Originally posted by chinyere
Originally posted by Afss
I don't know why the creatives made the leads of the show so unrealistic! Infact in real life not a single person is like them. Extremely Mahaan, Sanskari, Tyagi etc etc. Yeah I won't say that people in real life aren't good,great or sanskari. But there is a limit of all thing. How will we react if our childhood friend whom I was engaged to, falls for another girl? Will we feel very much secure with that girl? Will we be able to behave extreme sweetly with her? What will be our reaction if our parents praise their adopted daughter all the time and comparing us to them? I know even many people can't tolerate comparison with his/her own siblings let alone adopted. And phychiatrists strongly forbid to comare between children. I think Ovi's charachter is quite normal and human. She has all the emotions what a normal human being has. But yes I'll definitely say that she is kinda immature and obessive. But on the other hand it is quite normal if you look at her age. She is in her early 20. In this age people are driven by emotion and that is normal. So in my point of view Ovi is the only charachter whom we can connect to our life. (Punni charachter is also realistic in some aspects. But not totally)
sorry but normal females dont act like ovi in real life...yes this maybe an appreciation thread of ovi but making wild statements as such is not reflecting society or real life... for the simple reason many many females dont act,think or habour such behaviour..jus as their is a limit to people doing good things there is a limit of beign obsessive and getting things by snatching itand then living a life as if you did no wrong..befoe comparison with others ovi was immature...if i was engaged to someone and he fell in love with someone else ill move on because we were not married nor meant to be even though ill be heart broken.but im not forcing someone to love me out of blackmail .he owes me nothing nor do i him..i wouldnt become obseesive and snatch what wasnt mine anymore...females in the real world dont do thing like that so how can earth can ovi's character connect to people's life????how is that possible????female in the real world suffer the heart break cry our eyes out and move on
The people who are part of this AT obviously like her character. When we say we find her real, that
means we connect to her character on one or more levels. It is not just a direct statement, but also relative in that she's more real to us than any other character on the show right now. A lot of people move on when they're cheated on or when their engagement/marriage breaks. A lot of people also take much longer to move on or do not move on at all. In this case, Ovi did not get the time to take him out of her system because within a month of her engagement breaking her ex-fiance and the person she loved for a really long time, was getting married to her mother's adopted daughter. So, there was no moving on for her. There was no snatching of any kind; she proposed something to purvi which was accepted by both purvi and arjun for their own reasons. If she had kidnapped purvi and sat in the mandap in her place, then it would be snatching and underhanded.
Either way, can you please ask these questions out of the AT. We talk about the show and the characters outside the AT in Kool's thread and other topics. Maybe you can post your questions there because the purpose of this AT is to appreciate the character and the actor; and asking questions about the legitimacy of our appreciation defeats the purpose, doesn't it?