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Posted: 23 February 2013 at 5:50pm | IP Logged

100% certainty it is for me too but as Swasthi rightfully pointed out it depends on individuals.

See how UrShi took a 50-50 chance on Jigar being a nice guy. They did hit jackpot you know. Jigar could have turned out to be a very bad person. But Rashi got lucky. There are some advantages of not being sure.

But I will take 100% over the grey shades anytime. See how knowing that Ahem hated her, made it easy for Gopi to work towards making him love her. If he had played god cop at times and then bad cop, Gopi would have found it impossible to know what he really wanted and hence their relationship would not have been where it is now.SmileSmile

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Posted: 23 February 2013 at 6:32pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Justlikethat1


100% certainty it is for me too but as Swasthi rightfully pointed out it depends on individuals.

See how UrShi took a 50-50 chance on Jigar being a nice guy. They did hit jackpot you know. Jigar could have turned out to be a very bad person. But Rashi got lucky. There are some advantages of not being sure.

But I will take 100% over the grey shades anytime. See how knowing that Ahem hated her, made it easy for Gopi to work towards making him love her. If he had played god cop at times and then bad cop, Gopi would have found it impossible to know what he really wanted and hence their relationship would not have been where it is now.SmileSmile



This is a fab answer harini! So that gives the snswer its better to deal with a bad person! And the previous question was interesting and like swasthi pointed out that depends on individuals. Ive seen few people comfortable with fickle minded people only! Coz yoi know sometimes they may agree with you rather than contradicting you every now and then

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Posted: 24 February 2013 at 7:27am | IP Logged
LOL Thanks Madhu.. But I am going to play devil's advocate hereWink

See with someone who is set in their ways (lets forget for a moment that they are bad or good), it is always going to be a sure NO or Yes from them, right?

Imagine this. The younger Modis want to go to a movie theatre for some fun. Remember how Koki was completely against the idea. She had to be overridden by the entire set of elders and she agreed only when Baa blackmailed her. But what if it was only Koki there without the other elders? Do you think Kokila would have ever agreed? No.
Koki is never fickle. She decides on something and that is final in her mind. Now with such a person, you can always hope for 100% certainty but you also know that if they decide against what you want, you 100% will not get itSmile

Now take Mota Bhabhi.. All you need to do is convince her (which is not all that difficult). Given the right arguments, she will agree. So again you have a greater than 50% chance to get what you want. This is how UrShi play the Modis.

But the point is, yes, it is easier to deal with a fickle minded person when you have the right influence and arguments. So now what will you choose?

A 100% rejection or a window for acceptance?Wink 

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Posted: 24 February 2013 at 12:46pm | IP Logged
You are right Harini.  Mota bhabi is the most  fickle of them all.  How dangerous was it when Rashi started to drip poison into her ears about the treatment of the younger Modis.  What had flowed along relatively smoothly was stirred up by not just Rashi but Hetal's inability to see reason.  Beware a fickle minded person as they can easily become snakes in the grass.

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Posted: 24 February 2013 at 1:01pm | IP Logged
That is the most dangerous thing about the fickle minded Xari. They are too easily swayed and when they are influenced by the wrong urns say someone like UrShi, they will become mean and dangerous to those who really care.

That is what happened in the Batwara track. Mota Bhabhi became so blind and so influenced that she forgot the relationships she had lived with for 30 odd years.

The same thing happens in reality  too and the ones who really suffer around the fickle minded are those who care. From what I have seen, the carers have the least influence or lets just say, they are too caring to influence these fickle mindedSmile

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True you caught the right point! INFLUENCE! matters a lot! So it generally depends on how well you can influence the others to get your work done! Urshi have a great influence on mota bhabi especially. Great you reminded that batwara track else I never remembered how fickle minded hetal is!

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Madu, nice topic and everyone else nice replies love them will come back to thisTongue

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I thought Rashi first wanted a life of comfort and so she did KKs to marry Jigar. Then she wanted what Gopi had and hence tried to ruin Gopi. The underlying reason for her resentment for Gopi has always been that Gopi is praised while Rashi is not.

So today when Koki said Baa was happy about Rashi donating her necklace and that she herself was happy.. why is Rashi not happy? The family is praising her and she got praised for giving away a paltry piece of jewellery.

So what does Rashi really want? She always thinks that the thing she does not get is the better oneOuch

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