Posted: 15 May 2013 at 1:50pm | IP Logged
I don't know about Marriage.
I think it's beautiful but at same time not so beautiful. I know beautiful marriages but also bad marriages.
But I still want to get married.
For me it's important that the person I marry has same religion as me or converts to my religion. Cause I strictly believe that it's not a good environment for a child to grow up in an environment with 2 religions cause this will result in identity crisis for the child.
I am not saying that because I am such a big and strong religious person but because I think it's important for every family.
After this the person has to respect me and love me for who I am. I am someone who studies and I am very independent. After marriage I do not want to be a slave to the person i get marry. I want my identity and individuality still. I want my space in other words. if he won't accept me working and having a career after marriage then I won't marry such a person.
Then he has to be loving, caring, very funny, intelligent.
he also has to be someone who is understanding and who respects and will care for my family.
But when all that I stated then I do not want someone who is after me 24/7. NO WAY. I want someone who is a very strong person and has their own career and opinions and who has an individuality too.
I like possessive people. I am very open minded and liberal BUT I still want my better half to be someone who is a mard in the traditional sense, I mean who want let other people have bad view on me etc. and if someone touches me should go and beat that person up.
Also the person who I will marry should want the same amount of children I want, make sure there is at least one annual holiday every year and must also take care of the house stuff.
Then there is:
- must be tall
- NOT hairy
- light chocolate brown, not too dark and too light either
- sexy voice
- good at sports
Edited by Crystal__ - 15 May 2013 at 1:53pm