Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage - Page 4

Love marriage comes with the security of knowing what one is getting into. It is an informed decision one takes and reflects individual autonomy in deciding who one wants to settle with. But love can be blind too 😆 . So it leaves to arrange marriage where one blindly commits to an unknown person trusting the decision taken by family. Apples or Oranges I guess. Still the option for love marriage seems more alluring.

Edited by arcoiris - 10 years ago

At the moment - completely turned off from the idea of marriage, so neither :P

Originally posted by: -Aarya-

 
😆


Make sure you don't find a man who is ...

Coolers. Load them with beer and you can take them anywhere.
Computers. Hard to figure out and never have enough memory.
Placemats. They only show up when there's food on the table.
Mascara. They usually run at the first sign of emotion.
Bike Helmets. Handy in an emergency, but otherwise they just look silly.
Government Bonds. They take so long to mature.
Parking Spots. The good ones are taken and the rest are too small.
Copiers. You need them for reproduction, but that's about it.
Lava Lamps. Fun to look at, but not all that bright.
Bank Accounts. Without a lot of money, they don't generate much interest.
High Heels. They're easy to walk on once you get the hang of it.
Curling Irons. They're always hot and they're always in your hair.
Mini Skirts. If you're not careful, they'll creep up your legs.
Bananas. The older they get, the less firm they are.
Department stores. Their clothes should always be half off.
Vacations. They never seem to be long enough.
Chocolate bars. Sweet, smooth, and they usually head right for your hips.
Coffee. The best ones are rich, warm, and can keep you up all night long.
Horoscopes. They always tell you what to do and are usually wrong.
Plungers. They spend most of their lives in a hardware store or the bathroom.
Laxatives. They irritate the shit out of you.
Parking spots. The good ones are already taken and what's left is handicapped.
Snowstorms. You never know when he's coming, how many inches you'll get, or how long he will last.


Especially Laxatives 😆

Originally posted by: -Aarya-

First time around I would want to try at love marriage and if that doesn't work out then second time around I would go for arrange marriage and even if that doesn't work out than lastly I would opt for no marriage at all 😆

u've got sum great views

I'll go with the "no marriage" folks around. 

Arcoiris, You claim love marriage could work because one knows more about the partner before getting married. But unfortunately the point, love can be blind too which you say becomes very important. Definitely, how one feels with a partner before marriage and how one feels with the partner after marriage can be totally different. Before marriage, there could be a lot of thrill in love and there will be romance. (What is romance? That is excitement and a feeling so much happiness is possible with that dream partner.) But that need not be the case after marriage. After marriage both the persons have to cope up with the weakness of the partner and it involves a lot of adjustment which sometimes is very difficult. Suppose one person says I could never live with my partner which is quite a possibility.

i'll like to have an arranged marriage nd then like to start my love story with my hubby ,ultimately turning in in to a love(after) marriage! 😆 ..yeah!!!