15-16th Feb Case Discussion

Hi kriya...arja!  Thank you for making the post.

 

I agree  with the points you have made.  Althought I feel bad for the lady and her parents, but the truth is that she was no saint.  I mean why on earth would you get involved with:

 

Yes, even in countries like Canada, it's always "I want a son."  And the worse part is, most of the time it's not the father who's under "I want son" pressure, it's from the mother - it's actually the mother who prefers to have a son.  It's absolutely disgusting!!  I mean I understand in old days, it was because of dowery and all that, but now a day, girls are standing on their own two feet.  They're getting the education, they're getting good jobs and if it's because of sexual assualt that parents don't want girls, then there are self defences courses available (especially for girls) almost everywhere.  So what's the problem?  Why is it still hard to accept the girls?  I personally know someone who's professional (well educated and good job) and who went to India to have an abortion because she found out that she's carrying female fetile!!!  Can you believe that?  This is from Canada in 21st centeury!!

 

Danger bells should have also rang in the girls head when he refused to marry her and told her that he wants to focus on his career. She should have seen that the man is not right.

 

I so agree when you said that most people want a son now a days too. Its really sad and shocking to see how many girls are being killed as families are blind over the need to have a son rather than a daughter.

 

 

I don't mean to sound rude but I feel that they should have stopped trying for a son after having one child. It was already hard enough for them to support one child and having more made it hard for them.

 

That politican was also disgusting. He used that girl for his advantage and then when done murdered her. The thing that angers me the most that despite being convicted of murder he is still allowed to roam free and lead a normal life.

 

What is up with politician who think that just because they have power they can do anything they want to?!

 

As for the guy using her... well c'mon!!  A married man in politics messing around with a girl probably half his age... what could we expect?  That he was going to marry her and make her the happiest person living on planet earth?  Like really!!!  Yes I agree that man was at fault, but I think the girl was more at fault than the man was.  And the fact is that she accepted the money he would give her after... you know what.  So... yeah he was at fault, but she knew very well that she was playing with fire and she should've known that when playing with fire, you're bound to get burned - sooner or later.