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Thoughts on RK...and my past (Page 5)

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Posted: 10 April 2013 at 6:03am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Zinnia.TaaRey

Mona. I don't believe you and I have interacted but I have often drooled over Fawad Khan in your siggiesLOL
First of all > Hug simply because I appreciate your topic and how you gracefully spoke about your own experiences.

Now coming to the actual topic. I can understand where you are coming from. Although I haven't been in an abusive relationship, a close family member has and I have witnessed the immense negative impact words and harsh behaviour can have on an individual. Just because RK does not use violence, doesn't mean that what he is doing can be justified. I don't buy this argument that this is his "ishq" and "junoon." If this is romance then I don't want to ever fall in love LOL

I don't want to label fans because I hate labels myself. But just my 2 cents - some fans get upset because they assume you are referring to VD - the actor. There are those that become annoyed because they think you ship Sulbala (must admit - I do lol) and there are those that simply love to shoot opposing views down. Hence, I find it hard to get my point across in this forum!

I for one don't mind someone conveying to me why they find RK's behaviour valid. I will happily listen to them. But I won't agree! I can't! His behaviour has no justification (IMO) even his difficult past cannot excuse him for what he is doing to Madhu. We all go through crap in our lives at some point - some more than others. But that does not give us a license to hurt others. I know it's easy said than done. But we cannot use our baggage as a reason to create misery for others.

I understand that RK is supposed to be a grey character. But as a viewer, I find it hard to understand where he is coming from. Does he really love Madhu? Is he really on the road to redemption? You see, forcing yourself on someone can never be an act of love (IMO) nor can mentally torturing someone be a way of redeeming yourself.

To love means to set one free. And to redeem yourself means to admit and acknowledge what you have done...and to give those that you have wronged the ultimate decision to forgive you or not :)



(bold) Beautifully said! *claps*

Rest of your post is brilliant and I couldn't help nodding in agreement while reading it. Sorry for not giving a long and proper reply but your post pretty much said everything. I'm sorry about your relative going through difficult times. Negative words can indeed have long lasting effect.


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PS. No we haven't interacted before and I'm glad my Fawad filled sig box is giving you joy. LOL! He's currently on break but will be in my sig box shortly.


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Posted: 10 April 2013 at 6:13am | IP Logged
Originally posted by nlm4


U speak from experience and it must have been a painful and traumatic period for u.But am glad U are strong enough to share it here,so that others dont become gullible.
Im sure ure post will speak to many.And God give u strength and peace.


My experience is peanut compare to other womens. I can bet there are some individuals reading my post and having gone through much worse. Those individuals are my heroes and I draw strength from their incredible strength.


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Posted: 12 April 2013 at 4:32pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Siri22

Sorry about what you had to go through in your life. Correct me if I'm wrong but the cycle of abuse never stops.

Of course this is fiction and that is why everyone tolerated RK's antics the first time around. Even after the revenge track most of them were rooting for Rishbala and hoping for a redemption track. This is taking things too far.

How any viewer can enjoy RK's antics without cringing is beyond my understanding. Do people really get a kick out of RK's inane actions? So he carries her off and they show eyelocks and most of them drool or make posts like "I'm dead..in heaven".. Are women really that shallow?
I hope cv's stop glorifying abuse as something romantic.


Believe me even I was rooting for Rishbala after revenge track. But now it is so much harder.I can't stomach some of RK's behaviour. Don't know how some can watch it without getting nauseating feelings.

Whether CV's are glorifying abuse or not but they sure are raising interesting questions.


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Posted: 12 April 2013 at 4:51pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Kangto09

Hi, I was on this forum initially but lost interest when RK magically changed his personality after he got shot. I am a casual watcher and after I heard that RK betrayed Madhubala, it piqued my interest and I started watching the show regularly. But, the way, the creators have went about RK has been awful. If you actually read the characteristics of a sociopath, RK meets most of thecriteria. This was my first Indian serial and I became a fan because it had an anti-hero lead. However, I hate how they are romanticizing RK'sbehavior. This is actually quite dangerous. I will use the example of Twilight which also suffers from creepy male lead syndrome. So many teen girlsromanticizedEdward without realizing what a creep he was. The girls normalize these actions and think nothing is wrong. As you stated, many victims of abuse make excuses for their abusers. Chris brown-Rihanna anyone? I agree that show would be a lot more entertaining if they just portrayed the action for what it really is rather then shoving it down our throats as romance. I watch Game of Thrones. I have no problem watching characters being awful to each other. But, please they never show what Joffrey did to Sansa as romantic. This is a show where good people lose and bad guys win often.


Errr...never watched Twilight or Games of Thrones but I still understand what you are trying to say.

It's scary how anyone can think RK's behaviour is ok. I personally thought his grey shades were entertaining but when he turned dark...that's when it stopped becoming fun.

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Posted: 12 April 2013 at 4:56pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sweety2728

"He's so hot, he can be mean to anyone" comments such as this, I believe are made by people who have never experienced a serious relationship. I admit that I am one of those people. We are still learning to live in the real world. Your story and thoughts have touched me. I hope the show sends a positive message through this track to it's viewers and changes the way people think and treat others.


I also hope they can send a positive message. I'm not asking for lecture type message but something small would be good as tv shows are seen by so many people.

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Posted: 12 April 2013 at 5:33pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by nikhilageet


Hi Mona Big smilermember me?used to meet in the preeto forum.
</div>Excellent postClap.I am sorry you hadto go through all this pain yourself .I agree with you on this. RK need to suffer big time and go through all the pain in triplicate what he put Madhu through before there is even a thought of them getting together. Redemption has to be not with a sorry or please, but with him crying those tears of blood which he made her cry because of his ego and arrogance <div>Nikhila



Hey I remember you but if you hadn't reminded me from where then I would still have been wondering why you are so familiar. LOL!

I agree...RK's redemption can not be brushed over with a few words. Much more is needed from his side...much more.


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Posted: 12 April 2013 at 5:48pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by basheerahmajeed


Dear one ,
Am very sorry to know about you past and very happy to know that he is an EX!
And this is the reason why I watch this show, I disapprove of RK and I disapprove of Sultan and lately I have been diapproving of Madhu. I still watch it tho--- for all these flawed characters,who are so veryreal .
Mainly, Iunderstand the outrage that some members of the forum are feeling but I wish so much that they would calm down. If you cant handle such nonsense on reel with a calm mind set -- how are you going to handle what life has to offer.
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Yes all of the characters have flaws and that is far more interesting to watch them then perfect goody-two-shoes. However my issue with RK is he has become way real for my taste and I'm unable to handle it with an open mind. I watch shows to flee reality, not be brutally reminded of it.


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Posted: 12 April 2013 at 5:54pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by priyanisia

if a strong women is like Madhubala there is no reason left for me to believe why women are physically and mentally abused in India. Anany karne wale se sehne wala jyada doshi hain... hope CVS for sake of their TRP's to show lovey dovey moment do not tarnish the image of their so called STRONG WOMEN main lead character.


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