Madhubala - Ek Ishq Ek Junoon


Madhubala - Ek Ishq Ek Junoon
Madhubala - Ek Ishq Ek Junoon

Calm down it is not Abuse, RK isn't evil! (Page 4)

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Posted: 10 April 2013 at 10:02pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by nazmobile

What is wrong with people thinking that RK is being abusive or disgusting or physically 'beating' Madhu. This isn't real life, it's reel life and we aren't watching a wife beater. and before some self righteous person posts about mental torture and mental abuse, this isn't that either. Madhu isn't being tortured or broken, yes she is hurt and upset but she is just an angry and spiteful towards RK although in her instance it's warranted. 

You all need to relax, what we are seeing is what RK has been doing all along, it's the only way he knows how to fix things, like he said to Madhu, he isn't normal, his methods are never normal.

It's a tv show and more over the characters of both RK and Madhu have extremes, Madhu gives as good as she gets which is why RK admires her tenacity and attitude. We're all adults and know that this is a tv show for our entertainment purposes, these characters are melodramatic sketches and nothing is to be taken so seriously.

RK wasn't forcing her in a physical manner, he knows that right now the only way he can even think about fixing things and redeem himself is by getting Madhu in front of him so that she will listen.

How can he redeem himself when Madhu won't even listen to him, and no this isn't a serial where a character like RK will just sit back and send flowers to her, he's not written and etched that way.

Yes what he is doing is petulant and childish but that is how RK does everything, even when he was uniting Madhu's parents he took the step of concocting a story of both of them being in accidents, he does things in big grand filmy style and hence why he felt that the only way he can bring home Madhu is by literally picking her up.

When he's with madhu, when he was putting on the Holi did you not see how gentle he was with her, when he lowers her defences and anger and when she actually looks at him and isn't fighting him off he is very tender and gentle with her.

But right now Madhu is angry, she's hurt and wants to ignore her pain rather than deal with it, she thinks that by forgetting RK and avoiding him everything will be OK, but really she's not being honest with herself either, she's not tackling the issue of dealing with her heartbreak and emotions., she's just done what her sister and mum told her to and that is to be strong and move forward. But in life you cannot move forward unless you deal with your past.

RK isn't beating her, and nor would he, he's trying to do what he feels he can to make her see that he is trying to make amends.

IF he can get her to listen, then maybe we might see him try to redeem himself and better himself. 

The guy is only now learning to soften up with his Mum after years of ignoring her, so obviously it's going to take some time for things to get right between him and Madhu.

i totally agree wid u but don't u think that whatever RK is doing makes madhu scared of him lyk in bedroom she runaway when he yelled at servant and thats my point of concern..

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Posted: 10 April 2013 at 10:10pm | IP Logged
love ur post!!!Clap
totally agree...but bashers feel diffrently n always bring it down to abuse n which i also feel is not really true!

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Posted: 11 April 2013 at 7:47am | IP Logged

I was married to a man behaving like the character of rk, and what he has done to madhu is prohibited by law, my ex-husband saw me as his property, he humiliated me, do not respect me and when I decided to leave him, he did not accept it. when we were married, he took my phone to see who called me, was aggressive with everyone who approached me (neighbors, colleagues, cousins) and locked me in the apartment. I lived a nightmare with this man who thought he was a god and who considered women as submissive. If more and more people are shocked by this series and the behavior of rk, there is a reason it is very important to educate people, especially young people the respect that a man should have towards his wife. People are influenced by what they see on tv and this serial gives a very bad example. But I do not expect that people who have never lived with a monster understand. The writers of the serial have a very important role in educating and changing attitudes about the place of women in society. It's sad especially in a country where women are often mistreated. 
It's sad especially in a country where women are often mistreated.
I wonder what women who find the behavior of rk is so romantic and so hot think when they are humiliated by their husbands in the future. You probably look back at this serial and say that more moralistic messages shown in the serial must have a positive influence on viewers. Normaly, madhu should scream to attract people to be witnesses and she should call the police for harassment complaint against morality. Women who are abused would realize that this is not normal and act. Regarding the kiss on the hand, this is serious because madhu did not want it, in any case in Europe, if a man kisses a woman without her wants, she can complain. I do not see how forcing a woman and disrespect her is romantic.

Given the number of disgruntled fans, the writers will have to modify the behavior of rk, otherwise the serial will end quickly. but I think it's too late, nothing makes more sense in this serialSillyLOL

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Posted: 11 April 2013 at 7:51am | IP Logged
Originally posted by nazmobile

 he isn't normal, his methods are never normal.

that one line says it right there...since he isnt normal...he needs serious help...yes its reel life...not real life...but the people watching it in real life as seeing a certain kind of message being portrayed in the media...and you know the mimics life vs life mimics art...just because its reel life, does it mean that showing a woman being manhandled by her husband...groped against her that ok...we're talking about a society that already has a low standing for women, especially in the village sectors...women are taught/brought up to consider husbands God and that whatever husbands do...women just have to tolerate it...i could honestly care less who Madhu ends up long as he respects her...they shouldnt have a man trample all over Madhu just cuz its reel life...


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Posted: 11 April 2013 at 7:55am | IP Logged
Naz, why do you even bother?

If this is abuse for them, then let them think so. It is full on dhamal for us with RK entertaining us and I bet Madhu aka DD must also be laughing like crazy during the shoot.

I wish we had behind the scenes videos.

As to abuse, tying up your child and putting as bait, letting him sleep alone in darkness and not trying to understand his problem is called Child Abuse. If in Norway, the offender would be locked up just for this.

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luanne Newbie

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Posted: 11 April 2013 at 8:03am | IP Logged
totally agree rk is not evil.and for all those youngsters who cant think bettr and cant c right from wrong who mix up serials and movies with real life what do u xpct? to shut down bollywood, television???? for evrytng there is good and bad, in bible it is written about adam and eve and the frobidden fruit wch GOD asked them not to eat but they ate, he was GOD he could've stopped them from doing wrong anyway but he gave them the choice but he punished them for doing wrong but more importantly  they earned it, in this world there is good and bad in equal amount it is upto us to choose, cant blame anybody for the wrong we do. we have enough intelligence by the grace of god to think and decide

Edited by luanne - 11 April 2013 at 8:05am
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sunrain20 Senior Member

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Posted: 11 April 2013 at 9:28am | IP Logged
well done!!!..I think like a broken record I have repeating the same thing in so many of my posts!!
everyone behave as if RK is the only villain in the entire universe and the rest are all 'Rama' avatars...AngryAngry

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