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Posted: 29 May 2014 at 10:22am | IP Logged
A cousin is not a brother =D

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Posted: 29 May 2014 at 10:34am | IP Logged
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A cousin is not a brother =D

Shocked really?? Idk abt the practice in Pak but here in Singapore, My dad's brother's son is my cousin brother... Its the same as my mother's sister's son who is also my cousin brother... Im more confused now Confused

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Posted: 29 May 2014 at 10:47am | IP Logged
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A cousin is not a brother =D

Shocked really?? Idk abt the practice in Pak but here in Singapore, My dad's brother's son is my cousin brother... Its the same as my mother's sister's son who is also my cousin brother... Im more confused now Confused

Evn in my family we call our cousins brother, not only out cousin, we call a random dude brother. But in islam ur only brother is the one who came out from the same stomach. 
And actually it has nothing to do with pakistan. But it's not forbidden in Islam to marry ur cousin.

I read abt in long time back, but i do not remember those who u cannot marry. But its legal to marry ur cousin whn it comes 2 Islam.

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Posted: 29 May 2014 at 11:05am | IP Logged
Originally posted by -Lostindreams

Originally posted by zaaratq

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A cousin is not a brother =D

Shocked really?? Idk abt the practice in Pak but here in Singapore, My dad's brother's son is my cousin brother... Its the same as my mother's sister's son who is also my cousin brother... Im more confused now Confused

Evn in my family we call our cousins brother, not only out cousin, we call a random dude brother. But in islam ur only brother is the one who came out from the same stomach. 
And actually it has nothing to do with pakistan. But it's not forbidden in Islam to marry ur cousin.

I read abt in long time back, but i do not remember those who u cannot marry. But its legal to marry ur cousin whn it comes 2 Islam.

According to the Quran, you can marry anyone except your Mehram. Your mehram is your brother, father, mothers brother, fathers brother (I think but not sure), father in law, son in law, brother or sisters son and anyone who your mother has breastfed (known as razai behen/bhai). Your cousins don't come in this category so they are non Mehram and you are allowed to marry them.

Although, our Prophet SAW did recommend us not to marry our cousin but he didn't prohibit the act so its not haraam.

http://seekersguidance.org/ans-blog/2011/10/07/did-the-prophet-peace-be-upon-him-discourage-marrying-cousins/


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Posted: 29 May 2014 at 11:13am | IP Logged
Originally posted by HeavenlyBliss.


I read abt in long time back, but i do not remember those who u cannot marry. But its legal to marry ur cousin whn it comes 2 Islam. 
According to the Quran, you can marry anyone except your Mehram. Your mehram is your brother, father, mothers brother, fathers brother (I think but not sure), father in law, son in law, brother or sisters son and anyone who your mother has breastfed (known as razai behen/bhai). Your cousins don't come in this category so they are non Mehram and you are allowed to marry them.

Although, our Prophet SAW did recommend us not to marry our cousin but he didn't prohibit the act so its not haraam.

http://seekersguidance.org/ans-blog/2011/10/07/did-the-prophet-peace-be-upon-him-discourage-marrying-cousins/

@bold - Thats exactly why we don have such practice here... I knw there is no restrictions in Quran, but since our Prophet is not in favorable of such practices, here we don have such... Smile Anws thanks for the clarification... One good thing abt Pak serials is, I don have to cringe since most of the time they don confuse the practices of Islam... Unlike Indian TV shows...Ermm


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Yeah but cousin marriages are very common in Muslims, not just in Pakistan but even here in UK.
I know what you mean! Indian shows which focus on muslim background make it into a joke... :S

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Posted: 29 May 2014 at 11:53am | IP Logged
Originally posted by HeavenlyBliss.

Yeah but cousin marriages are very common in Muslims, not just in Pakistan but even here in UK.
I know what you mean! Indian shows which focus on muslim background make it into a joke... :S

Exactly same here in Denmark. I know this family who do not marry outside their own family WHICH is pretty stupid. I mean cousin marriage is fine, but marrying their kids generation after generation in family will lead to problems.


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Posted: 29 May 2014 at 12:14pm | IP Logged
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Yeah but cousin marriages are very common in Muslims, not just in Pakistan but even here in UK.
I know what you mean! Indian shows which focus on muslim background make it into a joke... :S

Exactly same here in Denmark. I know this family who do not marry outside their own family WHICH is pretty stupid. I mean cousin marriage is fine, but marrying their kids generation after generation in family will lead to problems.



Even in my family about 95% are cousin marriages.
I think the main reason is because parents are afraid to send their daughters in a new family because they dont know how they will be like

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