Originally posted by: itsmadsera
Jammy dear I agree there was so much of mess happening in the IPK forum
In the name of constructive criticism people are cyber bulling and strip teasing an celebrity in public forum. We are doing that only because he is a celebrity shows our mentality. Everyone has difference of opinion. We should respect. No one is asking to agree with the kind of love we have for someone or become fans of someone. Everyone are here in this so called site to give their opinions. No one is asking anyone to stop hating or disliking someone but it is their dignity which words they are using
Everyone can dislike someone's work and are in a very freedom forum where they can show their dislike towards their work publicly but the limit at which we are going in someone personal traits is in an alarming way. It is crossing every limit. Sometimes on someone English, sometimes on oily face, sometimes on his hair, sometimes his appearance. When did English became an integral part for becoming an actor. Where is the code written in such a way that English is compulsory for people? Now it came to body odour
Where in a god name are we be trained to hope for some one career to go to the drain. If we ask the samething people say were you there when lady has been bashed. I never participated in any bashing but still I question if some one did really bash anyone what is the need now to bash the actor because someone has bashed some other person at some other point of time. Then what is the difference between you and other person?
There are chatclubs to discuss the personal things. But now every new week we have some other post to get the attention.
Having said all the above things and venting my frustration I still feel IPK forum should not close jammy. Why should a forum close because bunch of crazy people are creating havoc. When some of the members are creating non-sense and nuisance we don't close the company itself, rather we take away the people from the forum. Hopefully the nuisance creators from both the sides of fans and bashers should be made a point not to create such topics
I am no one to ask anyone to go away from forum like someone who wishes us to leave the forum but I feel some one better not to post such topics. If IPK is closed they search for other avenues to degrade the actor. They don't stop it so its better it is open. We shouldn't close the place we are connected because of bunch of people. This is purely my opinion
I honestly don't know what or why is this happening. I don't have a problem with anyone hating Barun Sobti. You hate him, you like him its totally your business but why the hell are you hell bent on degrading him to nothing? you say anything to defend your stance and you are automatically name a pankhi! I don't care about the labelling, this has past that stage. Infact I care only how people are being treated here. The mods can do only so much. They can't be around 24/7 and I understand that, the thing is that when they do show up the damage has already been done.
You dont' like someone, FINE! We are not asking you to like him or respect him but why wont they just leave him alone? No, I have it clear in my mind that Barun doesn't know who I am and neither do I care. It only disgusts me to witness people stoop so low just for the heck of it.
I have been ignoring it for so long and I can only take it so much. I had to literally leave the forum for a while and now I am only here because of the Fics. Thats it, I dont find the need to go to the forum and simply dampen my mood.
Even the different solo fan groups, they respond to everything thats being said. I honestly dont understand why people need to even say anything to the people who are clearly doing anything to seek attention. Its what they want. You love Barun/ Sanaya cool, there is no need to defend him/her in every ridiculous post they make.
You know what he is. He knows what he is. He really doesn't need to prove himself to anyone because those people don't care about him at all, so whats the point?
As for my concern regarding the forum shutting down. I have seen only ONE thread discussing the episodes and actually discussing it in true sense. They can shift to a CC. People post old pics of Barun or Sanaya and that also becomes a war zone. So really whats the point?
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