DOTW-23'Feb-2'Mar-Fickle Minded Vs Bad-DT NOTE-Pg2

Hello Saathiyans,its my turn to put up the Discussion of the week! So here is my topic.hope you have fun! Edited by munnihyderabad - 11 years ago

Interesting topic for the week Madhu. Edited by swasthi - 11 years ago

Great topic Madhu👏
I though disagree with the examples😉
To me Ahem was neither bad nor fickle minded. Rashi is both bad as well as fickle minded.

Ahem was mean in the beginning but he was not bad. He did not want to hurt anyone intentionally. Yes he hurt Gopi but that was mostly because he wanted to avoid her. That is what he told her. He did not want to be in the marriage and wanted her out. That hurt Gopi because she loved her husband.
Physically though, except for that one slap, Ahem was not bad. He actually was humane to see and help Gopi whenever she was in pain. That makes him a nice human because whatever his prejudice he still had the heart to help the person he considered his 'enemy'.
Ahem of course was never fickle minded. He was very thorough in his hate as he is thorough in his love. That is why we love Ahem.


As for Rashi, she is both bad as well as fickle minded in my PoV. She loves hurting people. She takes pleasure in their pain.. She actually likes hurting people. That is my definition of bad. When you take pleasure in hurting people, then you cannot be good now, can you?

Of course one need not explain how fickle minded she is.

So loved the topic 🤗   And I disagree with the examples😉

Very interesting topic Madhu.. i wonder which is more dangerous.. fickle minded or bad.. I guess fickle minded people are whom I should be more alert of and bad .. once u know they are bad ,.. u can set ur mind that they are bad Edited by munnihyderabad - 11 years ago

I laid my empirical thoughts above but did not link it to the characters on SNS. As this is the DOTW it would be greatly appreciated that this is regarded as mere discussion and not bashing of the characters. Edited by swasthi - 11 years ago

Great post Madhu.  To me the more "dangerous" person is the fickle minded one.  With a bad person you know where you stand.  The majority of those will be clear in their intentions.  

Superb views everyone..
I agree with Swasthi on Ahem and with Xari on Rashi😆


One can be called fickle minded when they keep changing their wants and decisions. But the thing with being just fickle minded is, they cannot make a decision but they let others make a decision for them a lot of times. They are not great decision makers you see.

One does not see that with Rashi. You see her want something and she does not stop until she gets what she wants.. Whatever way she can get it, she will get it. Take the baby for example.. Rashi wanted to a baby. Rashi got a baby. The watermelon, puppies were all only the stepping stone to her ultimate wish. Then how can she be considered fickle?😕 Just asking😛

Yea since this was the first dotw i was posting I was a little apprehensive if I could convey my question properly so used the characters of sns we can relate with! But guys my question is arent fickle minded sometimes favorable on what we choose and decide?

and friends I would agree with what you all have said about ahem but dont want to edit my post as its a part of discussion 😛