Yikes.. to think I actually know that feeling.. till one day you realize the world was right and you were the fool 😛
Your feet are off the ground, and you feel like you are in an alternate reality, where there is only you and your beloved. No one else is there. Even if that person doesn't reciprocate, you still continue loving him/her, against all odds. THIS is what makes love unconditional. When you continue loving that person, without even expecting that person to love you back!
Sigh... that sounds too good to be true. Maybe I cannot give unconditional love.. I can give love, but in the end I end up expecting the same in return. Maybe that is in fact, my problem. That I expect people to love me the same way I love them. But isn't that a good condition .. I mean for a relationship to last, shouldn't both people involved actually contribute equally .. else won't it be a disaster, with one person always feeling like only they are contributing. I mean for love to last, don't you have to understand what the other needs and give it to them? Or is my idea of a relationship screwed up 😆
But in reality, unconditional love is rare, as most people are either too busy for it, or they just don't believe in it! The love that you share with your partner CAN be unconditional, that kinda depends on them being the right person for you, and also your intentions in being in a relationship with them. As you said, people chose to be in a relationship with others depending on a lot of reasons. They chose to be with someone because they are rich, hot, well-educated, convenience. etc.
I am in the best relationship I have ever been in.. 😆 I choose to be with me forever, 'coz I am awesome and now that's something that will never change as long as I live.. or maybe even after that 😉 So this is one love that will always remain the same 😆 And I love myself no matter what I am like.. and that my folks is unconditional.
But I agree.. and I love you for that answer .. and I will keep hoping I can find unconditional love... 'coz I am not settling for anything less! 😡
You know you are your partner are compatible when their stupid mistakes make you laugh, and their draw-backs don't matter to you. They make you laugh, they make you cry, they make you do things you have NEVER done before. So that's how you know they are the ONE, someone who you would like to spend the rest of your life with. And you trust, that you will never get bored of them, and nor will they ever get bored of you.
You took a dig at me, didn't you snakewa? 😆 I do get bored, very easily.. and I think its my partner's responsibility to make sure I don't.. hahaha 😆
And as for your last question, there is really no way to quantify love.You either love someone or you don't. It's not something that could be measured or proved. The person whom you love will know it, without you even telling him/her. It doesn't even need to be expressed. Because when one loves someone unconditionally, they are already proving that they love that person, just based on their actions around that person. It is not something that can be hidden.
Hmm. Now I hate that. I wish there was a way to determine whether someone loved you.. so you could avoid the heartbreak!
Challenge accepted. I am going to win the Nobel prize for devising the algorithm that quantifies love. Oh wait, what category will that fall in? Peace prize?? Haha.. if people knew how to quantify love, they will stay away from assholes and the world would be at peace.. ! 😆
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