Originally posted by pehlibaar
Let me start by saying I'm not a big Purvi fan or anything but I don't understand everyone saying that Ovi was betrayed by her husband and her sister.
1) Arjun didn't know about the baby til now, and as for sleeping w/ Purvi, he though he was going to marry Purvi. In the real world people do have sex before marriage, I'm not condoning it, but it does happen. Did you really expect him to tell Ovi "hey, I had sex with Purvi" ? Especially when the last thing he wants is to make her go crazy again.
2) Yes, Purvi had sex before marriage (see what I just wrote about re: Arjun) But when she slept w/ Arjun she didn't know Ovi was going to ask for him in return for their mother's happiness. Purvi will always feel like she has to sacrifice for Archana b/c she was an orphan and Archana raised her. She found out she was pregnant after Ovi and Arjun got married. Did you really think she was gonna say "hey Ovi, can I have him back b/c I'm having his baby"?
Knowing how loopy and bat crazy Ovi can get, do you really blame them for being scared to tell her anything now?
Arjun/Purvi did not care about Ovi's condition...Purvi as a sister, Arjun as childhood friend didnot understand Ovi's situation...Ovi committed suicide but it didnot effect sister and friend to understand what she going thru...
I am not asking Arjun/Purvi to tell the truth to Ovi now...they should have told the truth before Ovi and Arjun getting married...
when Ovi put same condition to Archu, Archu knows the truth why Archu-Manav got separated, and Archu also knows Ovi doesn't know anything about misunderstandings between ArMan, and Archu knows only if Manav gets to know those were savita's forged signatures then only Archu will be scot-free infront of everyone...not only that Archu realized Arjun loves Purvi not Ovi (but Archu didnot know that Purvi can sell Arjun like Muli for any reason)...
when Ovi put the same deal to Purvi...even Purvi knows only when everyone knows about Savita's forged signatures then only D family will accept Archu whole-heartedly...
the whole blackmailing is done by Purvi, who knew the truth of ArMan separation and her consummation with Arjun...
first mistake done by Arjun is...he should have broke relationship ovi first then proposed Purvi...
first mistake done by Purvi is...not telling Archu about her love, Archu deserves to know if Purvi loves someone...
first mistake done by Arjun/Purvi is by not accepting their love in-front of everyone and making public thamashas...
second mistake done by Arjun/Purvi is...Purvi had sex with Arjun just few minutes before Ovi put the deal, so immediately Purvi should have told Ovi is it okay for you because me and arjun has sex just now, and purvi blackmailed Arjun by asking him to prove his true love for her...Arjun should have told to Purvi, we had sex and it happened only because we are supposed to get married, and what happened to your middle class sanskars, how a middle class girl can dump the man with whom she had sex and supposed to get married in next hour...Arjun should have said to Ovi, as a childhood friend I should tell you something, you are thinking Purvi has snatched me from you, but she did not snatch me I fell for her, i initiated this and I had sex with her...
third mistake done by Purvi/Arjun...purvi knew she is preggo with arjun's sperm...arjun announced he loves only Purvi...Ovi was ready to move-out and move-on in her life...Ovi gave full permission for ArVi reunion...but Purvi again blackmailed Arjun again by telling "consummate with Ovi if you ever did sacha pyaar with me"...
so finally...Ovi was ready to move-on and reunite ArVi...and Arjun/Purvi decided to go and beg for second chance with Ovi...
Ovi shuld have understood and move-out if Arjun/Purvi told the dirty secret while accepting the Deal...
Purvi didnot reveal the consummation to Ovi when Ovi kept the deal...
Purvi didnot reveal the consummation to Ovi while accepting Ovi's deal...
Purvi didnot reveal the pregnancy info to Ovi and family during first month anniversary of Arjun/Ovi...
Added/Edited:
I am not against premarital sex...but the things which bother me in this show are
1. the middle class sanskars Purvi portrays doesn't suit premarital sex...the humanity developed in Arjun because of Purvi's middle class sanskar values should not let him to have premarital sex...
2. either you should stick to that premarital sex or leave it and move-on in life...Purvi who didnot respect that premarital sex should have aborted the baby...okay lets say abortion is paap from middles class sanskars of Purvi, so she wanted to move-away from the family, so she can live a peaceful life saying just one lie that her husband is in army or somewhere...she shouldn't have married Onir even if he proposed her first...she should have told onir my husband is alive...
Edited by m_masti - 10 years ago