Er…it's not having sex before marriage, but sleeping with a partner and than giving him up the very next day to a so called "sister" is the question here. Was that right in your eyes dear? Both Purvi and Arjun knew their level of commitment to each other, so why did Purvi give up Arjun? Just for Aai happiness, but er…will the same Aai be happy now knowing the truth that Purvi slept and got preggo with Arjun, and then she herself forced Arjun to marry Ovi and got her preggo too. I guess all in the family. Arjun, shouldn't have followed Purvi's commands here…err…shouldn't he have respected his own love for Purvi or be faithful to his BF (in terms of sleeping with a sister and then marrying the BF) and more importantly have better self respect for himself. Besides, Ovi deal was fair and square, but what Purvi gave Ovi was a used product. Did Purvi tell Ovi, what their relationship "state" was? Wasn't that warranted as their 'relationship' did become more intimate?
As for Purvi, when she left after knowing her preggo state, she could have just left (if she wasn't willing to break the unconsummated married state of Arovi). She did get a good deal in Onir, who loved her and was willingly to accept Pari as his own. There wasn't any need to act God, by giving her baby away. Was that asked of her? So, who gave her the status of Almighty?? No, she had the best deal in an Indian setting for being preggo out of wedlock. Of course, no amount of reality will be shown in this serial, for in real life, such revelations aren't welcomed at all…
As for Ovi being crazy, did Purvi really care for her when she was going ahead with her marriage and rubbing it in at every step with Kanyadaan??Originally posted by: rayadallie
Your post is on target. I agree with you completely but I guess many persons would have expected them to say to ovi and the family that we had sex before we got married because we thought that we were going to married.
also they thought that it was best for purvi to break arjun and ovi's marriage before they consummated as it was the better thing to do. in other words its ok to break the marriage then but not now. the institution of marriage should have been respected then but not now.
Its amazing how people just stick to a point no matter what the situation is. smh
Originally posted by: pehlibaar
Let me start by saying I'm not a big Purvi fan or anything but I don't understand everyone saying that Ovi was betrayed by her husband and her sister.
1) Arjun didn't know about the baby til now, and as for sleeping w/ Purvi, he though he was going to marry Purvi. In the real world people do have sex before marriage, I'm not condoning it, but it does happen. Did you really expect him to tell Ovi "hey, I had sex with Purvi" ? Especially when the last thing he wants is to make her go crazy again.2) Yes, Purvi had sex before marriage (see what I just wrote about re: Arjun) But when she slept w/ Arjun she didn't know Ovi was going to ask for him in return for their mother's happiness. Purvi will always feel like she has to sacrifice for Archana b/c she was an orphan and Archana raised her. She found out she was pregnant after Ovi and Arjun got married. Did you really think she was gonna say "hey Ovi, can I have him back b/c I'm having his baby"?Knowing how loopy and bat crazy Ovi can get, do you really blame them for being scared to tell her anything now?
Originally posted by: pehlibaar
Let me start by saying I'm not a big Purvi fan or anything but I don't understand everyone saying that Ovi was betrayed by her husband and her sister.
1) Arjun didn't know about the baby til now, and as for sleeping w/ Purvi, he though he was going to marry Purvi. In the real world people do have sex before marriage, I'm not condoning it, but it does happen. Did you really expect him to tell Ovi "hey, I had sex with Purvi" ? Especially when the last thing he wants is to make her go crazy again.2) Yes, Purvi had sex before marriage (see what I just wrote about re: Arjun) But when she slept w/ Arjun she didn't know Ovi was going to ask for him in return for their mother's happiness. Purvi will always feel like she has to sacrifice for Archana b/c she was an orphan and Archana raised her. She found out she was pregnant after Ovi and Arjun got married. Did you really think she was gonna say "hey Ovi, can I have him back b/c I'm having his baby"?Knowing how loopy and bat crazy Ovi can get, do you really blame them for being scared to tell her anything now?
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