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Posted: 11 April 2013 at 4:53pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by ilovedhanjanird

Originally posted by rhtpkcm

Meera is not so sati savitri as well, anyone would do that if they were in her position, a wife's pain after all is more than a girlfriends, and meera can't give ani's memories back...she's pregnant, nandini will be in more pain...nandini is not whiny but in shock...as shyama said she would die if she was in nandini's position...I don't like meera don't know why but she annoys me, as in telling nandini to forget and that she was in the same boat, do u think any wife would be like to told something like that...I know ani cheated on her as well...but I remember a few episodes back meera said that she is jealous of nandini, as she has the title of a widow...but doesn't she know that this title will stick for the rest of her life...meera can move on but she doesn't choose too.

Meera didn't rub the photos, but she lied...and nandini is living the lies pain...it was far better if she knew the truth. In this show meera is trying to be the extra nice bahu but in a modern avatar...whereas nandini is sticking up for herself, she will confront balraj...she can't live with this truth and the precap proves it...comparing nandini's pain to meeras, Nandini's is far worse.


Meera is not sari savitri
But she is much understanding than nandini is
And the truth reminds nandini was anirudh's wife
While meera was his love
Yeah meera lied because after losing a husband the last thing a woman needs to know is of her husbands infidelity
And meera has all right to stay in the house as she is bearing anis child
If ani was my brother I would want meera to stay in the house

Meera has no right to stay in that house, which belongs to Nandini in the first place, it's not even Ani's house. Meera chose to get pregnant out-of-wedlock, it was HER decision, so what's with the rights now? She chose to have unprotected premarital sex with a guy who was refusing to introduce her to his family, and who clearly gave signs of never marrying her (from his conversation about marriage being for old-fashioned girls). This was a choice she made, so I think she should be strong, stand by her decision of keeping the baby, and support her baby herself. Of coarse we all know Balraj won't let that happen since he wants his heir. Even though Meera is absolutely innocent and has no fault in what has happened, I don't understand why Nandini should have to or is expected to keep her cheating husband's girlfriend in her home.


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Posted: 11 April 2013 at 4:59pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by tamanna_20

Originally posted by ilovedhanjanird

Originally posted by rhtpkcm

Meera is not so sati savitri as well, anyone would do that if they were in her position, a wife's pain after all is more than a girlfriends, and meera can't give ani's memories back...she's pregnant, nandini will be in more pain...nandini is not whiny but in shock...as shyama said she would die if she was in nandini's position...I don't like meera don't know why but she annoys me, as in telling nandini to forget and that she was in the same boat, do u think any wife would be like to told something like that...I know ani cheated on her as well...but I remember a few episodes back meera said that she is jealous of nandini, as she has the title of a widow...but doesn't she know that this title will stick for the rest of her life...meera can move on but she doesn't choose too.

Meera didn't rub the photos, but she lied...and nandini is living the lies pain...it was far better if she knew the truth. In this show meera is trying to be the extra nice bahu but in a modern avatar...whereas nandini is sticking up for herself, she will confront balraj...she can't live with this truth and the precap proves it...comparing nandini's pain to meeras, Nandini's is far worse.


Meera is not sari savitri
But she is much understanding than nandini is
And the truth reminds nandini was anirudh's wife
While meera was his love
Yeah meera lied because after losing a husband the last thing a woman needs to know is of her husbands infidelity
And meera has all right to stay in the house as she is bearing anis child
If ani was my brother I would want meera to stay in the house


<font color="#663366">Meera has no right to stay in that house, which belongs to Nandini in the first place, it's not even Ani's house. Meera chose to get pregnant out-of-wedlock, it was HER decision, so what's with the rights now?</font>


What did that baby do ? If meera is not aborting it (which I think she should)
Why doesn't the baby deserve the love of their dad's family ?
Anirudh is dead , doesn't his family deserve his baby?
Anirudh is at fault for making false promises
Why should the baby suffer?
Ashthanas have a lot of money , why should the child be brought up while struggles come their mom's way
Of course now if meera decides to support the child herself she can
But the child has nothing to do with this
They should fully enjoy the benefits of being the heir of Anirudh doesn't matter if it was in or out of wedlock
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Posted: 11 April 2013 at 5:04pm | IP Logged
Okay relax , Aditi fans , no one is comparing the two actors
We are talking about the character's reaction
I judge the world from MY PERSPECTIVE
My opinion will not match yours but I don't deserve to be bashed
You don't agree with my opinion , okay! No one if forcing you to
But stop attacking me because I don't approve of nandini's whining
Okay ?
And if you really think this forum is for you to attack openly then it is not

As for someone who commented in another thread about me
I am not the one who is supporting anything my favourite actor does
I don't prefer sanjeeda over Aditi
I have always liked Aditi , but just because I like Aditi I am not obliged to like any of nandini's actions
And stop with the name calling
Just because I think this woman is whining , I am not "mad"
Stop getting so hyper over a fictional character

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Posted: 11 April 2013 at 5:08pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by ilovedhanjanird

Originally posted by tamanna_20

Originally posted by ilovedhanjanird

Originally posted by rhtpkcm

Meera is not so sati savitri as well, anyone would do that if they were in her position, a wife's pain after all is more than a girlfriends, and meera can't give ani's memories back...she's pregnant, nandini will be in more pain...nandini is not whiny but in shock...as shyama said she would die if she was in nandini's position...I don't like meera don't know why but she annoys me, as in telling nandini to forget and that she was in the same boat, do u think any wife would be like to told something like that...I know ani cheated on her as well...but I remember a few episodes back meera said that she is jealous of nandini, as she has the title of a widow...but doesn't she know that this title will stick for the rest of her life...meera can move on but she doesn't choose too.

Meera didn't rub the photos, but she lied...and nandini is living the lies pain...it was far better if she knew the truth. In this show meera is trying to be the extra nice bahu but in a modern avatar...whereas nandini is sticking up for herself, she will confront balraj...she can't live with this truth and the precap proves it...comparing nandini's pain to meeras, Nandini's is far worse.


Meera is not sari savitri
But she is much understanding than nandini is
And the truth reminds nandini was anirudh's wife
While meera was his love
Yeah meera lied because after losing a husband the last thing a woman needs to know is of her husbands infidelity
And meera has all right to stay in the house as she is bearing anis child
If ani was my brother I would want meera to stay in the house


<font color="#663366">Meera has no right to stay in that house, which belongs to Nandini in the first place, it's not even Ani's house. Meera chose to get pregnant out-of-wedlock, it was HER decision, so what's with the rights now?</font>


What did that baby do ? If meera is not aborting it (which I think she should)
Why doesn't the baby deserve the love of their dad's family ?
Anirudh is dead , doesn't his family deserve his baby?
Anirudh is at fault for making false promises
Why should the baby suffer?
Ashthanas have a lot of money , why should the child be brought up while struggles come their mom's way
Of course now if meera decides to support the child herself she can
But the child has nothing to do with this
They should fully enjoy the benefits of being the heir of Anirudh doesn't matter if it was in or out of wedlock

The baby didn't do anything.
Yes maybe his family deserves his baby.
But then why does Nandini deserve to have to live her life with her cheating dead husband's girlfriend? I'm sure these two will eventually become friends and support each other, and both will benefit from each other's support. But for now, looking at it from Nandini's point of view now, why does she deserve this? Because she lost her baby, so to give the family Ani's baby she should give up her home and family to Meera? I'm surprised people actually expect her to do this and think she is whining! It's not easy to do.
And personally I don't think Meera has the right to enjoy the benefits of her child being heir of Anirudh. I have no problem with sex before marraige, but if you're doing it unprotected with full consent, then I don't see the point in crying for rights afterwards once your pregnant. If you make the decision to be pregnant out-of-wedlock, there are no rights to cry for. Obviously, this is just my own personal opinion, nothing else.

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Posted: 11 April 2013 at 5:13pm | IP Logged
No wife would be okay with the mistress living in the house, bearing her husband's child.  That's just how it is.

Meera doesn't need to live in THAT house.  Forget that Meera's mother is well off, and can probably give her some support.  Even if she weren't, it is not Meera's right to live in that house.  

If Anirudh were alive, Meera could demand some support from Anirudh.  But Anirudh is dead.  Who knows if he had any money to his name.  Perhaps Meera could fight to give her child some money from the Asthanas, because as Anirudh's child, it probably would be entitled to something.

But again, it is not Meera's right by any mean to live in the Asthana House.

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Posted: 11 April 2013 at 5:17pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by ilovedhanjanird

Originally posted by rhtpkcm

Meera is not so sati savitri as well, anyone would do that if they were in her position, a wife's pain after all is more than a girlfriends, and meera can't give ani's memories back...she's pregnant, nandini will be in more pain...nandini is not whiny but in shock...as shyama said she would die if she was in nandini's position...I don't like meera don't know why but she annoys me, as in telling nandini to forget and that she was in the same boat, do u think any wife would be like to told something like that...I know ani cheated on her as well...but I remember a few episodes back meera said that she is jealous of nandini, as she has the title of a widow...but doesn't she know that this title will stick for the rest of her life...meera can move on but she doesn't choose too.

Meera didn't rub the photos, but she lied...and nandini is living the lies pain...it was far better if she knew the truth. In this show meera is trying to be the extra nice bahu but in a modern avatar...whereas nandini is sticking up for herself, she will confront balraj...she can't live with this truth and the precap proves it...comparing nandini's pain to meeras, Nandini's is far worse.


Meera is not sari savitri
But she is much understanding than nandini is
And the truth reminds nandini was anirudh's wife
While meera was his love
Yeah meera lied because after losing a husband the last thing a woman needs to know is of her husbands infidelity
And meera has all right to stay in the house as she is bearing anis child
If ani was my brother I would want meera to stay in the house

You mentioned in your original post that if Nandini's husband was really hers then he would never cheat on her.
In that case, if Meera was really Ani's love then he would never cheat on her either, keep her in the dark, and have a pregnant wife at home in secret. 
So to say Nandini can't refer to her husband as "mera tha", but Meera can be called Ani's love doesn't make sense.

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Posted: 11 April 2013 at 5:19pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by tamanna_20

Originally posted by ilovedhanjanird

Originally posted by tamanna_20

Originally posted by ilovedhanjanird

Originally posted by rhtpkcm

Meera is not so sati savitri as well, anyone would do that if they were in her position, a wife's pain after all is more than a girlfriends, and meera can't give ani's memories back...she's pregnant, nandini will be in more pain...nandini is not whiny but in shock...as shyama said she would die if she was in nandini's position...I don't like meera don't know why but she annoys me, as in telling nandini to forget and that she was in the same boat, do u think any wife would be like to told something like that...I know ani cheated on her as well...but I remember a few episodes back meera said that she is jealous of nandini, as she has the title of a widow...but doesn't she know that this title will stick for the rest of her life...meera can move on but she doesn't choose too.

Meera didn't rub the photos, but she lied...and nandini is living the lies pain...it was far better if she knew the truth. In this show meera is trying to be the extra nice bahu but in a modern avatar...whereas nandini is sticking up for herself, she will confront balraj...she can't live with this truth and the precap proves it...comparing nandini's pain to meeras, Nandini's is far worse.


Meera is not sari savitri
But she is much understanding than nandini is
And the truth reminds nandini was anirudh's wife
While meera was his love
Yeah meera lied because after losing a husband the last thing a woman needs to know is of her husbands infidelity
And meera has all right to stay in the house as she is bearing anis child
If ani was my brother I would want meera to stay in the house


<font color="#663366">Meera has no right to stay in that house, which belongs to Nandini in the first place, it's not even Ani's house. Meera chose to get pregnant out-of-wedlock, it was HER decision, so what's with the rights now?</font>


What did that baby do ? If meera is not aborting it (which I think she should)
Why doesn't the baby deserve the love of their dad's family ?
Anirudh is dead , doesn't his family deserve his baby?
Anirudh is at fault for making false promises
Why should the baby suffer?
Ashthanas have a lot of money , why should the child be brought up while struggles come their mom's way
Of course now if meera decides to support the child herself she can
But the child has nothing to do with this
They should fully enjoy the benefits of being the heir of Anirudh doesn't matter if it was in or out of wedlock


<font color="#663366">The baby didn't do anything.</font>
<font color="#663366">Yes maybe his family deserves his baby.</font>
<font color="#663366">But then why does Nandini deserve to have to live her life with her cheating dead husband's girlfriend? I'm sure these two will eventually become friends and support each other, and both will benefit from each other's support. But for now, looking at it from Nandini's point of view now, why does she deserve this? Because she lost her baby, so to give the family Ani's baby she should give up her home and family to Meera? I'm surprised people actually expect her to do this and think she is whining! It's not easy to do.</font>
<font color="#663366">And personally I don't think Meera has the right to enjoy the benefits of her child being heir of Anirudh. I have no problem with sex before marraige, but if you're doing it unprotected with full consent, then I don't see the point in crying for rights afterwards once your pregnant. If you make the decision to be pregnant out-of-wedlock, there are no rights to cry for. Obviously, this is just my own personal opinion, nothing else.</font>



While I can never comprehend why meera would want to keep the baby who will only remind her of her lover's betrayal but I think the baby deserves their family's love and privileges
As for nandini , nandini didn't do anything to deserve this
It's bad luck
As for them living in this house , this house right now is Balraj's
Hence the baby has full right to live in their grandfather's house
As for meera , if this house was right now nandini's then she should have left
But nandini is living in her sasural , meera is living in their to be born's grandpa's house
Meera didn't ask for the rights, but it is given to her
Nandini will eventually come to terms with her feelings
It is not nandini's fault
It is all anirudh's fault
Meera's fault is unprotected sex, but she isn't the only one , Anirudh was a part of that decision too
But I personally wanted meera to leave and go away from Balraj
I also think i would be devastated if I had to see the woman my husband was sleeping with in the house I grew up (if my personality was like nandini's )
I have nothing against nandini
But I just think her reaction was wrong
It is also contradictory to her character , she is the same woman who didn't doubt this lady when everyone else was
But of course they needed this track to take the series forward
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Posted: 11 April 2013 at 5:23pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by tamanna_20

Originally posted by ilovedhanjanird

Originally posted by rhtpkcm

Meera is not so sati savitri as well, anyone would do that if they were in her position, a wife's pain after all is more than a girlfriends, and meera can't give ani's memories back...she's pregnant, nandini will be in more pain...nandini is not whiny but in shock...as shyama said she would die if she was in nandini's position...I don't like meera don't know why but she annoys me, as in telling nandini to forget and that she was in the same boat, do u think any wife would be like to told something like that...I know ani cheated on her as well...but I remember a few episodes back meera said that she is jealous of nandini, as she has the title of a widow...but doesn't she know that this title will stick for the rest of her life...meera can move on but she doesn't choose too.

Meera didn't rub the photos, but she lied...and nandini is living the lies pain...it was far better if she knew the truth. In this show meera is trying to be the extra nice bahu but in a modern avatar...whereas nandini is sticking up for herself, she will confront balraj...she can't live with this truth and the precap proves it...comparing nandini's pain to meeras, Nandini's is far worse.


Meera is not sari savitri
But she is much understanding than nandini is
And the truth reminds nandini was anirudh's wife
<font color="#ff0000">While meera was his love </font>
Yeah meera lied because after losing a husband the last thing a woman needs to know is of her husbands infidelity
And meera has all right to stay in the house as she is bearing anis child
If ani was my brother I would want meera to stay in the house


<font color="#663366">You mentioned in your original post that if Nandini's husband was really hers then he would never cheat on her.</font>
<font color="#663366">In that case, if Meera was really Ani's love then he would never cheat on her either, keep her in the dark, and have a pregnant wife at home in secret.</font>
<font color="#663366">So to say Nandini can't refer to her husband as "mera th
a", but Meera can be called Ani's love doesn't make sense.
</font>


You know they say "if you love two people at the same time, go with the second one because you wouldn't have gone to the second one "
Ani definitely knew meera well , he knew she would never involve in a relationship with him
Nandini was his fathers choice not his
But of course nandini didn't deserve this
I don't support Ani I am just saying what could be

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