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Posted: 23 June 2013 at 9:20pm | IP Logged
Discussion of the week!

Hello all,so here is my topic! 
We have got the latest spoiler about Gopi becoming adamant about sending Meera to creche! Creche is otherwise a kind of nursery! Tongue 
My question is is sending the baby to creche and baby care centres necessary? If yes! Why? If no why??

Well there are two situations again!
In nuclear families where there is no one to take care! Is it necessary?
In joint families like the Modi families,where there are people,is it necessary?

The stage is all yours please share your views! 
Just a thought crept in my mind

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Posted: 24 June 2013 at 1:53am | IP Logged
Very nyc topic Madhu or very gem with up coming track..

Well creche or baby care centers are not bad eventhough it very good to learn ur kids manners,disciplan or how to share ur things with other.. These all small small stuff kid get learn in these centers.. But we ppl who living in big cities we aware how much they important for our childrens nd how they get help the kid in has up bringing.. But whom ppl who they live in small cities n villages i guess they still not so aware towards their importance.. Like Modi family they live in citiy like RajKot i dont think so MM elders are know wht is creche or why is so important for Meera or yes in joint family when our elders are present to get far better lesson to our kids then i think no need to send kids in creche in such tiny age like Meeru.. Baa,Hetal and Koki i think these ppl are good enough for Meera to teach her all good things n manners.. Im not against to sending kids in centers but after 2.5 years i guess kid are actually able to go school or in these centers.. In Meera age childrens house or has elders are real teacher or school.. :)

     As per spoiler said the ppl of creche mistreated with Meeru so.. Honestly speaking i never seen any baby care center are mistreating with kids ever coz my own borthers kids are used to went but they never complain.. May be their any such curel creche are exisited in soicety who the mistreated with kids.. Ouch well i dont mind to send kids in these kinda centers but before u check ur baby age before to send cause Meera is very small for any schooling activies.. In my PoV Smile

Edited by -GiNa- - 24 June 2013 at 2:02am
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Posted: 24 June 2013 at 2:09pm | IP Logged
Hey Madhu Big smile.   How do?   This track is specially focusing on Gopi's insecurities at being semi literate.  Knowing the struggle she had by not going to school she is under the mistaken notion that Meera should start school straight away.

It is far too soon for Meera to attend a crche.  At this stage it is not necessary.  If it is to increase her socialisation with other children, there are other alternatives, like mother and baby gatherings.  Pre schools start children from the age of two and a half.  

I think Gopi is pushing Meera too soon.  Just because she washed Ahem's laptop and Meera washed the phone there is a huge difference in their ages.  Maybe, also, Ahem should realise that something he said in jest has a profound effect on Gopi and her fears.
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Posted: 24 June 2013 at 3:24pm | IP Logged
or i guess might Gopi compair Modi's with her Mami.. She felt like her Mami whom she wont allow her to study so might also modi are doing with Meeru hence she want to send tiny meeru in school.. I think Gopi thinking is now beyond.. How she feel insucre towards Meera education when Meera have such loving family like Modi or so wht Meera doesnt no english look her age yaar she even cant know to speak properly or u want to she speak english.. OMG..!! SB is gone mad or wht her grand daughter age or Meera age has far difference.. Confused or if Gopi doesnt know english much so Ahem, Rashi and Jigar are there to talk n teach her in english.. There nothing big deal..
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Posted: 24 June 2013 at 4:31pm | IP Logged
I don't think there's anything wrong with Meera going into a crche.  

I live in the UK and my little girl started going to nursery from 12 months old, my husband and I work full time. We live in a seperate town from our families and both our families were against her going to nursery from a young age. 

I have to say it was the best thing for her, she's so confident, outgoing, bright and polite- she loves nursery. It's not about studying at all but interacting with other children, learning how to behave and she does more fun things at nursery than my husband and I could do with her she's always painting, making crafts, playing and learning and at the age of 4 I know that nursery has given her many more experiences than we could. 

Our families have also both changed their opinion about leaving her at nursery and agree it's the best thing for her. It's also built on her love of books and we read to her daily, she knows that we love her dearly and there's absolutely no indication that she feels neglected as she knows she is the centre of our world. 

I was so pleased to hear about this storyline- I just hope they do it justice. 
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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 1:26am | IP Logged
No one can be against.. But the fect is.. In india most especially in small cities ppl are still not believe to send kids in any creche.. They believe no one take good care of a baby as much as their family.. Or we sees same fear in Ahem.. Eventhough he knew how much creche become helpful for his daughter.. But the actual problem is Meera age.. She very small n very naughty we seen how she lost perviously just behind one puppy or how she roaming on roads alone hence im telling Meera isnt in right age for any school activies.. Play schools or baby care centers are very good.. But our Nani or Dadi perfer their grand childrens sitted with them or they become their teacher or learn them.. Big smile or i think thats actual beauti of a joint family..

Edited by -GiNa- - 25 June 2013 at 1:29am
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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 1:44am | IP Logged
I feel that whether its a joint or nuclear family sending your kids to creche is neccessary as it allows them to meet up with people their own age play have fun learn things. I know that they can do these things at home but at a creche they get more exposure and i feel its necessary for them. The only problem is i feel that Gopi should wait until Meera is a bit older.
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Posted: 25 June 2013 at 10:16am | IP Logged
I kinda agree  with the facts yoy have mentioned but AGE! thats very important thing here as I see sherry pointed a lovely point about mami! But there is definitely no mami in picture considering that meera is the daughter of ahem! 

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