I am now telling my views on this topic.
First I will talk about modernizing or enjoying freedom. My own personal view is there is no such way, I can make out someone whether he/she is modern. Suppose a person says, having a cigar is handsome and modern, I don't want to be that way. Whatever be the age loving myself, valuing myself and being authentic and live by God's values are all I want to be. There are God's laws which are eternal and I like to live by those laws. Like the laws in Physics, God's laws never change whatever be the age. For me being a more and more caring, compassionate, gentle, tender, loving and understanding person to myself and others is what I want to be and that I see is continuous practice.
As far me I will not comment whether nudity or exposing is to be accepted or not. Definitely everyone has right to enjoy freedom and enjoying freedom becomes possible when everyone takes responsible for himself/herself. No one gives another adult freedom. But that person has the responsibility to take care of himself/herself. And one thing I learn is trying to get attention of others is just the opposite of taking care of myself. If I try to get attention of someone, that means I feel I am deficient in a certain way which could hit me hard as days go by. Definitely if I am trying to get attention of others, I am not free.
One guideline I can have for whether I can do something or not whether doing that is loving to me or is it harming to me? Anyone who likes to be nude can ask this question. While I can definitely accept anyone has her choice of having any dress, what happens to her is her own responsibility. An important point to be noted is the society in this World is full of wrong elements and each person has to do her needful to take care of herself.
Already there have been comments in this section, the dress of a lady can also attract rapists to her. Can crying after raping help her, if she didn't do her own homework to take care of herself?
Edited by maha2us - 13 June 2013 at 11:57pm