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Jus primae noctis. Clap

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Originally posted by McNinja

Jus primae noctis. Clap

You don't expect me to google that do you? Wacko

Na head, na tail kuch to batao what was that? LOL

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Posted: 07 February 2013 at 4:17pm | IP Logged

Originally posted by TheBoss

Originally posted by McNinja

Jus primae noctis. Clap

You don't expect me to google that do you? Wacko

Na head, na tail kuch to batao what was that? LOL

Literally means right to the first night. Which I first came across reading 1984. Refers to the myth about feudal lords being able to deflower newlywed virgins who worked for them. Though the movie Braveheart said it was a right practiced by kings. Either way Clap

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Wow - What a BS. People who fell for that are morons.
Good thing our politicians and other powerful people didn't read 1984 otherwise... oh wait a minute Confused

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Posted: 07 February 2013 at 5:03pm | IP Logged

Originally posted by TheBoss

Originally posted by King-Anu

I am getting mixed messages. You say

- you are experienced and "who has been mooh maro all around and ghat ghat ka paani piyon"

then you

- you have "deep rooted values that has been instilled upon me"

- you yourself are experienced

and yet you

- "consider it pretty disrespectful to be with a partner who has been already used."

first, please explain the inconsistency in your topic.

My take is that this issue is a surrogate for a more important point. It is not about used or expiry. Its about the fact that some do not want a partner who has gone through such activities with another person. Even if we put aside the moral values some cannot digest the fact that your future partner was interested in someone at some time point and at that level.

Therefore solution for such a person, who has been involved in such activities, is that he or she should focus on a person with similar past.

Note: I am not talking about cases of widowed, divorced etc.

Personally I do not mind people who are experienced as they are less of the emotional baggage, but in my culture it is expected that the girl be a virgin. A cousin of mine infact had to literally hang his blood stained bedsheet from the wedding night in the balcony just to show that he has consummated their marriage.

In another situation friend found that his wife was no longer a virgin, despite her protests that she has never been with a guy and it might have been due to physical a ctivity as an avid horse rider, hiker, gymnastics etc.

But my friend bought none of it, he was pretty determined that was absolute baloney, and rightly so I agree.

@bold, is this custom for real? Angry

Say the girl is virgin n hence she felt awkward on losing her virginity to some man on her very first night out with him...then??? Is consummation of marriage, that too in the first night, this important? Shocked

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Its not to prove your consummation but to prove the girls character. That means she is a modest girl from a honourable family.
The proving part starts a week later when the ladies start bugging her for the offspring Wacko

Edited by TheBoss - 07 February 2013 at 5:31pm

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Posted: 07 February 2013 at 5:44pm | IP Logged

Originally posted by TheBoss

Its not to prove your consummation but to prove the girls character. That means she is a modest girl from a honourable family.
The proving part starts a week later when the ladies start bugging her for the offspring Wacko

I get that but a girl who has been grown up carrying a mentality that sex is bad, how come she is forced to have sex with her husband post marriage? Why is it so necessary to f**k your husband? This looks nothing short of rape to me... Angry

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Posted: 07 February 2013 at 5:56pm | IP Logged

Please keep the topic within the realms of PG-13. One does not have to be explicit about certain things.

Edit: chalo lets not bring rajeev paul into this. lol.

Edited by King-Anu - 07 February 2013 at 7:11pm

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