tejaswini- fab post! Loved every word and so rightfully said! :)
Afss - It is very weird to see, how much marriage and life and adversities changed Ovi and made her more mature. She was shown to be stupid, and blondish and also immature while drinking and harming the baby. Even Onir said she is like a petulent child waitign for Arjun to shower attention on her. But look at her now. She has apologized for her mistakes to Arjun with regard to the baby and troubling him with her tantrums. She has made peace with Arjun and Purvi's past and also has slowly accepted Purvi as her sister. She undeniably bonded with Onir also and gave him the proper "jeejaji" treatment. She came aroudn to love her baby and take care of her. At the hospital too, she had very genuine emotion for Purvi's loss, showing how much she has matured and changed over time.
Purvi on the other hand, has been dumb before marriage and post-marriage she has been way more foolish. She is the immature one, not Ovi. She makes decisions that spell apocalypse for everyone and she does the same mistake over and over again. That shows how stupid she is. Her wild decision of donating baby within 10 seconds of finding out about the babies, shows how immature she is. She does not think through her decisions or weigh the consequences of anything. After donating the baby, within 24 hours her mamta jagoed again. She has no control over her emotions also. After donating Arjun, she kept eye locking, now same with baby.
Thinking before leaping was never Purvi;s forte and she has not grown up at all. In fact she was shown real smart and mature in the beginning, independent and fiery and now she is reduced to the blonde and dumb one in the show, making pathetic decisions and going back on them. I wish Onir would have shown some sensibility this time and kept the baby donation from happening. But then, I guess like Arjun, Onir has also lost all senses after being with Purvi.