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Posted: 30 April 2013 at 4:48am | IP Logged
A simple lifeless chewing gum acted as the trigger for a major mindless fight between our cute couple. It looks so silly and senseless from our end. But this is how a newly married couple fight--- for silliest of the reasons as they are still so immature and learning the rules of marriageLOL. And AKA being a realistic show nicely portrays it.Thumbs Up Maybe that's why people say that first two years are very important for a married couple because that is when they learn to adjust, to live with each other, come to know their spouse's good points and flaws. So let's analyze what lead to this fight.Ermm Rather than blindly taking sides we shall see each aspect and analyze what went wrong and what they could have done. Of course there is still room for healthy discussion, agreement and disagreement.

Amit wanted to throw the chewing gum: Well the ideal solution would be to throw it in the dustbin, but he chose to keep it in the ticket. Amitji yeh to galat bat hain na! Agar sahi dhangse feka hota to yeh mahabharat hoti hi nahi!Tongue


Amita screamed on Amit in front of all: Yes, agreed she was upset. People do react wildly as she did. But she has to remember that she is married now. If she wanted to show her anger then she should have spoken about it when they were alone and not in front of others.Ouch After all he honestly confessed that he unknowingly did this and did not do it on purpose. Even the way Jigna spoke to Amit was not right.Shocked If you see it in a friend's POV, it was just her concern for Amita. But then she is still a third person and she should have left them to deal with this.


Amit told that 'Agar bal katna bhi pade phir bhi mein gum nikal dunga!':Poor guy! LOL He said that out of his concern. He neither had a sister nor a GF. So how would he know these girly ways and that girls are very touchy about their hair? Come on Ammu: Give him some time after all he too is learning and adjusting.Star


Amita changes the direction of the car mirror: It is driver's sole responsibility to concentrate and drive irrespective of disturbances. But indirectly even she is equally responsible for this accident. Why did she change the direction of the mirror and divert his attention?Confused


Amit keeps reminding her that they married for the well-being of both the families: Amitji: What is the point in reminding this again and again? Now it is a past event. Now you both are married and so concentrate on building your new relationship with Amita.Smile


Amita reminded him about his big ego and his past (Snehal): This was wrong on her part to remind him of his past.Unhappy Amit had confessed everything before marriage and it was not as if he hid something from her. So she had an option to opt out from this marriage or update this fact to her parents. Even after knowing all these facts she agreed to marry citing family prestige and happiness.Then why is she getting angry now. Yes, agreed she was hurt by that fact. But will reminding his past make her current relationship with him any better? Rather she is ruining it herself.Angry


Take away from yesterday's episode

Never fight in front of others: How ever close they maybe, a married couple should avoid fighting in front of others. As a third person, they might get tempted to take sides or provide their inputs / views which might hurt the guy or his spouse. This is a strict NO NO. Dead

Never fight in the car: Perhaps unknowingly tempers might run high. The person driving the car not only puts his life in danger but jeopardizing others life too.Shocked

When you are angry, it is better to keep your thoughts to yourself: When a person is angry, he might say few words at spur of the moment which he might repent later.Wink


Sorry for the long post and thanks for bearing with me. Hit on like button if you like the post. Do pour in your ideas and views too!

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Edited by emeraldeye - 30 April 2013 at 5:41am

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Posted: 30 April 2013 at 5:18am | IP Logged
Excellent analysis!Clap

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Posted: 30 April 2013 at 5:21am | IP Logged
Nice post Embarrassed Loving the fights between the couple. Smile

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Posted: 30 April 2013 at 10:14am | IP Logged
Originally posted by lily.lotus.rosy

Excellent analysis!Clap
Thanks lily.lotus.rosy! Thumbs Up

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[QUOTE=geethu07]Nice post Embarrassed Loving the fights between the couple. Smile[/QUOTE]Thanks Geethu! Smile

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Posted: 30 April 2013 at 10:25am | IP Logged
waaoo.. pointed out the right things... specially the moment amit said the statement 'Agar bal katna bhi pade phir bhi mein gum nikal dunga!'  i was like ohhh nooo amit... u shud not have said that.. 

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Posted: 30 April 2013 at 10:31am | IP Logged
Originally posted by grintson

waaoo.. pointed out the right things... specially the moment amit said the statement 'Agar bal katna bhi pade phir bhi mein gum nikal dunga!'  i was like ohhh nooo amit... u shud not have said that.. 


Thumbs Up Yes, some people tend to say wrong things at the wrong time. And this was one of them.LOL

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Posted: 30 April 2013 at 10:49am | IP Logged
Very good and nicely written yaar.. Perfect analysis Smile
 
One thing I would like to add my POV..
 
It is not only driver responsibility for safe driving..passengers are also equally responsible for safe driving..Changing the rearview mirror direction that too in night drive is a sensless act...
It's just hair it will grow even we die.. but we cann't afford to play with humanlife..


Edited by chennai28 - 30 April 2013 at 11:24am

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