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Posted: 17 February 2013 at 9:49am | IP Logged
Originally posted by arshi21

Well..that's how it goes I guess. I am not a mother yet but my mom has told me many incidents where she had to steel her heart against vulnerable emotions just so that I could learn.

One of them being this...

Once for my coaching my dad had dropped me on a metro station. I was just out of 10th and I knew nothing of Delhi. I just knew the locality I stayed in, the nearest market place, rajouri garden and my coaching class. 


This was a new coaching near connaught place in Delhi. Its central Delhi. And then, metro was just a year old or so in Delhi..and I had traveled by it very few times and only with mom. 

My dad had an emergency call to attend to in hospital and he left me at the nearest metro station. I knew nothing. Dad told me what and how I have to board the train...and if i have doubt, to ask the police/guards/ counter person for help! 

I just nodded because frankly, I've never said no to my dad. At least never verbally. 

I always carried pepper spray and had a mobile too then. My dad dropped me off and ...it was  six in the evening, the most rush hour as people return from office then. 

But I reached home safely. But my mom was almost in tears and didn't talk to my dad the whole time I had not reached home. She kept shouting at him and through out, my dad heard everything. Because he too felt guilty...and she kept saying that this is no way to teach a child...and etc etc..

But the moment I reached home, my dad beamed and was like "see? She learnt! And beta look! Your mom gave me an earful about this...but see, you're here and now you can travel"

My mom was beyond furious with my dad then, that's a different thing. And kept praying and calling me.

 But I became quite confident after that. 
I was scared of traveling alone and this put a full stop to it. 

:)


beautiful example
wish i cud say the same for my Dad
if I got in from one end of the metro in kolkaa
he wud stand in the other end
my mom was the one who was braver

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@attack mana...sab join karenge..
Hum double ahinshak atma haiLOL

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Posted: 17 February 2013 at 9:50am | IP Logged
Originally posted by rima

@harshu is best at collages and cc creation


Blushing as long as I have freedom Wink none of those pics are mine no MU pleej.
can I put only Sanaya pics ?? & decent Barun pics ? once I run out of siggies ?  Barun looks so shabby lately I wonder why...


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Posted: 17 February 2013 at 9:50am | IP Logged
Originally posted by DiamondLife

very rue Shreya..
Moms r moms..no one can replace them and their unlimited unconditional loveCry..I really wonder from where they get this..

Answer me..is it only with indian mothers or i dont see that love in mothers outside India??Confused



Aisa kuch nahi..

A mother is always a mother.

Be it Indian, African, American, Canadian or Indonesian or whatever..

How can a mother not care?


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Posted: 17 February 2013 at 9:50am | IP Logged
Originally posted by DiamondLife

very rue Shreya..
Moms r moms..no one can replace them and their unlimited unconditional loveCry..I really wonder from where they get this..

Answer me..is it only with indian mothers or i dont see that love in mothers outside India??Confused


i worked for a child support project in US shastru
I was shocked to see moms give up their children when they moved with a different boyfriend
but i have also seen single mothers sturggle to bring up their children
 
 
love is there
but it is more selfish in other countries especially west

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Posted: 17 February 2013 at 9:51am | IP Logged
i never pay attention to these safety thing with my parents..

Our town was so safe that time..I grew up but never sensed that i am a girlEvil Smile

My dad wil let us go anywhere ..no matter we return 2 pm ...for movie..

but yes, i saw him awake couple of times in the lobby until we return..But he never expressed..
We just hug mom and go..

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Posted: 17 February 2013 at 9:52am | IP Logged
Originally posted by arshi21

Originally posted by DiamondLife

very rue Shreya..
Moms r moms..no one can replace them and their unlimited unconditional loveCry..I really wonder from where they get this..

Answer me..is it only with indian mothers or i dont see that love in mothers outside India??Confused



Aisa kuch nahi..

A mother is always a mother.

Be it Indian, African, American, Canadian or Indonesian or whatever..

How can a mother not care?


you  will be appalled then
I have seen so many during my project work in US
 
 
Even in India I have seen some

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Posted: 17 February 2013 at 9:53am | IP Logged
@rima:

i feel so awkward when everywhere here they ask..r u married? I answer no..
Then next Q is do u have kids??ROFL

Its normal here...

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