Originally posted by King-Anu
# 1 If one is motw then I believe that they have agreed to answer the questions with Miss Lead (who is responsible for arranging this event) during their PM discussions. Therefore my questions.
# 2 If they still want to be private about some questions then MOTW could have added a note at the start
# 3 Based on above, I asked them questions. They were free to not answer and they did not and I respected their decision.
# 4 I did wonder and MOTW was okay with that and she clarified.
# 5 I dont see any issue.
# 1 No I dont want newbie, oldbie, busybee, badi bee, any bee to know anything about me and hence the point of being private. lol. There is nothing interesting in me, my views or life that will be of any value to anyone here.
# 2. Hmm..you have wild imagination. lol. I dont think girls are that shallow that someone can do a mysterious act and they will go after him. Perhaps some do it for that purpose but my reason has always been different. Notw after my first motw few years back I have conistently refused so its not like I am acting different this time.
# 3. I think you know what I am.
I was just having fun when I posted that, but I am impressed that you took time out to answer every single line, so I thought I should try and reply too.
Not sure what happened on your first MOTW, but to me, it just seems unfair that some people can back out from MOTW, when its supposed to be for all members to get to know each other. Can't you also refuse to answer questions that you are not comfortable answering and still participate?
On DM, people are very quick to jump down your throat if you disagree with them. It's so much more fun to debate with people who know you and who you know, 'coz they know you are not taking it personally when you say something against them. And then there are folks who might be more willing to voice their opinion if they know they won't be ridiculed. That's why when Tanni suggested MOTW, I was for it, 'coz I thought everyone could get to know each other. But if you back out this way, others will use you as an example and back out as well, and that ruins the whole purpose of MOTW, IMHO. Gyani BD session over!
Anyways not that I should care much, given I rarely come to DM now
I leave it up to you. But I agree with RTH, you are ruining the fun for everyone!