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Posted: 22 June 2013 at 4:47pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Rupunzale

Originally posted by kankabhor

100% agree with you.. I really really want Cv's not to show any engagement/marriage even proposal of marriage between Asad and Billi..  we can let forum32 know about it,
thanks. I have posted it in the forum32 and members everywhere is outrageous about it...if Gul tries to pursue something like this is the near future, that is when we have to work harder to get them to listen to us...we have to complain ...petition whatever possible. 

Can you give me link of your post on forum32 so I can reply there..

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Posted: 22 June 2013 at 4:50pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Rockerchic


4lions isn't ready for a rape victim story. They mean what they show most probably. That tanveer removed Asad's shirt, oogled at him, sent him a flying kiss and they both fell asleep next to each other. 

not in this life time will the 'purity' (what a disgusting word) of the male lead ever be under any threat. 

Zoya will accept Asad by trusting that he wouldn't do somethin  like this (read sleep shirtless next to  another woman)  in full conscience. This will go for the next few weeks. That's about it I think. No great mind over
 matter, rape guilt etc etc. 

Alas.

LOL you cracked me up with the word purity...rock.  But, on a serious note this is a crime...an extremely sensitive issue. In real world it's Rohypnol the date rape drug...which is used and it's accessible. 

How can they get away by showing such a thing?

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Posted: 22 June 2013 at 4:51pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by kankabhor

Originally posted by Rupunzale

Originally posted by kankabhor

100% agree with you.. I really really want Cv's not to show any engagement/marriage even proposal of marriage between Asad and Billi..  we can let forum32 know about it,
thanks. I have posted it in the forum32 and members everywhere is outrageous about it...if Gul tries to pursue something like this is the near future, that is when we have to work harder to get them to listen to us...we have to complain ...petition whatever possible. 

Can you give me link of your post on forum32 so I can reply there..
ok...I am PriyankaDutt there. just posted it there. We have been discussing it since yesterday.

Edited by Rupunzale - 22 June 2013 at 4:55pm
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Posted: 22 June 2013 at 5:05pm | IP Logged
hey
i agree with u
a crime is a crime
nd gul cant take it lightly
even though i dont work on large scale
but during my school days i use to work with my fellow batch mates
we use to spread awareness about various crimes
either thru street plays or thru posters
we use to end d play by concluding how to come out of it
i mean we use to give suggestion as to how one can lead a better life
even after going through pain
 
i highy doubt she'll show billi n asad engagement
but if she does then its defo a wrong message
at d moment by showing this she can really give out a message
dt not only girls but even guys sometimes r assaulted
n one cannot always blame a guy esp if a women is like billi
another msg can be dt sometimes blind faith in people can spoil ur life
another thng she needs to show is asad irrespective f considering billi her friend should send her to jail personally
at d moment she give numerous msgs
lets see whether she does it or just leaves it
 
P.s during mangal pur time zoya did save mariyam who wassuppose to marry her rapist. gul did show dt a rape victim shudnt marry a rapist but still i felt zoya shudnt have made her run instead shud have called media n others to let people know abt itSmile
 


Edited by youth_showsfan - 22 June 2013 at 5:09pm

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Posted: 22 June 2013 at 5:15pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Rupunzale

Guys...let us just set our differences about Asya for once here and think about a very serious issue here...RAPE!

Mrs Gul Khan has tried to portray the much talked about scene as SEDUCTION...but it was undeniably RAPE. Does it matter whether its a woman or a man ? NO. It doesn't. Rape is a crime...the rapist shout be prosecuted and should be behind bars. Reports... data shows that most rapes are committed by the people the victim knows.

In QH Billo is a dear friend of Asad whom he trusts and respect...but instead what did she do...she drugged him and raped him. Now, the question is not whether they did it or not...the real problem here is they showed it as Seduction.

I have seen many posts with a concern that Gul might try to enforce a marriage b/w Asad and Billo or even an engagement. Now here is what is very important ...THE MESSAGE...A VICTIM should not MARRY the RAPIST under any circumstances...rape victims undergo PTSD ...they need counseling...a huge support system...lots of assurance...but the last thing they need is guilt ...the thought that in anyway they were responsible for the horrendous crime...and they definitely cannot be coerced into marrying their RAPIST to save their honor. This is not medieval or prehistoric era...this is the 21st century where there is a rape happening in every second. 

With the growing rape cases in India this will be a wrong message for Mrs Khan to portray if she thinks of pursuing any kind of relationship between Asad and Billo. 

Billo is a RAPIST. 

PS: I hope we can leave our differences aside for once and work together for this cause.I work in a Domestic violence shelter...I interact with rape victims on a daily basis...I have seen their pain and trauma. Rape is a crime...and victims cannot marry Rapists period. People need to voice their opinion on this issue. This is a wrong message and should not be accepted. This is a real life issue...and not a mere plot in a fiction. They cannot play with a serious issue like this.








Great that you mention the above! However. A tad assumptive of you! Think you need to think beyond AsYa too .. Gul hasn't shown asad marrying or getting engaged to Tanu!! Till then I suggest you don't waste time on a forum & do something constructive with your time at the shelter! 

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Posted: 22 June 2013 at 5:16pm | IP Logged
Though I think they are going with the fake consummation angle, the issue of sexual assault is too sensitive an issue to treat with lightly. You are right. It sends the wrong message in a society and world constantly struggling to deal with the issue of rape. 

Even relatives of mine who are detached casual viewers of the show were disturbed with Thursday's epi. So, I think there will be some backlash. 

Also, Zee TV bears some social responsibility here. 


Edited by divyabelle - 22 June 2013 at 5:29pm

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Posted: 22 June 2013 at 5:22pm | IP Logged
Many forum members are speculating as per recent spoiler where Asya get married and billi returns after some time to cause troubles, billi wud claim asad as father of her child. I really request Gul and CVs not to take that route cause for obvious reasons

This is the case of sexual assault and billi is the one who committed the crime
It wud be cringe worthy to show her blackmail asad with u r my baby daddy crap and all characters being dumb and crying buckets.

Actually they should end billi's track with Ajmer track.
I don't really understand how can they still have her in Khan Mansion and this is the high time Asad and Zoya realize they are victims physically and emotionally and Asad should never feel guilty of I might have slept with her. If he is that dumb that he doesn't realize he was a victim then I can't say anything abt this character ( hopeless )

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Posted: 22 June 2013 at 5:34pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by youth_showsfan

hey
i agree with u
a crime is a crime
nd gul cant take it lightly
even though i dont work on large scale
but during my school days i use to work with my fellow batch mates
we use to spread awareness about various crimes
either thru street plays or thru posters
we use to end d play by concluding how to come out of it
i mean we use to give suggestion as to how one can lead a better life
even after going through pain
 
i highy doubt she'll show billi n asad engagement
but if she does then its defo a wrong message
at d moment by showing this she can really give out a message
dt not only girls but even guys sometimes r assaulted
n one cannot always blame a guy esp if a women is like billi
another msg can be dt sometimes blind faith in people can spoil ur life
another thng she needs to show is asad irrespective f considering billi her friend should send her to jail personally
at d moment she give numerous msgs
lets see whether she does it or just leaves it
 
P.s during mangal pur time zoya did save mariyam who wassuppose to marry her rapist. gul did show dt a rape victim shudnt marry a rapist but still i felt zoya shudnt have made her run instead shud have called media n others to let people know abt itSmile
 
I hope Gul remembers Mariam and Mangalpur and doesn't contradict her message. It's great that you have taken an active role on spreading awareness. 

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