Episode 241 Discussion: 9th April 2013 - Page 13

@Shri, thank God that Dipali or Sultan didn't jump from behind the mask during Rishbala discussion. The picnic basket was entertaining enough for one day. Today I couldn't have handled an item number by Dips nor Sultan. 

That song...Mithun, Bindiya Goswami and that boy...Wow..."Sultan tum Madhu se pyaar Karte Ho"  Face Palm.

Must say what a find. [/quote]

I'm glad you like it, indeed it was a perfect match for current Sultan's situation 😆

 

Emotional Abuse:- I am not sure when RK truly abused Madhu Physically or emotionally. Yes he was rough in handling her physically but Madhu never seemed to mind instead seemed to revel in what she thought was proof of his passion. As for emotional abuse- RK did not humiliate her when she was married to him...he did do it in initial days but Madhu gave back as good as she got and then he cherished her to the point that she felt like she was at the top of the world only to break her heart in climax of his plan. I call it breaking heart not emotional abuse something akin to finding out your spouse is having an affair and wants to walk out of your marraige rather than day in day out blackmail and humiliation. After unwedding Madhu was once again as much a party to inviting his lashing out  as he himself. From Rk's end all was said and done...But Madhu stayed in front on him forcing him to face his unresolved feelings and hence lashing out. Again no emotional abuse. When he forces her to return home today ...the negative impact of his force is reduced by the fact that Madhu is clueless and she has done something truly dangerous by associating with Sultan (in the big scheme of things Madhu needs to be controlled and RK is the only one who succeeds in doing that) and the fact Madhu is still stuck on RK and somewhere in her heart still wants him back.

 

Sexual Overtones:- This was really amazing to me...I have always believed when emotion take over, they manifest as physical gestures. ?Hence the term "Bhawnaoon Mein Beh Jana". The fact remains that the bond and love between Rishbala is amazingly strong despite both thier denials for the same. Whenever they come close...thier emotions take over and it oozes out in physical gestures with sexual overtones. When RK went for Holi dance...he was saying ...look you are allowing me to do this to you...you are not screaming bloody murder...you are yearning for this closeness even if you deny and you want it from me and me alone...how can you claim to move on ? Do you allow someone else to do this for you? ...Do you believe someone else can do this for you? Both of them seemed to be one and at peace when RK lifts her. Same thing happenned in last episode Madhu's emotions took over and she leans towards RK for a kiss. I am assuming the whole reason for hue and cry is "unwedding" but the fact remains unwedding or not...Both of them see each other as thier spouse subconciously. In RK's words " Phere char ho ya chaalis...koi pharak nahi padta...Pharak is baat se padta hai ki main Madhu ko dil se biwi maanta hoon ki nahi aur main use biwi maanta hoon". Well ...Madhu.. RK ko apna pati maanti hai ...so everything else is a moot point.

before talking of morality, why not step back and analyze Madhu's actions ? WHO came to RK's set after the unwedding? WHO challenged RK ?  WHO said to her mother that she cannot back off bec. she has not learnt to ? WHO was confident of being a jockey of this RACE ?  WHO was confident of breaking RK? and after breaking him, making him go on his knees, does Madhu think that she will show attitude with a "NO WAY, are you kidding me? you and me together?" and RK will leave her unharmed? 😲 It was Madhu who acc. to many didn't have anything to lose this time,  wanted to move on, hence she took up this job of flaunting her "i'm unaffected by your prem game" trick and invite RK for another round of craziness with her ! What exactly did she think ? a man who can go to THIS length for revenge , what all can he do when he's in love? pagalpan of a different level and that's what he's doing ! don't tell me Madhu didn't REALIZE that RK is getting obsessed for her ! She saw it happening that day when he was waiting for her the whole night , waking up half of the Mumbai looking for her ! 

and now, doesn't she realize she's doing the same with Sultan also? it's like your chemistry teacher has warned you again and again not to mix H2SO4 with water, still  you're experimenting with it saying "main pagal thi, main ye pagalpan karti rahoongi" ! cool ! 😎 how can she NOT warrant THIs reaction from RK?  Is she a victim?😕 how, when , where, why? aa bail mujhe maar was made for Madhubala...jab bail aa gaya toh hai main bechari ? they are a crazy couple, they are feeding each others egos by these stupid challenges...the recent one being Madhu daring RK to accept that he's in chawl bec. he loves Madhu...then she's acting 😡 when he said "apni biwi ko apni zindagi mein laa raha hoon" 😆

@AY , he need not know the details of Sultan but still, out of curiousity or Bittuji getting to know some info on this man will help RK a big deal...bec. Sultan is most wanted..

Today's wooing is genuine...just that some of you don't trust him