say something these things happen in real life too.

Originally posted by: PhenoixTears

Thats the best part of this show that it shows the reality.. No matter you dated girl in frock or jeans, once you get married, initially you have follow all the traditions of husband's family and till initial phase gets over, you become so use to follow all these things that they didnt seem so awkward to you.. It is sad but true esp if you live with in-laws or joint family! Thats what I have seen around me... Even husband wont support you in wearing shorts/skirts if every lady in his family wears saree on daily basis, sad but true 😭 And trust me, its their favorite dialogue "I Have Full Faith on You, You will Learn Everything" 😉😆😉

That's very true!!! After watching this, I am thanking my lucky stars at how liberal my in-laws were 😆 They never said a word to me about what I wore ever!!! But most families, even not so traditional ones do ... and they expect newly married girls to wear sarees at least the first few days after marriage for sure ... no girl is expected to go back into jeans or skirts the day after her marriage ... especially not in her in-laws house.

I dont think it was abnormal at all.. lets rewind a bit to the ChanMan story ... athough most of us would like to forget what led upto the marriage for various reasons 😆 now watching anuj-sanaya chemistry makes us feel and believe in how wholesome the ChanMan love is - the fact is that it was sort of a "chat mangni pat byah" type of a situation for them .. they met, became friends, fell in love and got married and even from the serial time scale point of view, all this happened in less than a year... they didnt have time to court properly..they got married pretty fast as soon as they confessed their love for each other (thanks to IPL ending 😆) .. so they havent known much about each other's past lives or for that matter learn abt each other deep inside..so Manav has no clue exactly how comfortable or uncomfortable Chanchan is in sarees..