Originally posted by archis_infinity
Dear Shyamala Aunty, Hope I can call you that as you are the much
revered aunty on the forum. I am quite new in responding in this forum
but have been a silent reader for a long time; I have had the privilege
of reading and enjoying many of your posts before.
I will be honest upfront with you that I am an ARVI/PURVI fan but
it pains me to no extent to step on to this forum these days. There is
much more contempt and name calling for Purvi (and Arjun to a lesser
extent) in the forum than any one else.
As far as Ovi is concerned, I agree that she is growing up from
where she was an year back but she cannot fully grow up if all the
issues of her life are always others fault (esp ARVI) than her own. She
feels she has everything in her life (till yesterday's episode) but
she still slips back to her old selfish self now and then. But what has
Arjun and Purvi done post marraige to earn any of Ovi's contempt?
After the infamous deal, Purvi and Arjun have born the cross of
burying the love in their hearts and tried to move on. I am equally
blaming everyone for the consequence of their stupid decisions but no
one can deny the deep pain that Arjun and Purvi had to endure to be
seperate from each other and trying to move on with their partners.
While all of Ovi's past and present issues are being forgiven,
ARVI don't get the same treatment. ARVI are not humans and their
existence is purely to make OVI's life happy and contended. Ovi in the
show doesn't know that Arjun and Purvi were intimate before Ovi/Arjun's
marraige but the forum members do.
It amuses me that there are many in the forum right now rejoicing
on the fact that Purvi will be slapped in today's episode and
Onir/Arjun will be shamed. I would not be surprised if there is betting
or speculation on how many "thappads" Purvi will be receiving.
Originally posted by sashashyam
You are a professional in this field and I am merely an observer, but even for you, there is no way of proving a negative and no way of deciding why any one person does what he or she does. Anyone can doubt anything, but that does not amount to proof.
In the case of Ovi, there is such a relentless determination in large chunks of the forum to hate her that informed and balanced discourse goes out of the window. We even have members openly and unhesitatingly demanding that she should commit suicide and, in effect, approving of the death of her baby as well deserved punishment for Ovi.
Well, I have been a very trenchant critic of Ovi in the past, but now all I can say is that my heart goes out to her. Just as my blood boils when I read these ugly death wishes, which, the Mods have been kind enough to inform us today, are permissible so long as they do not amount to 'extreme violence", whatever that might be. Probably a menu card for ways of disposing of Ovi and, next, of Onir - by cutting them up into hundreds of pieces or having them run over by a tram?
I am also puzzled by the unremitting hostility towards Ovi, no matter that she has come a long way from her old self, whereas Soham/Vishnu, who is unquestionably guilty of verymuch more serious crimes like kidnapping and extortion, is accepted with open arms for having turned over a new leaf. Is it because women are soft on goodlooking young men, as someone explained it, whereas they are always very hard on one of their own gender? Especially someone presuming to diivide the anointed couple? Who, incidentally, seem to have no intention of seeking a punarmilan. Strange.
[QUOTE=arvifanalways][QUOTE=nandininandu]I sympathize with Ovi for her stillbirth and more importantly for fact she was never informed. Leaving this, is she really deserves pity?? For me its a NO, She deserves all this, precisely she called for all this. Being a psychologist i still doubt, Is she crying out of maternal love for child or for missing a "strong reason" that keeps her binded with A. And for many who feel, she lost child with JUST due to accident, plz she has a High Risk Pregency; Onir has done further damage control. It makes no sense to me, Why she is holding onto a loveless marriage??
I agree with your post. I also strongly believe that Ovi is so obsessed with Arjun that i feel the part in bold in your post holds a lot of truth.