Rashmi, your reply was quite thought-provoking, once again. Yes, Arnav has shown a sea change in his attitude and all for the better. Everyone deserves a second chance! So he has to be trusted, but that trust will come with time' thus, the six-month waiting period to get to know each other better seems like a good idea! Somehow, here it doesn't seem to be case of Khushi not trusting Arnav, rather her not trusting herself! Despite her immense love for him, she is under the misconception that she doesn't belong to his world' when one puts on a brave front for the world, to hide one's insecurities and fears, such doubts are inevitable! I think, at the back of her mind, Khushi has the thought that Arnav might realise they won't suit, leading to a repeat of the heartbreak she had experienced on Diwali' he has constantly shown what she means to him but her fears won't allow her to think rationally. Now she knows that she loves him and he loves her. But to believe in Lisa's truth is absurd. I don't think it's that absurd, especially when one feels that one doesn't measure up' Arnav's caustic words have gradually, and most probably subconsciously, chipped away at her self-confidence' so it will take some time for Arnav's love to help her rebuild it! Lisa's words have only added fuel to the fire of her insecurities! Trust is something that has to come from oneself' agree with you there! He has shown his trust in her and where is hers? The thing here is that I don't believe she had ever done anything to break his trust, had she? On the other hand, he had almost kissed her on Diwali night, introducing her to the passion blazing between them, then flayed her alive with his words of rejection. He redeemed himself through word and deed later on, but it will take Khushi some time to fully heal! With clamming up isn't she running away from the issue without confronting it? Where is the spunk that she was known for I wonder. I agree with you a 100% here. I, for one, have always disliked the protagonists in any show on TV sacrificing themselves in the name of love or something equally silly, when things could have been easily sorted out by talking things through! Rather than shutting him out, Khushi should voice her fears and insecurities to Arnav so that he knows what's on her mind. Being open and honest about everything would lay a strong foundation for their love and trust!
Rashmi, your reply was quite thought-provoking, once again. Yes, Arnav has shown a sea change in his attitude and all for the better. Everyone deserves a second chance! So he has to be trusted, but that trust will come with time' thus, the six-month waiting period to get to know each other better seems like a good idea! Somehow, here it doesn't seem to be case of Khushi not trusting Arnav, rather her not trusting herself! Despite her immense love for him, she is under the misconception that she doesn't belong to his world' when one puts on a brave front for the world, to hide one's insecurities and fears, such doubts are inevitable! I think, at the back of her mind, Khushi has the thought that Arnav might realise they won't suit, leading to a repeat of the heartbreak she had experienced on Diwali' he has constantly shown what she means to him but her fears won't allow her to think rationally. Now she knows that she loves him and he loves her. But to believe in Lisa's truth is absurd. I don't think it's that absurd, especially when one feels that one doesn't measure up' Arnav's caustic words have gradually, and most probably subconsciously, chipped away at her self-confidence' so it will take some time for Arnav's love to help her rebuild it! Lisa's words have only added fuel to the fire of her insecurities! Trust is something that has to come from oneself' agree with you there! He has shown his trust in her and where is hers? The thing here is that I don't believe she had ever done anything to break his trust, had she? On the other hand, he had almost kissed her on Diwali night, introducing her to the passion blazing between them, then flayed her alive with his words of rejection. He redeemed himself through word and deed later on, but it will take Khushi some time to fully heal! With clamming up isn't she running away from the issue without confronting it? Where is the spunk that she was known for I wonder. I agree with you a 100% here. I, for one, have always disliked the protagonists in any show on TV sacrificing themselves in the name of love or something equally silly, when things could have been easily sorted out by talking things through! Rather than shutting him out, Khushi should voice her fears and insecurities to Arnav so that he knows what's on her mind. Being open and honest about everything would lay a strong foundation for their love and trust!
Rashmi, your reply was quite thought-provoking, once again. Yes, Arnav has shown a sea change in his attitude and all for the better. Everyone deserves a second chance! So he has to be trusted, but that trust will come with time' thus, the six-month waiting period to get to know each other better seems like a good idea! Somehow, here it doesn't seem to be case of Khushi not trusting Arnav, rather her not trusting herself! Despite her immense love for him, she is under the misconception that she doesn't belong to his world' when one puts on a brave front for the world, to hide one's insecurities and fears, such doubts are inevitable! I think, at the back of her mind, Khushi has the thought that Arnav might realise they won't suit, leading to a repeat of the heartbreak she had experienced on Diwali' he has constantly shown what she means to him but her fears won't allow her to think rationally. Now she knows that she loves him and he loves her. But to believe in Lisa's truth is absurd. I don't think it's that absurd, especially when one feels that one doesn't measure up' Arnav's caustic words have gradually, and most probably subconsciously, chipped away at her self-confidence' so it will take some time for Arnav's love to help her rebuild it! Lisa's words have only added fuel to the fire of her insecurities! Trust is something that has to come from oneself' agree with you there! He has shown his trust in her and where is hers? The thing here is that I don't believe she had ever done anything to break his trust, had she? On the other hand, he had almost kissed her on Diwali night, introducing her to the passion blazing between them, then flayed her alive with his words of rejection. He redeemed himself through word and deed later on, but it will take Khushi some time to fully heal! With clamming up isn't she running away from the issue without confronting it? Where is the spunk that she was known for I wonder. I agree with you a 100% here. I, for one, have always disliked the protagonists in any show on TV sacrificing themselves in the name of love or something equally silly, when things could have been easily sorted out by talking things through! Rather than shutting him out, Khushi should voice her fears and insecurities to Arnav so that he knows what's on her mind. Being open and honest about everything would lay a strong foundation for their love and trust!