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Poll Question: Should we do DM MOTW for some time for members to interact better?

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Posted: 12 July 2013 at 9:30am | IP Logged
Originally posted by boreddamsel

Originally posted by King-Anu

Thanks for everyone's concern. lol. However it is not about time in my case. I am an old timer here and I have nothing to say that many dont already know. I am also a very private person and I want to keep it that way. Hope people will not take this as me acting important. lol.

@bold, and yet you don't mind asking questions to others who might want to be private Tongue and wonder why they refuse to answer some questions they think are "controversial".
 
# 1 If one is motw then I believe that they have agreed to answer the questions with Miss Lead (who is responsible for arranging this event) during their PM discussions. Therefore my questions.
 
# 2 If they still want to be private about some questions then MOTW could have added a note at the start
 
# 3  Based on above, I asked them questions. They were free to not answer and they did not and I respected their decision.
 
# 4 I did wonder and MOTW was okay with that and she clarified.
 
# 5 I dont see any issue.

You might be an old timer, but newbies like me don't know you, King A. Don't you want us newbies to get to know you? Embarrassed Or is it that you think girls find guys with a mysterious aura attractive? Wink LOL Makes me wonder, are you really a king, or a queen .. or hush, is that a secret too? Tongue 
 
# 1 No I dont want newbie, oldbie, busybee, badi bee, any bee to know anything about me and hence the point of being private. lol. There is nothing interesting in me, my views or life that will be of any value to anyone here.
 
# 2. Hmm..you have wild imagination. lol. I dont think girls are that shallow that someone can do a mysterious act and they will go after him. Perhaps some do it for that purpose but my reason has always been different. Notw after my first motw few years back I have conistently refused so its not like I am acting different this time.
 
# 3. I think you know what I am.
 
 
Thanks and hope this clarfies few questions.

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Posted: 12 July 2013 at 10:20am | IP Logged
Originally posted by King-Anu

# 1 If one is motw then I believe that they have agreed to answer the questions with Miss Lead (who is responsible for arranging this event) during their PM discussions. Therefore my questions.
 
# 2 If they still want to be private about some questions then MOTW could have added a note at the start
 
# 3  Based on above, I asked them questions. They were free to not answer and they did not and I respected their decision.
 
# 4 I did wonder and MOTW was okay with that and she clarified.
 
# 5 I dont see any issue.
 
# 1 No I dont want newbie, oldbie, busybee, badi bee, any bee to know anything about me and hence the point of being private. lol. There is nothing interesting in me, my views or life that will be of any value to anyone here.
 
# 2. Hmm..you have wild imagination. lol. I dont think girls are that shallow that someone can do a mysterious act and they will go after him. Perhaps some do it for that purpose but my reason has always been different. Notw after my first motw few years back I have conistently refused so its not like I am acting different this time.
 
# 3. I think you know what I am.
 

Big smile I was just having fun when I posted that, but I am impressed that you took time out to answer every single line, so I thought I should try and reply too. 

Not sure what happened on your first MOTW, but to me, it just seems unfair that some people can back out from MOTW, when its supposed to be for all members to get to know each other. Can't you also refuse to answer questions that you are not comfortable answering and still participate? 

On DM, people are very quick to jump down your throat if you disagree with them. It's so much more fun to debate with people who know you and who you know, 'coz they know you are not taking it personally when you say something against them. And then there are folks who might be more willing to voice their opinion if they know they won't be ridiculed. That's why when Tanni suggested MOTW, I was for it, 'coz I thought everyone could get to know each other. But if you back out this way, others will use you as an example and back out as well, and that ruins the whole purpose of MOTW, IMHO. Gyani BD session over! LOL 

Anyways not that I should care much, given I rarely come to DM now Tongue I leave it up to you. But I agree with RTH, you are ruining the fun for everyone! 

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Posted: 12 July 2013 at 10:48am | IP Logged
Originally posted by boreddamsel

Originally posted by King-Anu

 
 

Big smile I was just having fun when I posted that, but I am impressed that you took time out to answer every single line, so I thought I should try and reply too. 
 
no problem.
Not sure what happened on your first MOTW, but to me, it just seems unfair that some people can back out from MOTW, when its supposed to be for all members to get to know each other. Can't you also refuse to answer questions that you are not comfortable answering and still participate?
 
nothing happened. i was just saying i have not participated in one after that. nothing to do with motw.
 
lol. we royals are not trained to refuse. we consider opting out as a better option.  

On DM, people are very quick to jump down your throat if you disagree with them. It's so much more fun to debate with people who know you and who you know, 'coz they know you are not taking it personally when you say something against them. And then there are folks who might be more willing to voice their opinion if they know they won't be ridiculed. That's why when Tanni suggested MOTW, I was for it, 'coz I thought everyone could get to know each other. But if you back out this way, others will use you as an example and back out as well, and that ruins the whole purpose of MOTW, IMHO. Gyani BD session over! LOL 
 
upcoming motws have a choice. on one hand are people with sportsman spirit i.e. positivity. those who participated and did not refuse. on the other hand are spoilsports who due to any reason are not participating.
 
positivity breeds positivity...i think they will choose to participate and not become spoilsports. this is my gyan. lol

 
Anyways not that I should care much, given I rarely come to DM now Tongue I leave it up to you. But I agree with RTH, you are ruining the fun for everyone! 
 
I get where you are coming from. It does seem unfair. However as long as one is acknolwedging own limitation which I did it should be okay. its not like i am refusing and saying i am doing the right thing.lol.
 
thanks and i appreciate your questions. this was a mini motw of its own. lol tc
 
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Posted: 12 July 2013 at 11:40am | IP Logged
@KA, my friends say I do include a lot of lol in my chats now .. I wonder if I got it from you LOL
Wasn't the mini motw fun?  Big smile 
Damn .. I'm still here Ouch Should get to work. Meeting in an hour! 
Take care and have a great weekend! *wave*

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Posted: 15 July 2013 at 3:18pm | IP Logged
still seeing my name for the next week.. is Tanni darling going to update it at all?

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Posted: 15 July 2013 at 11:23pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by lonely0planet

still seeing my name for the next week.. is Tanni darling going to update it at all?
 
i think you're being silly.LOL It's not every day that one gets to do the right civic thing (as folks here are suggesting) while bashing people one doesn't like. LOL

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Posted: 16 July 2013 at 12:49am | IP Logged
Originally posted by BirdieNumNum

Originally posted by lonely0planet

still seeing my name for the next week.. is Tanni darling going to update it at all?
 
i think you're being silly.LOL It's not every day that one gets to do the right civic thing (as folks here are suggesting) while bashing people one doesn't like. LOL
Why would Lonely0planet want to miss an opportunity like that !?
It would be nice to see LP, and you and Vintu take the hot seat as well.
I dont understand why KAL opted out.
Not at all Fox like ! Or is it ?
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Posted: 16 July 2013 at 1:19am | IP Logged
Originally posted by _Angie_

Why would Lonely0planet want to miss an opportunity like that !?
It would be nice to see LP, and you and Vintu take the hot seat as well.
I dont understand why KAL opted out.
Not at all Fox like ! Or is it ?
 
yeah, Vints is one of my favs. Him i miss when he's not around.
 
But it would be a waste on me. So much civility, can you really expect me to ever bash any one? LOL
 
seriously i know only maybe 3 or 4 members and that too from the cuckoo things they write. Not for me all the member related questions that make up the motws. I am sure women here are all nicer than Mother Teresa and hotter than Angelina, no point me telling them that.LOL

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