Megha must be strong& unbiased when she meets Addu

In the last episode we saw Megha finally admit to Mohan that she had made the mistake of blindly listening to Addu without checking the facts and that Addu had actually manipulated the situation between Mohan and her. She even said that Addu should now apologize for what he had done 12 years back. This is an absolutely correct assessment by Megha and now she must remain true to this assessment if she wants to be fair to Mohan and correct Addu's life.

When she confronts Addu she must demand these explanations and ask him why he did what all he did 12 years back. It would be sad and unfair if on meeting Addu she lets the flood of emotions and the happiness to meet him after so long overtake her and she ends up embracing Addu and his mistakes. I hope she has the strength, courage and objectivity to question him on his mistakes and also reprimand him for willingly choosing a life of evil.

Do you think Megha will manage to be objective and unbiased and be fair to Mohan or will she completely give in to her old Addu jaap?

It would be sad and unfair if on meeting Addu she lets the flood of emotions and the happiness to meet him after so long overtake her and she ends up embracing Addu and his mistakes.😆

How I wish Megha behaves objectively!!!, but will she? ? ? ?   ???? Not really.

But one thing about Megha, her emotional response can change in a moment. Atleast we saw that twice in case of season 2, with Mohan. The shivaratri procession, MM meeting / hiting on each other, she gave him a hug in public. But in moments was converted into a ranting Mom who lost her child.

Another time was MM Guru confrontation about Rimjhim being Mohan's adopted daughter. She was furious initially and then really lovy dovy after Guru disclosed the truth and his reasons behind it.

So I dont mind if after meeting her long lost son for the first time in 12 years, the Mom in Megha hugs him, is very happy to have found him. That is expected. But soon she may ask him those questions, even if she wants to console him that 'you said such things to be and I believed you. But then look what happened, you grew up without us and our family was shattered. Why did you tell me those lies? I never can tolerate lies, where did you learn to tell the lies? Who told you about Sautela Baap?'

These questions may expose Addu, Renu and then Megha can go full on angry on them.

Its my personal wish that Megha really gives few really bitter words to Renu. It will be lovely if Mohan has some wonderful words of reality check for Renu, like 'Mrs. Vyas ki dabbawali', 'Aap ho na ghar ki, dikh raha hai'.

But really like you I too want Megha to be objective about Addu.

- Swati.

Originally posted by: zandu37

In the last episode we saw Megha finally admit to Mohan that she had made the mistake of blindly listening to Addu without checking the facts and that Addu had actually manipulated the situation between Mohan and her. She even said that Addu should now apologize for what he had done 12 years back. This is an absolutely correct assessment by Megha and now she must remain true to this assessment if she wants to be fair to Mohan and correct Addu's life.

I know it sounds correct for everyone that Addu should apologize for what he has done. But i disagree on this whole point. But infact Addu was small kid of 4 years. He did what he did as a kid. And time has punished Addu already by making him loose his family and face difficult childhood and face all hardships which no kid should face.  In my view its Megha who should apologize for what has happened not Addu. Addu sirf bachha tha. Usko achhe bure ki samajh kam thi. But Megha was elderly Mother and mature woman, she misjudged Addu and Mohan. 

Its agreed that Addu should apologize for the mistakes he did without understanding things and tried to harm RJ, Nanhi and Mohan even after growing up. For this Act he should apologize not for what he did in childhood.

When she confronts Addu she must demand these explanations and ask him why he did what all he did 12 years back. It would be sad and unfair if on meeting Addu she lets the flood of emotions and the happiness to meet him after so long overtake her and she ends up embracing Addu and his mistakes. I hope she has the strength, courage and objectivity to question him on his mistakes and also reprimand him for willingly choosing a life of evil.

Do you think Megha will manage to be objective and unbiased and be fair to Mohan or will she completely give in to her old Addu jaap?

I dont think Megha will be able to even think about all this. Mother is meeting his lost child after 12 yrs. and its understandable what she will go through with a fleet of emotions when she see what he has gone thru and what he has become now. Like i said she may take Addu side becoz if Addu is same -ve nd now grown up he has become more clever in presenting things convincingly making Mohan culprit.
And I dont have any faith on Megha as a true wife of Mohan. She will always suspect, disowns him first than any outsider in first place. I have complete faith on Megha as Mother she will side Addu first.

I am afraid she will again take the side of Addu in the name of correcting Addu.

Nice post by the way. it was much need at the moment. In all these apologies, i will be rather happy to see Megha giving strong dose of answer to Renu for calling Mohan again as" Lafanga" in front of Addu.






Edited by naina2010 - 11 years ago

Originally posted by: naina2010

I dont think Megha will be able to even think about all this. Mother is meeting his lost child after 12 yrs. and its understandable what she will go through with a fleet of emotions when she see what he has gone thru and what he has become now. Like i said she may take Addu side becoz if Addu is same -ve nd now grown up he has become more clever in presenting things convincingly making Mohan culprit.
And I dont have any faith on Megha as a true wife of Mohan. She will always suspect, disowns him first than any outsider in first place. I have complete faith on Megha as Mother she will side Addu first.

I am afraid she will again take the side of Addu in the name of correcting Addu.

Nice post by the way. it was much need at the moment. In all these apologies, i will be rather happy to see Megha giving strong dose of answer to Renu for calling Mohan again as" Lafanga" in front of Addu.

Interesting  post, thanks!   I cannot imagine a more emotional, joy filled occasion than when a mother meets her long lost child after so many years! In this case I'm sure that Megha must have wondered if Addu was even alive or would ever be recovered in one piece! Unfortunately in reality, most times the missing child is dead! 

Zandu, Swati &  indiansheetal6 I agree with you. She should realise that her lenient behaviour spoiled Addu. He is no longer innocent child... somewhere both Mohan & megha failed as parents when it comes to Addu... & after meeting addu megha should follow what she said... both of them together should reform addu.

@Leesan: Do you think lecturing Addu will be of any help?? 😆 Everything will vanish in thin air... 😆 I agree he needs consoling & care... but he also needs a major jerk & betrayal from the people whom he trusted all these years... 😉 I mean daddaji & his men... only then his redemption & reformation will start. 

Originally posted by: misty85

@Leesan: Do you think lecturing Addu will be of any help?? 😆 Everything will vanish in thin air... 😆 I agree he needs consoling & care... but he also needs a major jerk & betrayal from the people whom he trusted all these years... 😉 I mean daddaji & his men... only then his redemption & reformation will start. 

Edited by Leesan - 11 years ago

Thank you friend. I also want to see changed Megha  who can  standby Mohan and help Addu. I would be rather very happy to see this in coming episodes now. Nice post. Much needed.