Originally posted by NeerajaGirish
Hi, I don't know why people are having a problem with Dhawal's behaviour with Kinjal. As far as I am concerned, Kinjal is a spoilt and ill mannered girl (I don't know but she is very poor reflection of Koki's upbringing). Kinjal is not so innocent and she is now getting back the same from Dhaval. I only hope one day both Jigar, Parag met out the same treatment for their spouses. Marriage can work only when both husband and wife have mutual respect but putting down your husband in front of everyone like Koki and Kinjal do or lying constantly to your husband like Rashi does is not marriage. But my only crib of this serial is the title Saath nibana saathiya but it appears more of saath nibhana kokila.
Sorry if I have offened anyone.
Neeraja, you are free to post you views. .Don't think we will be offended.. Most of us think the same except that I think SNS is, these days more about Saath Nibhana Rashi and Urmila and their KKs than anybody else..
My goat is that if Dhawal is agree, he should be for the past, the way Kinjal was with him. He is being shown angry for Kinjal behaving like a wife finally which is what he wanted out of her..
If he has such problems with Kinjal's non trust issue then why was he taking the route of jealousy by acting to be all close to Falguni? Doesn't it defy logic? He went along with Falguni because he knew Kinjal would feel jealous and insecure but now he has a problem with the same thing?
The anger is not because Dhawal is treating Kinjal bad but it is because of why he is doing it and also because he is a hypocrite of first order. He does not say a word when his fui insults Kinjal the same way but admonishes Kinjal..
How is that correct? Anyway, I think Parag already dealt with Koki.. Jigar is forever blind about Rashi.. Jithu has runaway not able to bear his wife Urmila.
But when Kinjal changes, she is being shown the other side of the face.. Is it because she looked at her behavior, was sorry and she changed? She should have remained a shrew
~~~If you do not change direction, you may end up where you are heading. -- Lao Tzu ~~~~~
Hi Thanks for your reply. Regarding Dhawal,if I understood correctly he was too intimidated by Kinjal and Kinjal cared two hoots for him. When she worked as a model she never took his permission, when Kokila and her family stayed at Rajpal Nagar just to spite Urmila she behaved very badly. Being straight forward and being rude and proud is different.
For Dhawal , Falguni was a true friend who accepted for what he is hence he could not bear Kinjal's behaviour towards her. If not he would have pulled her up many times when she misbehaved with him, Urmi (whether we like it or not urmi is elder and also equal to her mother in law), or Kokila. But in trying to teach his wife a lesson, I also think the CV's lost their plot that's why we are not able to complelely sympathise with Dhawal.
Regarding Kokila, she never cared for Parag simply because he was not ambitious like Chirag. She showed disrespect to him and Parag only reacted when she falsely accused him of having affair with her sister. But wasn't Kokila wrong in her bahaviour but since it is Kokola, cv's have to some how justify her but in real life Parag type of husbands are called henpecked. I thought the story for Saath Nibana Saathiya would be how couples of different mentality come together, how the husband and wife relation works out. But the show is only Kalakaris being done by Urmi, or Rashi or Kinjal and the list goes on... The tile is very misleading.