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Posted: 08 May 2013 at 11:22am | IP Logged

with all due respect why is it anytime its a topic regarding ovi ,purvi ,arjun and onir has to come come up but when the topic is about arjun/purvi or onir ,people get anooyed for bringing up ovi and say tha it is not about ovi but the next three but then again what is good for one is not good for all...

 Further more just as how everyone sings the song that is was purvi who is respeonsible for her situation  for making the decision to accept the deal that ovi hatched with her  twisted mind, let the same principle apply with ovi beign a drunk and not blame purvi ,arjun or onir for her devastation /drunk state.she chose that with her  eyes wide open,let she live with the consequences.

 

if alcohol is the only way she know how to  deal with her issues then her father insetad of shouting at  soham and blaming  arjun should take her to get some help.  first step to recovery is  admitting she has a drinking problem ,then getting the help she so needs..

just as how everyone keeps harpering that purvi made her choice of giving up arjun ,well darlings not one of those  3 bought the alco,opened it or forced it down ovi's throat she did that all by her self.so why blame others. besides she left arjun ,she run away like a tjief i the night,so what she   complaining about purvi and pari in the room.
didnt she her self said i dont see love in your eyes for me arjun in the video, so what she expecting from arjun now to chase her and say miraculously i love you ovi, i cant live without you please come back.
 
steups why cant she talk the talk and walk the walk.you leave arjun,whateevr he does with his life is his business now,if he want purvi or 100 hundred other women  its his choice,just as it was ovi's choice and decision to end up with a man who doesnt love you.
its her  mind,her conscience ,her actions,wrong choices and decision is what having her in a drunkard steupor today nobody else causing it.I am speaking about ovi ,not the   3 others,they dealing with thie hurt /pain differently,leave them out of it. it is ovi complaining to her papa as usaual about  purvi and arjun but yet   papa and daughter failed to realise that  daughter ovi  place herself in the center of the destruction.
 
 i hope arjun lives up to his nameas  a cheat and get some other woman,purvi lives up to her name as cheap and have a nice romance with onir and onir lives uo to his name as a crminal and  kidnap/kill or some other illegal activity,coz ovi is sure living up to her name as a weakling who drinks for every littles issues that doesnt go her way.when ovi cant get what she wants she complains ,blames and drinks.
 
my view,my perception,my inferences, my take on the situation.  you have a choice to agree or disagree,its up to u but i am equally at liberty to  portray my feelings on the situation  via written  means just like everyone else.
 
 

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Posted: 08 May 2013 at 11:27am | IP Logged
Chinyere, loved your post. Yes, she is an adult and is responsibe for her choices

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Posted: 08 May 2013 at 11:30am | IP Logged
Originally posted by chinyere

with all due respect why is it anytime its a topic regarding ovi ,purvi ,arjun and onir has to come come up but when the topic is about arjun/purvi or onir ,people get anooyed for bringing up ovi and say tha it is not about ovi but the next three but then again what is good for one is not good for all...

 Further more just as how everyone sings the song that is was purvi who is respeonsible for her situation  for making the decision to accept the deal that ovi hatched with her  twisted mind, let the same principle apply with ovi beign a drunk and not blame purvi ,arjun or onir for her devastation /drunk state.she chose that with her  eyes wide open,let she live with the consequences.

 

if alcohol is the only way she know how to  deal with her issues then her father insetad of shouting at  soham and blaming  arjun should take her to get some help.  first step to recovery is  admitting she has a drinking problem ,then getting the help she so needs..

just as how everyone keeps harpering that purvi made her choice of giving up arjun ,well darlings not one of those  3 bought the alco,opened it or forced it down ovi's throat she did that all by her self.so why blame others. besides she left arjun ,she run away like a tjief i the night,so what she   complaining about purvi and pari in the room.
didnt she her self said i dont see love in your eyes for me arjun in the video, so what she expecting from arjun now to chase her and say miraculously i love you ovi, i cant live without you please come back.
 
steups why cant she talk the talk and walk the walk.you leave arjun,whateevr he does with his life is his business now,if he want purvi or 100 hundred other women  its his choice,just as it was ovi's choice and decision to end up with a man who doesnt love you.
its her  mind,her conscience ,her actions,wrong choices and decision is what having her in a drunkard steupor today nobody else causing it.I am speaking about ovi ,not the   3 others,they dealing with thie hurt /pain differently,leave them out of it. it is ovi complaining to her papa as usaual about  purvi and arjun but yet   papa and daughter failed to realise that  daughter ovi  place herself in the center of the destruction.
 
 i hope arjun lives up to his nameas  a cheat and get some other woman,purvi lives up to her name as cheap and have a nice romance with onir and onir lives uo to his name as a crminal and  kidnap/kill or some other illegal activity,coz ovi is sure living up to her name as a weakling who drinks for every littles issues that doesnt go her way.when ovi cant get what she wants she complains ,blames and drinks.
 
my view,my perception,my inferences, my take on the situation.  you have a choice to agree or disagree,its up to u but i am equally at liberty to  portray my feelings on the situation  via written  means just like everyone else.
 
 
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Posted: 08 May 2013 at 11:36am | IP Logged
Originally posted by chinyere

with all due respect why is it anytime its a topic regarding ovi ,purvi ,arjun and onir has to come come up but when the topic is about arjun/purvi or onir ,people get anooyed for bringing up ovi and say tha it is not about ovi but the next three but then again what is good for one is not good for all...

 Further more just as how everyone sings the song that is was purvi who is respeonsible for her situation  for making the decision to accept the deal that ovi hatched with her  twisted mind, let the same principle apply with ovi beign a drunk and not blame purvi ,arjun or onir for her devastation /drunk state.she chose that with her  eyes wide open,let she live with the consequences.

 

if alcohol is the only way she know how to  deal with her issues then her father insetad of shouting at  soham and blaming  arjun should take her to get some help.  first step to recovery is  admitting she has a drinking problem ,then getting the help she so needs..

just as how everyone keeps harpering that purvi made her choice of giving up arjun ,well darlings not one of those  3 bought the alco,opened it or forced it down ovi's throat she did that all by her self.so why blame others. besides she left arjun ,she run away like a tjief i the night,so what she   complaining about purvi and pari in the room.
didnt she her self said i dont see love in your eyes for me arjun in the video, so what she expecting from arjun now to chase her and say miraculously i love you ovi, i cant live without you please come back.
 
steups why cant she talk the talk and walk the walk.you leave arjun,whateevr he does with his life is his business now,if he want purvi or 100 hundred other women  its his choice,just as it was ovi's choice and decision to end up with a man who doesnt love you.
its her  mind,her conscience ,her actions,wrong choices and decision is what having her in a drunkard steupor today nobody else causing it.I am speaking about ovi ,not the   3 others,they dealing with thie hurt /pain differently,leave them out of it. it is ovi complaining to her papa as usaual about  purvi and arjun but yet   papa and daughter failed to realise that  daughter ovi  place herself in the center of the destruction.
 
 i hope arjun lives up to his nameas  a cheat and get some other woman,purvi lives up to her name as cheap and have a nice romance with onir and onir lives uo to his name as a crminal and  kidnap/kill or some other illegal activity,coz ovi is sure living up to her name as a weakling who drinks for every littles issues that doesnt go her way.when ovi cant get what she wants she complains ,blames and drinks.
 
my view,my perception,my inferences, my take on the situation.  you have a choice to agree or disagree,its up to u but i am equally at liberty to  portray my feelings on the situation  via written  means just like everyone else.
 
 

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Posted: 08 May 2013 at 11:36am | IP Logged
Originally posted by chinyere

with all due respect why is it anytime its a topic regarding ovi ,purvi ,arjun and onir has to come come up but when the topic is about arjun/purvi or onir ,people get anooyed for bringing up ovi and say tha it is not about ovi but the next three but then again what is good for one is not good for all...

 Further more just as how everyone sings the song that is was purvi who is respeonsible for her situation  for making the decision to accept the deal that ovi hatched with her  twisted mind, let the same principle apply with ovi beign a drunk and not blame purvi ,arjun or onir for her devastation /drunk state.she chose that with her  eyes wide open,let she live with the consequences.

 

if alcohol is the only way she know how to  deal with her issues then her father insetad of shouting at  soham and blaming  arjun should take her to get some help.  first step to recovery is  admitting she has a drinking problem ,then getting the help she so needs..

just as how everyone keeps harpering that purvi made her choice of giving up arjun ,well darlings not one of those  3 bought the alco,opened it or forced it down ovi's throat she did that all by her self.so why blame others. besides she left arjun ,she run away like a tjief i the night,so what she   complaining about purvi and pari in the room.
didnt she her self said i dont see love in your eyes for me arjun in the video, so what she expecting from arjun now to chase her and say miraculously i love you ovi, i cant live without you please come back.
 
steups why cant she talk the talk and walk the walk.you leave arjun,whateevr he does with his life is his business now,if he want purvi or 100 hundred other women  its his choice,just as it was ovi's choice and decision to end up with a man who doesnt love you.
its her  mind,her conscience ,her actions,wrong choices and decision is what having her in a drunkard steupor today nobody else causing it.I am speaking about ovi ,not the   3 others,they dealing with thie hurt /pain differently,leave them out of it. it is ovi complaining to her papa as usaual about  purvi and arjun but yet   papa and daughter failed to realise that  daughter ovi  place herself in the center of the destruction.
 
 i hope arjun lives up to his nameas  a cheat and get some other woman,purvi lives up to her name as cheap and have a nice romance with onir and onir lives uo to his name as a crminal and  kidnap/kill or some other illegal activity,coz ovi is sure living up to her name as a weakling who drinks for every littles issues that doesnt go her way.when ovi cant get what she wants she complains ,blames and drinks.
 
my view,my perception,my inferences, my take on the situation.  you have a choice to agree or disagree,its up to u but i am equally at liberty to  portray my feelings on the situation  via written  means just like everyone else.
 
 

 

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Posted: 08 May 2013 at 11:37am | IP Logged
once a alcoholic always a alcoholic = Ovi

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Posted: 08 May 2013 at 11:40am | IP Logged
Bewdapan runs in the family! LOL 

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Posted: 08 May 2013 at 12:04pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by mysticzeal

Originally posted by bubbles22

Manav and co need their heads checked!! How and what gives manav the reason to blame Arjun every single time.Mistakes can and have happened with both Ovi and Arjun. So why is only one reprimanded and not Ovi for looking at everything as if she is a victim of Arjun?
She knew she made a deal for marrying Arjun
She knew Arjun loved Purvi 
She should have also known that people cannot stop loving someone just because they married someone else. Infact Arjuns love for Purvi is so much that he agreed to marry Ovi for her sake

Even though Ovi can forget these  as she expects love from her husband, what about Manav and family? Dont they know the deal made by Ovi for marrying Ovi?
amar arjun's love was so much for amar purvi that he conveniently had sex with ovi whenever he wanted

Arjun had sex with Ovi! Purvi proposed sex with Onir. 
True

But think of the timeline.
Its easy to blame Arjun and Purvi and even I dont support them on certain issues! 
BUT, Arjun had sex with Ovi, while trying to work through this relationship with her. That he didnt do a great job of having amnesia and forgetting about Purvi as a person completly is what has him in trouble. On the flip side, all you guys act as if he was having 'mental sex' with Purvi. He didnt drool after her after he was married to Ovi. Definetly not in the sexual context. He has just been unlucky to feel awkward and in the wrong place at the wrong time and also for not being able to forget the existence of Purvi. ( and people who expect someone to forget their true love completely havent loved anyone that way..so ..they wouldnt know)
His biggest mistake for me is his biggest sacrifice as well.He should not have agreed to marry Ovi under Purvi's insistence.  He could have stayed single, rather than marry on a deal!!
Purvi, the less said the better. She somehow thinks having sex with a person will seal the relationship of marriage. She suggested the same to Arjun about Ovi and now she is applying the same to herself.Angry

But how come all of the stuff leads to sex in these topics? I actually see that Arjun and Purvi are made for each other despite what has happened physically with them, their relationships.
I am not bringing some concept of sleeping around, but physical intimacy is only one of the aspects of marriage.. not all of it. To define it just by that aspect is severely limiting it.

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