Posted: 08 April 2013 at 11:45pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by turags
you guys need to read this chap again n digest it before i pounce chap 2 so thursday it is!!
you were so right about the time needed to digest this!
now, finally, i little bit of the fog of shock is lifting... i was totally utterly shocked with the hotel happenings yday..
as i see it essentially nidhi is a VERY headstrong girl (rohan n anji - uske dimag ek baat ghus jaati hai to buss!) n prob good in academics, since she wants to do med (research of drugs, self-confidence, trust of others) n on top mischievous n bold as well (she's landed into trouble b4 due to her bold and open ways)!
unfortunately this thing could've
been a real
and complete disaster, it was potentially very dangerous for nidhi herself...!
first of all drugging someone is a crime. what's worse is considering it an option to be used..
then there are potential dangers of the effect of the drug (of course depending on what she used)..
as ashutosh correctly asked her "if she's turned him into a pervert" - she could've led him to do sth irreversible without his consent, but i actually have faith in nidhi when she said "i just wanted some you n me pics" and didn't want to go beyond that, so that being out; ashutosh might have under the influence of the drug forced himself unknowingly
on her! fortunately he just passed out.. phew!
n then the other risks the girls took! probably sneaking out of their houses, going into a hotel at night, using the help of unknown ppl - the waiter n manager; they could've been found out even without aditi's murder, and public knowledge of such acts would be disastrous for all involved, but mostly the girls n their families would've lost face n their careers ended.. i am assuming that the involvement of the girls will remain a matter of police record and not become public knowledge..
hopefully rukmini (ashutosh's mom) doesn't go into a defamation spree..! i did find it very weird that she dramatically turned away from yograj, but then i couldn't put my finger on what was bothering me.. it was the fact that she blamed yograj as a parent for nidhi's actions.. it's not the parents fault when a headstrong, risk-taking, able to plan and execute teen decides to do sth like this or anything for that matter! all teens have secrets from their parents and share more with their friends.. so did nidhi - with anji. she was her partner in crime.
here i must say cudos to nidhi - i don't think she gave away anji's name, took the entire blame on herself AND she had the guts to speak up in face of dire consequences for herself! she was honest and gutsy and sensible enough to confess in front of her elders and her idol of her actions, and not stay quiet and let ashu take the blame for murder.
all in all, whether it be curiosity, idolization or the thrill of the forbidden, i think the pertinent point is the confusion of sexuality and somewhat lack of knowledge of it (male n female).. those transitional years of self-discovery.. & the danger of an inebriated mind..
i don't know how nidhi's parents or the other elders will treat her, see her henceforth, but i think once ashu has had time to "digest"
all the happenings, he will be able to forgive nidhi for her foolishness. but betrayal from his love and best friend.. yikes! dunno about that...
wow, i did write a looot... LOL
Edited by dancydreamer - 08 April 2013 at 11:48pm