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So after watching todays episode a thought crossed my mind. Does a bad action define someone? We all have atleast one character in this show who we feel has done something really bad and we have a bad impression of them. Now I know we are all thinking about our current meanie aka Asad. But I just want to rewind a little bit.
1. Shireen. So she obviously was the other woman in Dilshad's life. And whatever the new "raaz" maybe, Shireen fell in love with Rashid knowing he was married and had a kid. She married him and broke Dilshad's home. BAD. But looking at Shireen in these past episodes, I feel that she is a good woman. A little off in the head, but nice. She was loyal to Rashid, she was good to his mother, she raised her children with great values and is sincerely a nice lady. So is Shireen a bad person for what she did, or was that a bad phase in her life, bad decision making, or her being selfish? And if she was being selfish, does that make her a selfish person, or was that just one selfish act. Breaking a person's home is a big deal, and it isnt pretty. But I think that was a phase and it passed. My personal verdict: She's a rockstar(for now)
As I said, we all have characters we love to hate. So do I.
2. Rashid Ahmed Khan. Personally, I just cant seem to stand his man. So we know that Rashid didnt leave Dilshad just bc he fancied Shireen. There is a raaz. But putting that aside, is Rashid a good guy? Even if we dont talk about the past (considering we dont know the whole truth yet) isn't Rashid current activities shady also? He sneaks around to try to meet Dilshad and wants to "spend time" with her. How is that fair to Shireen? How is that fair to Dilshad? I just cant stand him. But I could be wrong. What if he really is sorry and just needs to know Dilshad doesn't hate him. Is he just trapped in this situation and needs someone to talk to? My verdict: I feel bad for the guy but he just needs to get it together and stay away from Dilshad and respect his current wife.
Now for the current hot topic character
3. Asad Ahmed Khan. So this man has ALOT of faults. Not just now but from the very beginning. And his treatment of Zoya has been beyond horrible. But is he horrible? Does his violent actions and attitude towards Zoya negate his love for his mother and siblings. Is he a good guy from taking care of his family, protecting them (even the ones that one live with him)? Or is he a bad guy for his very back-dated view on women and his violent treatment towards Zoya. And does this actions towards Zoya define him? Can a person be a good son/brother and still be a bad guy? Or is this a mistake that Shireen's mistake. One that can not be rectified but overtime can be overlooked if he continues on a better path. Or is this it. Is this even something he is doing on purpose? Is it premeditated? Or impulse? does that even make a different. The action is still the same. My verdict: Horrible deed but I don't think it defines him as a horrible person. (Hopefully, this was his all time low and serves as an eye opener to his views towards women and also that he NEEDS therapy ASAP)
So does one bad deed define us? Or are we something bigger than our individual actions. What is the deciding factor? Time? Intention? Action?
This is an open topic for everyone to participate. I just wanted to open this because I think in place kind of needs a few neutral topics that aren't attacking anyone, celebrating anything, adding more negativity, or revolting against anything. So please keep it that way.
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