Originally posted by Justlikethat1
Madhu, a very thoughtful topic
It will make me write pages..
But for now let me write a few lines..
Is Koki a good mother.. Yes, in certain aspects. She has brought up two children who at most times are respectful, have a conscience, don't say lies, are true to their nature and do not stand injustice. But that does not make her a perfect mom.
She has her flaws..
Same goes for Hetal. If there was no Rashi in the Modis life, I would have thought that Hetal was the perfect mother.. Easy going, loving, kind, lovely, respectful.. But with the presence of Rashi, one understands where Hetal goes wrong. She is too blind and too easy going
Urmi, for all her faults IMHO is an alright mother.. Yeah.. She teaches wrong things to Rashi but one can never doubt her love for Rashi.. Urmi is not worried for Rashi in this track only because she does not know the actual trouble Rashi is in.. Otherwise, remember the times she has done things for Rashi that she would do for no one else.. SHe went as far to take the entire blame of Vansh fiasco on her head.. No.. Urmi loves Rashi.
One thing I don't agree though is that Rashi is bad because of Urmi.. Urmi did contribute to Rashi's psych but I don't agree that Urmi is the only reason for Rashi being the person she is..
Rashi is basically evil in herself and inspite of sounding like a broken record ,parents are not responsible for every mistake a child does after the children grow up.. If that is the case, every murderer will site this as his trial defense.. No.. Parents are not the only reason we do bad things. Rashi hurts others because she is evil herself. I will not question Urmi's parenting for that
Fantastic reply as usual harini
What you said about hetal is something which is absolutely correct and there is no point of argument here! Considering how bad and worse things urmila and rashi have done to gopi and modi family! Can you actually tell thst only rashi is at fault because she didn't oppose what her mother was saying despite being educated! Not that education matters but ok she in her senses! What happened to the teachings of urmi? From day one urmi had taught these ways to rashi so isn't it quite obvious for rashi to do something like this for riches!
Im glad you liked the topic coz I felt it was a bit dry