Discussion: Let go or fight for your love?

I've heard different philosophies on love over time. Edited by -Mystery- - 11 years ago

I think that if u think the other person is worth fighting for.. The love is worth fighting for.. Then jst go fot it.. Dnt over think it.. coz u mite be losing on smthing precious :)

My favorite quote of all time is " if you love someone, let them go. If they come back to you, they are yours...if they don't, the never were to begin with" Edited by V.I.P - 11 years ago

"If you love someone, let him go. If he comes back to you, he's yours forever. If he doesn't, then he was never meant to be."

if the other person is not in love with you then there is not point of fighting ... you just need to let them go ... yes you can still love them but dont wait for them ...

it all depends on the situation...

Originally posted by: -Amanda-

"If you love someone, let him go. If he comes back to you, he's yours forever. If he doesn't, then he was never meant to be."

 

I agree with this...

It all depends on the situation really. you cant force the person to stay with you. i agree with the quote "If you love someone, let him go. If he comes back to you, he's yours forever. If he doesn't, then he was never meant to be."

but i also believe that you should fight for your love to an extent but not go extreme. Because they might just be gone forever. And if they dont come back atleast you can live with the thought that atleast you tried to make it work instead of regreting about it and thinking of "what ifs" :)

As some persons have stated, you can't force someone to love you or to stay with you. This point can be explained in a way I understand. The reason I want to be in a relationship is because I want to improve my capability to love or in otherwords, I want to improve my capabilities of being a more caring, compassionate, gentle , tender and understanding person towards a partner. The first person I am to love is myself and this love I radiate to my girlfriend. But if she doesn't feel like loving me back, I have no way to force her to love me. It is possible because of her false beliefs, she is not prepared to reciprocate my love. Then what is the option I have? I have to let her go. I don't feel I can fight for my love because that way I will never have peace. Definitely I am a caring, compassionate, gentle, tender and understanding person and the woman who finds this will love me. If someone doesn't see these qualities in me, I am prepared to let her go. Edited by maha2us - 11 years ago