Posted: 08 February 2014 at 12:11am | IP Logged
Originally posted by renee.bee
Hi thnx for d pm
Arnav's POV ws really emotional as in how he saw Khushi's pain which ws a result of nt jus her past bt his actions which he justified to himself denyin his feelings for khushi.
Spl his actions reg the releasin the video tapes and the Diwali night had a lastin damage on her.
Though she still fought all tht n loved him to the core.
As much as I hate Anjali its Arnav who wud threaten to leave the house over comments by nani reg Lavanya Suddenly turned spineless when it came to stand up for Khushi when his sis demanded to throw her out.
How ungrateful ws he or how little he thought of Khushi tht he ws willin to throw her out even after she risked her life n brought him safe while his precious DI even after knwin the facts pretended to nt understand n still support tht criminal husband of hers.
Its nt fair tht It wud take Khushi to suffer so much for Arnav to repent n redeem himself .
How easily he forgave Anjali by a mere sorry. He shud have told her the day Khushi is well n her odld self will I consider forgivin you.
Dint he realize if Khushi is talkin to her its ju tht she's pretendin to nt remember or b nice to everyone as she alwys wnted to keep other's happy.
Thank u :)
Yes Arnav's past actions have definitely caused Khushi a lot of pain. And though we didn't get any proper redemption in the show we could still feel that Arnav was in pain too every time he hurt her.
That doesn't really justify his actions but that is why he was ASR right? People like him find it difficult to express their feelings, be it happiness or sadness or pain and it is for their loved ones to see through their outer facade and understand their emotions.
I know it was really unjustified how he took her for granted and didn't stand up to support her. But I feel it was required to to put a full stop to everybody's accusations. Khushi was a person who didn't think twice before spreading happiness and kept her sadness stuffed within herself and for everyone to see what lies behind the happy-go-lucky facade this was needed. Losing something sometimes gains a lot of things.
And while Khushi is suffering it is not only she who is going through the pain. Every member is more or less going through a lot of things. As for Anjali, she too is suffering. She is pregnant with the child of a man who is nothing sort of a scumbag. And to get to know his reality isn't that a huge punishment for a woman. She has hurt Khushi. Agreed. But offence is the best defence right? Any woman in her place would hv more or less done the same.
Moreover Anjali's characterization in the show was of a weak and delusional woman and I've tried to stick to that
Arnav shouldn't have forgiven Anjali. I for one think its not possible to keep Arnav-Anjali apart for a long time. Anjali is a mother figure to Arnav, his only support even before Khushi came to his life. He may feel angry upon her for some of her deeds but he can't hate her coz the past difficulties in their lives hv made their bond much stronger. And to think of it, Arnav and Anjali both treated Khushi the same way. If Anjali accused Khushi for 6 minutes, Arnav had been doing the same for almost a year. So if he can find himself worthy of being with Khushi despite his own misdeeds then why not the same for Anjali.
I hope that gave u an insight as to how I have perceived the characters.
Edited by ..Enchantress.. - 08 February 2014 at 7:51am