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Posted: 03 March 2013 at 8:59pm | IP Logged
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Posted: 11 March 2013 at 12:51am | IP Logged

  1. Never
  2. My mom's friends (as in my aunts) always tell me that it's my age to get married and I was 18 when they started saying this. I hate when they do that. Dead I always make a comment back, which shuts them up, but they always start again whenever we meet.  This happens with many of us. parents and family members think that marrying off a girl means getting yourself free from all liabilities...Dead Pathetic mentality.
  3. It happened while I was in Switzerland this December. Two boys who I didn't know approached me in the hotel and started making comments. Then one pinched me in the rear. I lost it at that especially because no one was helping me even though there were 15 or 16 people in the lobby. I slapped both boys and gave them a hard kick in their balls. That's when people approached and started hitting and yelling at the 2 men. That's when I learned that if you don't help or stand up for yourself, no one will help you. fantastic job...Clap These kind of morons dont listen when you say something but you have to use your power only... And, yes, this happens with many. The crowd becomes a mute audience...Angry

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Posted: 11 March 2013 at 12:14pm | IP Logged
^^^
My parents are cool about my marriage. I've made a deal with my mom. She said that either I choose my own husband by the time I turn 30, or she'll choose a husband for me. I'm cool with that.

As for these idiots, I wish all the girls could do that. None of us would ever get eve-teased or raped again.

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Posted: 11 March 2013 at 12:22pm | IP Logged
Fantastic Shreya you did good by hitting those boys they deserved it
even in Switzerland they don't help girls when she is in trouble what the  Angry

And about the marriage same thing is happening with me. My relatives just come from India for the first time a few months ago and they were shocked when they realized i haven't got married. They were criticizing me that people my age have at least five children by now. I was so angry. I felt like saying a few words to them but then my stopped me and now thank God they gone back. I can concentrate on my uni studies now

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Posted: 12 March 2013 at 2:44am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Nikki.

Fantastic Shreya you did good by hitting those boys they deserved it
even in Switzerland they don't help girls when she is in trouble what the  Angry

And about the marriage same thing is happening with me. My relatives just come from India for the first time a few months ago and they were shocked when they realized i haven't got married. They were criticizing me that people my age have at least five children by now. I was so angry. I felt like saying a few words to them but then my stopped me and now thank God they gone back. I can concentrate on my uni studies now




ShockedShockedShocked Really...?? Thats why we Indians are lagging behind in social system. Girls are looked upon as if they are just kids producing (rather SON producing) machines..

Early marriages means more children and thats why Indian Population is second largest in the world...WinkLOL

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Posted: 14 March 2013 at 2:59am | IP Logged


1. When you have felt that you are getting less because you are a girl.AngryAngryAngry NEVER
2. Situations where your own people (Parents, siblings, Grand parents etc.) have done gender discrimination against you.DeadDead  Often. My family members insist me on doing somethings that should be done by me becasue I am a girl...Angry Like, say, my brother has not learnt any house hold work but still my mom praises him for that.... His first engagement broke and his marriage is suffering from certain problems at now but still, my mom always takes his side to defend him...

3. Incidents like eve teasing, boys touching you inappropriately, sexual harassment by known people (teachers, colleagues etc.)
Many times. I travel by autos and buses, so starring continuosly is regualrly faced by me. But then, one day...two boys were following me right from the time I was in bus till my home. One of them stopped me and said-"You are very cute". I told-"I know...LOL" Then, I started walking...The other one asked-"Can I get your cell number..??" I said-"ya Sure..its 100 (100 is the number for calling POLICE) Again started walking. One of them asked-"Can we meet somewhere..??" I answered-"Why not...?? Come to the police station..we can talk there..."

Girls, you wouldn't believe, both of them ran like anything from there...LOL Even today, whenever I recall this incident, I cannot control my laugh and I tell myself: Proud of you...!!Smile







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Posted: 14 March 2013 at 10:20am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Muskaan92


3. Incidents like eve teasing, boys touching you inappropriately, sexual harassment by known people (teachers, colleagues etc.)
Many times. I travel by autos and buses, so starring continuosly is regualrly faced by me. But then, one day...two boys were following me right from the time I was in bus till my home. One of them stopped me and said-"You are very cute". I told-"I know...LOL" Then, I started walking...The other one asked-"Can I get your cell number..??" I said-"ya Sure..its 100 (100 is the number for calling POLICE) Again started walking. One of them asked-"Can we meet somewhere..??" I answered-"Why not...?? Come to the police station..we can talk there..."

Girls, you wouldn't believe, both of them ran like anything from there...LOL Even today, whenever I recall this incident, I cannot control my laugh and I tell myself: Proud of you...!!Smile



Awesome! Why use hands and legs when you can use your tongue? LOL

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Posted: 07 April 2013 at 2:25pm | IP Logged
I just remembered something that happened a few years ago with me 
I think i was around 17/18 that time. 

There was a festival in London so the buses were going on a different route 

Once the festival finished the buses were back to normal but we had to wait for it for nearly an hour because it was a huge traffic, During that one hour that i was at the bus stop. There was loads of public but i didn't know anyone of them so i ignored them and sat on the bench waiting for the bus. A man who looked in his early twenties and he was an Indian came and sat next to me really closely pushing me to move ahead it was kind of strange at first because there was no one at the other side of him so he could have moved but he didn't. Finally i got fed up and left from there and stood near the stop instead of sitting. When 10 minutes later the bus came i went inside and went on the first floor and sat down straight away, 20 seconds later the same man came and sat next to me even though there were loads of empty seats behind me and he didn't go there which is what usually people do. Finally i gave it a though and got out of my seat and went behind to sit with a group of girls. The guy left the bus straight after that. Which was totally strange he was on the bus for only 2 stops so why did he get on it in the first place but i forgot about that and gave a sense of relief. But the whole one hour journey during the night i was really scared thinking he would come back but he didn't. Thank God the girls that i sat with left the bus the same stop as me so i wasn't scared that much but still i was scared. My heart was still beating thinking what would happen now. When i got of the bus my house was around 5/6 mins away but i ran covered the distance in two minutes and if i run that fast in the Olympics i would have at least got the second prize LOL

Something similar happened today with my friend so i thought of sharing it with you which i nver told my parents becuase i thought they would be scared because for some reason i still remember that day

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