Posted: 17 May 2013 at 12:38am | IP Logged
Originally posted by payal7
Thank you for your feedback. (I hope you have read the final version of Gulabia's monologue as we have amended it to make her thinking more clearer). The fact that you guys asking questions, expressing opinions on a perticular track is really gratifying because it means you are enjoying the show we are putting up.
I wrote this episode so its my responsibility to try and explain where I am coming from on this.
There was no point in procastinating about Gulabia's acceptance of TVS.
Gulabia wanted to make sure Sugni's dream of being married and having a family came true. It has come true. She may not like TVS but one thing she cannot deny is that he has always taken care of Sugni and Sugni is happy.
Whatever she does at this stage will only hurt her daughter's marriage and her new family. At that stage she may be asked to leave, putting her further away from Sugni which she does not want and in the worst case scenario Sugni's marriage breaks up - would Sugni ever forgive her for that? And if that happened would she, Gulabia, be able to offer Sugni a better life, protect her from sardahkai in the future? No. so what would be the point?
So Gulabia listened and thought:
- that is living in her daughter's sasural
- Sugni chose to marry Vikram knowing everything
- they are married and are living as a couple and she is ectatically happy
- Sugni has been accepted and is being given all the respect due to her as Vikram's wife by the family
- Aditya has told Gulabia that he is not prepared to do anything else for her especially if it involves going against his family and hurting them all again
- part of dislike for TVS stems from what happened in her life
and decided that in the interest of Sugni's happiness she has no choice but like all of them put what happened behind them and move forward.
Gulabia and TVS's relationship is one borne out of necessity because they both love Sugni and want her in their life and for Sugni they are both equally important.
The challenge for Gulabia will be that when SugVi face difficulties she does not let old hostilities make things worse between them.
Also it would be interesting to see how Gulabia will defend sugVi when some of her community cirtisise them.
Please also see Vinnie's comments below which I agree with wholeheartly.
Thank you so much for your participation... I am glad to get your feed back. I see you think it was two fast...but there was a reason for that.
See this is not a saas-bahu drama were the MIL ill cause problems and get away with it. Up until this point Gulabiya has been whispering her doubts to Sugni ...which was observed by her Maa Sahib, she tried to take Adi to task.
Vickram is not some one who would stand by and let that happen...Remember he never allowed his own sister to abuse Sugnii, and even after the factory burnt down when his family was blaming Sugni he steped in (even with claims of hating her) and says why dose every one blame her.
So it stands to reason he will not allow Gulabiy to cause much trouble now that he saw the way she talked and it would have turned nasty because he would have put her out... which would cause disquiet between him and Sugni...
Vickram is not a man to shy away from saying sorry so he did. And Gulabiya has not the sense, money or power to keep causing trouble ...so in the end she would loos her daughter again which is not really what I wanted to happen.
So I am sorry if you thought it was a bit to fast ...but given the strength of the two characters i can see no other way.
Originally posted by ronshaan
it was not your fault it was mine
because I my self felt it was fast I did not understand your view of that part of the story sand I felt the way all other felt
for me it was difficult to show her feelings and this might be the real reason why all others did not get the point
so it was not the bug in the story its me who did that part and did not get it correctly
any ways now i got it
apologize with all our fans ...
Please don't apologies. This is a team effort. If something is not conveyed correctly then we, writers and actors, have all made a mistake somewhere.
I am more than happy to take on board feedback provided and explain where we are coming from. Afer all that was one of the grips we had with Season 1 writers that they did not explain what they were trying to do, so we will not make the same mistake.
But may I please make a humble request - can we please restrict all feedback positive or negative to this thread only rather than several threads and polls etc.
I have a very demanding job so have limited time (and I know Vinnie is also short of time) and responding to several threads is very time consuming and occassionally we may miss one such thread.
If you can all restrict all your comments to this thread Vinnie and I promise to respond to your comments, queries etc but please do bear with us as we may NOT be able to respond immediately.
Thank you all very much for giving up your precious time to read and comment on the show. Please continue
Okay .. then we will discuss those things here !!1
yes u r rite agreed with u