Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon


Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon

ASR, its Lavanya!

Arshics IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 10 April 2013 at 7:34pm | IP Logged
Intentionally or unintentionally,

I know that i have hurt you a lot

But that is because, I never realise

But when I do realise it

I really regret, I really do

I feel very bad

But I never do anything knowingly, Khushi

I just,

Lavanya's face fell and her hand froze mid air

This was the unfortunate moment,

The moment when all her hopes come crashing down

and reality announced its presence loud and clear!

She was the original victim of ASR

the one who put her life on hold for him

the one who had a list of his likes and dislikes and never crossed him

the one who completely transformed herself,

gave up a successful career in fashion industry for him

spent her days learning "wifely" skills and chit chatting with mami

when she was cut out for so much more

And all for a man, who never saw her worth

Who treated her like a doormat

walked all over her, and never spared a thought for her

And she the brave woman

Put up with it

because she loved him, flaws and all

She, who knew him better than he gave her credit for

She, who had been avoiding the reality, because she loved him too much to give up

The only one who made every effort to make the relationship work

Now she finally faced the truth

with courage, dignity, pride and strength

and walked out with her head held high, but her heart broken

And ASR?

He too saw the unfairness he had meted out to her

Saw how badly he had treated her

and faced the truth that he had never loved her

But here too he dismissed his role in it too easily!!

If in his obsession and concern for Khushi

he hadn't made that slip of tongue

how long would both Khushi and lavanya

been the two ends of the see saw for him?

But Devi Maiyya intervened,

and while we all felt that it was the best thing that happened to Arnav Khushi

Actually the breakup was the best thing that happened to lavanya

She deserved far better than this!!!

Barun's expressions - stupendous

Sana - very good

the scene - beautiful

you all - just Njoy!!

Edited by arshicritic - 11 April 2013 at 1:08am

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Swearshina09 Goldie

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Posted: 10 April 2013 at 8:48pm | IP Logged
Thanks so much
Really nice thank you soo much
Arshics IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 10 April 2013 at 8:55pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Swethina09

Thanks so much
Really nice thank you soo much

Welcome dear
Horizon IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 10 April 2013 at 10:27pm | IP Logged
Have to disagree with this post of yours completely my friend, sorry! 

While break up is hard for anyone, in this case it seemed inevitable from the first sight even for a blind let alone for a so called educated, sophisticated girl who should have seen some world by then having worked in a corporate office. She was living in an eternal denial and one or the other day she had to face the reality. Unfortunately viewers were never given an insight into how their relationship started, but the lines in their relationship seemed pretty defined from the very start, where there was no promises neither expectations. If she changes midway, that is NOT his fault!

ASR NEVER treated her like door mat, but actually he is ONLY one who liked her for WHO SHE IS (ofcourse he always loved people as they are and never tried to impose any of his beliefs on anyone or tried changing anyone!) She changed to a wifely behavior out of her own will, he never imposed or commanded that from her. In fact it was she who frustrated him with her marriage proposal when it was NEVER on cards between them initially. 

It was always strange as to what she is attracted in him, other than his material possessions, as he never really seemed to be in love with her. He may have some personality issues, but she being a modern, smart girl should have realized it on her own and never gotten into any relationship with him in the first place. 

Strangely, I started loving ASR from this very scene for his honesty and genuineness, a rare commodity in a world full of guile people!

Yes, she deserved someone.. who may not be better as a human being than ASR (after his transformation)...  but some one who loved her!

Edited by Horizon - 10 April 2013 at 10:33pm

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raapunzel... Senior Member

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Posted: 10 April 2013 at 10:53pm | IP Logged
nice post dear...
lavanya is so cute & great...
she know arnav was falling for khushi so she left him for his happinesss...
la understands him a lot...
arnav also didnt gav any false promises...he is true to his nature..
lovely post as usual..
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Posted: 10 April 2013 at 11:12pm | IP Logged
In the early days of IPK.. never in my dream I thought some day I would love Lavanya...
ASR may not did anything intentionally to hurt her,but it doesn't change the fact that he DID hurt her..
I never liked that she changed so much for Raizada family...I will not say for ASR,because Arnav never wanted her to change...
But in the end what have she got...I really feel sorry for her...
And you said right..She IS a brave woman..the way she handled the break up..still thought about his family..told Khushi to take care of him...No ordinary girl can do that...
Sana Khan is indeed a good actor...
And for Barun,actually no need to say anything...

Edited by nishu_shorna - 10 April 2013 at 11:13pm

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Omoraboti IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 10 April 2013 at 11:27pm | IP Logged

I loved that scene. And I loved how you  have protrayed everyone's stand.

Indeed, Lavanya was the loser here. But I have to disagree when you say he treated her like a doormat. He did not. Yes, he was not the romantic kind of boyfriend around her but he respected her. He did stand for her against his family. He did say her that she was one of the very few who could steal 10 minutes of his time. She mattered to him. Yes, probably not in the way Khushi did. He liked her .. but no, he did not love her. I cannot blame him here because he never knew what "love" is until he met Khushi.
ASR is flawed but he was just. Whenever he realized his fault, he rectified it.

Edited by Omoraboti - 10 April 2013 at 11:55pm

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golpokobita Goldie

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Posted: 10 April 2013 at 11:36pm | IP Logged
Beautiful post on an equally beautiful scene!

My heart broke for her. The girl did so much for him and he just closed it like a read book, not so interesting to be read again...

But I loved Lavanya's character! Her decision reminded me of a saying, it is better to live with someone who loves you the with one whom you love!

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