Originally posted by DonnaHarvey
Originally posted by Escape.My.Love.
I don't get how hypocritical can people be. The very people who here is terming rishbaala to be abusive and rk to be psycho have loved couples like Prem and mukti in where the male lead was the reason why the female lead got raped by his friend and even after that the male lead proved her characterless in court in front of everyone by revealing their night together which for him was nothing but a one night stand. she was raped by his friend because of him as he told his friend that she was hell easy to get in bed. Mukti stood strong and Prem suffered and suffered like crazy but people still loved them! Another example would be Angad and Kripa. People LOVE them but because of a misunderstanding again the male lead broke her heart in pieces when the female lead was pregnant with his child.Male lead refused her and the baby and used to consisitently ask her whose baby it is and call her a wh**e.Ok it was a misunderstanding but still the pain the female lead had to endure led her in an accident losing their baby. And by the time the male lead realized he was lied to it was to late and they lost their baby. So if these things and toxic things are accepted in a love story why not Rishbaala who are more about pain and heartbreak? If this is abuse then what are these examples? worse than murder? :\
I have not seen either of the two shows you listed not heard of the story either so, I am in no place to defend those fans. as far as MB goes, I said what I saw.
I havent seen prem mukti. but for angad kripa it was a misunderstanding. everyone around angad fooled him into think she was unfaithful, including her own best friend. Angad did what he did because he was hurt by betrayal and he did it out of anger and instant reaction. oh so that is justified right?
it was bad and i am not defending it but his redemption was shown to be much better than RK's.
In RK case he did not hurt Madhu through a misunderstanding but intentionally through knowing her purity.
It was not an instant reaction out of the pain of betrayal but it was calculated and planned for six months.
Everything of RK had an intention..like the relationship , the build up , YES it was fake , but the emotoins were NOT fake.From rk's side or Madhu's side. Though, every step did have an intention and an ulterior motive. I don't know how to explain this but this happened in Pkyek. Abhay used to always lash Piya out to make her stay away from him and all the consequences of his past that he brought with him , out to get her. But when he realized that his lashing out on her is bringing more danger , he gave into her feelings for him and his feelings and was in a fake relationship with hert to protect her from his brother...the relationship was fake but their feelings for each other were REAL. RK never thought he will feel anything during his play of 6 months...but he fell for her while that was never his intention..his intention was to ruin her..but in the process he brewed feelings inside for her unknowingly.Therefore yes the thing was planned but his emotions and the moments out of those emotions were UNPLANNED AND NATURAL.
What does it matter when his love was fake or not when the plan to hurt her was their all along. Angad would have never plotted against Kripa had he known the purtiy of her love the RK did. My point is the pain was planned unlike Angad that happened out of instant reaction. Abhay was again doing it to protect Piya he didnt want to cause her pain but protect her. RK WANTED TO CAUSE MADHU PAIN ALL ALONG IT DIDNT MATTER IF HE FELL IN LOVE WITH HER. Even know when knows he is obsessed with her he doesnt give a damn about the pain she is in. What their to realize she is in pain? He caused it
It was not the fear of losing the one person who you love unconditionally it was four slaps his ego couldn't digest.
Yes it was her four slaps . It was his ego. As far as I remember Angad's ego made him do things to kripa as well before they fell in love. But we still love them .But saying RK had no feelings for her in the process is wrong. He did and he still does but he has no idea what it is for the reason he has no idea how to show it rightly. Jab realize hi nahi kiya toh how will he know how to show it? Hw shows it by the only thing he has ever known to do and that is control. Feelings hai but the way of showing them to her is WRONG.
Kripa slapped Angad as well before they were in love he didnt do half the things RK did like marry her for revenge and INTENTIONALLY BREAK HER HEART. RK on the other had already done things to Madhu for the slaps like treat her like she was his servant in front of everyone. Further more if RK was willing to go this far for revenge for four slaps how far will he go when he learns Madhu betrayed him? He is already treating her like an object because he cant trust her.
it same difference between per-mediated murder and a crime of passion
How is rk's revenge related to murder?
Because RK revenge plan was pre-mediated and Angad was not. Pre-mediated murder is given all worse punishment because of the fact that it is planned. Angad was more like a crime of passion that happen through emotion. Like you see someone trying to harrass you girlfriend and you get angry and hurt them. BOTH are bad but Pre-mediated crimes are a lot worse.
. Angad practically destroyed himself so Kripa could be happy afterward. He was fine with her being with Prithvi because he understood he didnt deserve her.
Yes cause the serial reached that point in which he REALIZED. RK has not even REALIZED yet. When he will , then let's see.
Angad realized as soon as the misunderstanding got cleared. That the has caused an innocent girl pain. What is RK waiting for? He knows he caused an innocent girl pain because that was his intention all along. And instead he is not even pain attention to her emotions.
Here after making a worse mistake RK has not even apologized but instead is treating Madhu like his private property.
RK didn't make a worse mistake cause the result of his mistake was not as volatile as the result of Angad's mistake was. Kripa lost her EVERYTHING , not just her belief in love and the breaking of her heart.She literally lost EVERYTHING. Madhu still has support behind her with people though her heart is broken as well. The mistakes were different but the result of Angad's mistake is and was much more volatile.
Leaving the PAIN ASIDE YES KRIPA'S WAS WORSE. Angad never plotted to break down Kripa it was something that happened out of pain for loosing her. RK was planned so he knew to take enough away from Madhu because he was in his senses. Angad was not. Madhu also got degraded infront of everyone she grew up around and the media.
Maybe thatz why? Huspand and wives and lovers have misunderstandings and fights all the time because there is no such thing as a perfect relationship but no one plots against their lover.
Madhu was not his lover when he plotted against her. She was girl who out of nowhere came in his world to show him who is the boss and thus started the play of power relations between their equation. Ever since they met. Misunderstandings hoti reheti uss hadh tak jahaan ek ladki , apna family , dignity , apne aap aur apne baccha ko bhi kho deti hai? Really?
Madhu might not have been his lover when he married her for revenge. But she was girl who did so much for him when he decided to dump her at the alter. She did not start anything she reported an accident she witnessed and made RK realize that just because he is a superstar he cant get away with anything. (OMG EVIL Madhu) misunderstandings happens yes, the magnitude of the result was wrong and Angad realized it right away after the misunderstanding got cleared.