It seems to me that Purvi (and also Arjun) has now become the new Archana. Not about the too much sacrificing part, but the one who is blamed for everything that goes wrong in the show. For everyone's problems.
Just a few days ago everyone was going on and on about the fact that Purvi should not keep the secret that she is Pari's mother... so many things were said. It wasn't only that she should have said it at the beginning, or at the one month Ovi-Arjun anniversary, or when Ovi's baby died. It was that is was so wrong for her to even now keep the secret. Yes, all those times were right to tell, i agreee. But suddenly now that she realizes it was wrong to hide it, and she sees that Punni will always try to blackmail her and it will be awful for the family, when she realizes that though late, it still is important that she confesses & say something, now she's being derided over and over for wanting to tell it as if she is interfering. It can't be both ways. She's trying to correct her mistake. That's a good thing. She didn't know Punni caused Ovi to learn it this way.
Like Archana was, Purvi is damned if she does or damned if she doesn't.
It is also said over and over how Purvi and Arjun are sneaking around seeing each other, basically having an affair. They have made all efforts to NOT do that. THEY didn't set up this meeting, Punni tricked them. The only time that they met to discuss something by their own will was when Arjun dragged Purvi to the roof or whereever it was to confront her about Pari. Purvi didn't initiate it. It seems impossible in a family that lives together for Purvi and Arjun never to have a word between them, but when they do they are charged with having an emotional affair. If love is forever, the fact that the love shows on Arjun's face yet he does nothing about it physically, to me is a great tribute to his character.
As to Arjun grieving his baby by Ovi, he didn't think it WAS his baby. He thought Onir lost the child and he expressed great remorse to Onir. How could he grieve a baby he didn't know had died? He just found out...it was totally shocking and then to grieve it in front of Ovi when she wasn't supposed to know...how would that have worked?
Purvi is impetuous. Arjun is tender hearted. She doesn't think through her actions. He doesn't know what to do. But she is not at all the things she's accused of ...not at all, in my opinion. and neither is Arjun.
Just like Archana, who also wasn't perfect but was not the cause of everyone's problems...neither is Purvi and neither is Arjun.
IMO 😊