Originally posted by soapwatcher1
Originally posted by Kalapi<font color="#660000">Errr...</font><font color="#660000">TRUST...that is a bad word in this serial</font>
<font color="#660000">Add: As for what she could have done if she knew that Purvi became sexually intimate with Arjun, that is speculative that this point...</font>
Dear Kalapi, if we were getting married in this 21st century, better for us to ask those questions especially if the guy has been in a prior relationship unless of course, we are so much in love that we don't care about his past or have done such things ourselves. Moot point for the two of us, we did not get married in these present times and I am happy for that. Yes, we should tell our daughters to make sure the guys they are marrying are worthy of their trust or that if they love blindly they should be able to accept their husband's past trespasses even if it be a hard pill to swallow.
<font color="#6600ff">Yes, I will tell my daughter to make sure that the boy they date will be (now that is sooo far away, can't even imagine) worthy ofher trust and above all, tohave self-respect and self -worth for herself. Hopefully, I can infuse some myself. But will never ask her to ask his future hubby questions about his past relationships. Hopefully, he should come out with his himself, if there are dark secrets and be honorable about himself and her. Although, I too know that reality can be very different, but er...to me why sow the seeds of mistrust and doubteven beforea beautiful relatioships starts.</font>
<strong><font color="#660000"><font color="#6600ff">MAny time, I have wanted Ovi to divorce Arjun, but she didn't have that self-worth and put Arjun above all others. That is what I blamed her aways, that she put Arjun above herself. Hopefully, my daughter will have enough pride to value herself more than even the person she loves dearly </font>
Coming to Ovi, if she could not/did not accept that Arjun could be in love with another that denial sadly can be placed only at her own door. The truth is like a solid brick wall that she has inescapably bumped into, no turning back from the fact that her husband did love another girl madly before he was hers.
I do feel badly for Ovi, she has always been insecure where Arjun's love has been concerned even if she insisted on believing that he could love no other, this is the final nail in that coffin. I am hoping that Arjun can explain, and appease and reassure her that she is his wife now, that Purvi is his past, and the present is all that should matter to their life together. Easily said than done and very hard for any wife, blind or not, to accept and come to terms.
<font color="#6600ff">Well, I guess now Cvs will truly turn obsessive...for thatcreated enough interest points forthe serial...that translates into high activity in the forum, that is to a point the yardstick of the audience...</font>