Posted: 19 February 2013 at 9:59am | IP Logged
Originally posted by premeeristry
Originally posted by harshu.sundas
no saba, many ceremonies r very much similar to d ceremony they celebrated..
ofcourse not the ones like sindoor nd pheras, ye sab nahi hota..
but jo rituals were shown as d bengali rituals 90% we also follow..
d haldi, mehendi, bathing ceremony, rakhi, then d fish ceremony, d
mishti ceremony, paan ceremony, nd even the feet ceremony..even d mirror
nd in our case d stool thing is called Peeri in bengali, in sme cases we use Peeri and some cases palki that is te doli thingy..
so basically everything is followed.
even my cousin bhi palki pe ayi thi stage pe..
but u know saba, ajkal k modern nonsense gals hain hey choose 2 cut off the rituals..
main to jab shadi karungi, agar kabhi kiya, tou then i will follow all d rituals, as my family they do , nd did so far..
Sun phir tou kitna maza aata hoga na ...going for wedding means aram se 1 week leave....but unfortunately yahan simple se nikah hota hai n go for weddng hall say bye to bride by nyt ...no interaction with groom i mean no sali jiju interaction...mehendi hoti hai but some families are even avoiding that so no much maza for us.. except bride-groom no1 enjoys weddng these days
even saba, do u remember d part when taposh carried ONU 2 d house during d entry...nd gate mein paise dena para ONU ko..
these parts r also done by us..
gate mein paiso ki liye tou mano danga hojata hain..
nd yes its funny when d groom is carried by d bride's brother, but d fun element is ever lasting..
but there are few cermonies depends on us if we want to celebrate like 2 day of weddng gurlz n boys play with water...but even that has become rare
haan Saba, in our place wedding means, ek week ka dhoom dharaka...
nd then truut me raat ko sone ki time pe ek dhamaka hta hain, k kon kaha soyega, kon nahi soyega, kon soyega, LMAO.
.. nd humarey ghar pe tou haldi ki agey ki raat koi soya bhi bahi...
silly ppl wasted d night on faltu singing, nd i went nd slept wid so that i don look sleepy on d main event..
wow, Saba tere waha watr figt hota hain ???...
we do hv a lot of interaction wid d groom, nd saali hain bhai aise thodi na usko janey dengey..
ONU ki koi saali nahi thi..
kaash hoti, i wud love 2 see his school friend being his saali too, nd teasing him...
even u kow Saba after boubhat, d next day groom nd bride comes 2 stay at bride's house for two nd a half days, nd tab bhi bohot maza ata hain...
basically its up2 d families, if the conduct all d rituals its hell fun nd at d end of d week, very tiring...
But 2 sum up, i will never spare those TL CVs for not showing ONU's hald, his pagphera t taani's house, nd also his honeymoon..